熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?6 ~! Q' s; L3 j* h. ~" y
好唔鍾意呢種感覺; y" H6 i2 e+ M' Z% `& v$ U
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心7 K  b1 E9 i! q, f+ F! W+ M' d
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣  h+ @$ h1 g* O
覺得好空虛
  j2 s; K+ o$ h7 z9 U' p4 K其實早幾次都有試過係咁
9 _' d" [1 |. _( x' @) Q+ t- a卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
$ T: b, m4 a$ i* k用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,0 W/ i5 O* K, @) n5 o$ I
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
/ x$ i& r# B1 m( p  N/ v熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,, H/ [' M4 |3 `) ?# C* `
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,; _9 [9 O0 A! J
日日有車站,
# D6 e6 ?3 X, _- `, e" i; q$ u有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
- x5 \3 a2 }; M0 I你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
, I- P# j0 _8 z6 d6 S5 A* M7 Q3 ?如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
6 P- G# N+ o6 G7 ?" v$ n* t2 h6 r0 p感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..8 F0 x* u# x# x# s
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
6 g1 B) L9 |$ y' C* f( m* f總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:9 \8 j4 S" \& Q% ~4 t5 X
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
; j$ h/ z+ `$ L9 Y所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,: e% P5 {5 g+ R- u
日日有車站,
- s$ I$ t7 P/ q2 j, \0 T8 ~! h0 j0 ]有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:7 ^% k3 V, p1 U2 ~9 g$ {  r$ E
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
# J! J3 n( t; ?4 h好唔鍾意呢種感覺
* N; I( S- g8 h' C+ ]* |1 K0 ?琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
. p' Z, ?6 L) F個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣* B$ V' z) [6 I/ ^4 U7 H# o8 I8 |- ?
覺得好空虛
6 |! h2 Z( S( [' g, {. `: Y- P) Q其實早幾次都有試過係咁
  W$ k3 L: u$ e  h2 Z) F$ k7 r卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
. E. i# w) M1 W4 V* k* P. S用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
1 X7 {0 b& r8 ?: l( V" \唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.! S. l& j4 g$ k9 y2 t6 \) X
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
# C6 f: F9 T+ Y7 Na) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long6 a- Y% ]% x$ z: N  I/ m0 n8 H
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
- O7 B0 e$ x  t! o) f( d$ Rc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.7 t; [) I" m' |2 H3 n( ^; }) W
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Just another thought on lonliness:
; o1 u0 N/ _8 j$ C, q' l7 R0 CLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....3 b" H* e7 r, E
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～  i# O" n% Z9 |% e- b8 n& s/ Z5 u  R
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺- p. V4 ?! O( J
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
+ C& v' G! U) u) ?9 ^或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
9 Q- x4 b$ ^; Q, ]% h# n/ e8 s0 J4 W空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
! @' {5 q$ A$ `) ^5 P5 N9 m很少會超過一天～% N+ H  [/ v8 K
要期待更好的明天呀！