熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
! C$ L3 P% e7 Z! m- H2 @) _0 H+ @% [好唔鍾意呢種感覺
/ Q: K/ V) v+ t2 |琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心, F; [' E+ s9 @/ B! C' M2 e3 F% @
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣8 _5 Z, Q% l8 G: f$ p  j  ^
覺得好空虛
- P* h$ t# e$ N* M1 Y! z其實早幾次都有試過係咁0 B' `$ c7 s: @) f; ?7 o
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己. Y7 a! p7 f' n* l1 {
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?$ N+ o% x" R" F/ D6 y5 o2 |; V* `( }

% ]  J2 b7 c7 Z[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,1 f6 P" @3 l( ?  f6 i. _/ W+ l
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
1 q) H! B1 Z+ ~9 U+ o5 i6 F熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
% k8 s: c' B+ A$ n$ t! U. G所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,5 L+ u% s6 W" i) \: q
日日有車站,
" ~. S( T2 z$ }+ w有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙' m( j* b% [1 t6 i+ t& `
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
* z+ i- h2 Y* m! |如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

# d, a$ B" n% ?* }) l" d我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.% @2 J- T$ h8 w3 T$ g; b, L
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞... w, @6 d; F* e& ], u
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.. E1 a- _) T; O8 l; [
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:7 ?, J5 A, V1 r5 h) x
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
+ a; I( r) \3 R所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,! ^' u4 G, E5 f% O# w& c& }
日日有車站,
9 ~0 G% K- D- t1 j有目標!

& w* ]8 _; S  }6 F& y* Mwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:; j  c5 f: M2 j5 D$ }
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
  m! g) M$ _# _好唔鍾意呢種感覺
3 _% O5 J" G9 g; I: n& m! v+ [琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心! m# o* c$ z, I) C
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
% N' R" f  z3 I" E5 l% c' b9 \覺得好空虛, I( I; ]# E3 c. E/ c& N. ~- L* k
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
  t& f, [5 r: }卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己4 g* R3 c- N1 d
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?3 _! v6 h' X% |/ v

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1 H/ [4 |% K9 ~  u6 t這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
' q5 D6 [+ R6 ^1 a8 k唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.9 D2 _0 T2 o9 Y; C3 G1 J" w
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
$ Y$ v' m& J; D: f% ma) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long% G# T& `* @: R  `9 J
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.8 y, Y# \2 E: ?- v) }
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.- r# N! ?6 W4 ?8 v
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Just another thought on lonliness:9 ?! X1 W& g) j( N& e
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
0 m3 {  N# k6 ]1 b: n/ z$ fBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
6 {3 m; M  w. P5 u0 e5 E; U+ W( z我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
+ f' x3 D* D; h2 E+ }9 ~' {4 G* y) a就好似睇完一套好睇的電影, A' S. T+ y% ^& V2 t* i) [2 b* K# U& N
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～, {* a8 J  e' b) ~* S0 m
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
7 |1 J9 B/ j1 f- l5 ]: F) g5 o很少會超過一天～
( t- y8 U* o3 X" |, |# J+ T要期待更好的明天呀！