熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
/ k' t7 W  }2 U4 Y好唔鍾意呢種感覺
  R9 \5 z( h1 S& U( F2 k9 A琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心% |3 H4 G" ]4 C- p
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣: F& [; V! u* L* j; `% F/ d0 n, n) d' w. T
覺得好空虛
' h6 ]! H. w# J& k0 L2 c9 `. I其實早幾次都有試過係咁
. o( b- ^  F3 M! d3 n/ D/ @8 E卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
3 G! L8 Z9 J9 J8 ?9 ~4 y用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?) [/ {" x# [5 b7 k/ y5 ^* d5 I
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
1 e  Z2 f$ q( F0 p+ Y3 x但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
* q' X3 Y) s8 J* p: k熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,$ ~# ~  Y' z- z, G' F; g" D5 \
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,6 f2 E0 U5 \2 F. a9 O$ g
日日有車站,
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taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
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markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
& h- [* ], ^: O$ m' b如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

( T9 \9 w7 z2 k  O我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.5 `8 D' E1 V! V6 R# E
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
: F# u) T4 }* ?1 Z' Z( d% t玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
9 X: x/ R, t8 `; Z總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
7 i. e* z! O) B其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
& g; n5 L2 u0 ~* i1 d所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,, R- I2 {% m& u. o( @& E
日日有車站,& e) p* c0 w! d* E& B) f2 e% D
有目標!

5 @) ?. W4 l0 @8 Nwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
) U9 ]4 {+ c  H  I0 s8 G2 V( z如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
) m2 x; a- r5 ?- R+ L6 w1 x. [好唔鍾意呢種感覺0 s5 ?' |! @3 W+ H$ E1 f
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心$ c8 b5 E3 t. A3 I. l7 J! r. m. U! K
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
3 e: M1 P+ m6 \覺得好空虛
7 y. E, E7 {1 G其實早幾次都有試過係咁
- T* a( @- \  ~. r0 Z  S卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己- U6 U* k" q( @- \0 R
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?) W  I: {# V! e% h. S+ j

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
% G7 r/ C1 A5 b5 Z7 F+ @7 t唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
* P8 d; y1 s0 D, J! k4 V有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:* A; O! Q& M9 d1 K, c- N
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
7 C+ g* U% I  sb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.$ U/ u0 w9 H/ S% @" d. n& f
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.$ S6 t( `: ~' Y1 d3 ^
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Just another thought on lonliness:
: P/ n( k& }9 L( ^* y) DLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....2 S. e/ l- u, X) N2 C
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～& ?: F8 z( ~$ n6 x
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
4 Q, ?8 r( B0 e. F+ E就好似睇完一套好睇的電影3 E% R7 U4 {+ m
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～, `' s- q/ c/ ]$ j3 P% }
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
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要期待更好的明天呀！