熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
6 x4 f6 k! q$ r2 X: `( T好唔鍾意呢種感覺
7 a2 F6 Q. @  {! G) E4 _: {( m琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心" d- A' c2 x( w6 ^" j, n
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣3 F8 P- k& P! H6 @9 ^8 [% M, a
覺得好空虛. N! x3 S) W5 z/ }
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
$ s! K2 F; X) o# B卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
% ~" {! N/ }/ ]/ P' l用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?! D4 E9 P% P& S; V
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
3 K7 @/ s0 A8 \0 b5 M2 A但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺/ r( E4 c, J) b* W2 o* E
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
% ^* u* _* C. ?所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
( v6 a" e5 E  T8 L& @: o日日有車站,$ A: N+ N) g9 g- |6 j7 O) y
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
: }3 L1 d( g+ C# L! I0 W你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
1 p) s5 N+ k2 P7 i如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

2 b% H& u$ ]" X7 N+ X& ]7 m) Y! n- f我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
) b+ h- E8 w0 a' O6 D9 }* l感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
$ Y2 ~+ A1 e7 C: H玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心." b3 ?" R$ T( |9 N# y6 C3 S2 }
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
: h9 F1 }1 e# s; \; ~其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
+ J5 ?6 }5 b1 ]所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
2 E# F# x* i8 T# O3 n% h日日有車站,) o+ A: l/ k* B# ?- l
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
, a, b& q1 `9 W/ c7 @& k如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?3 R5 h( b. G* h8 h. j  m
好唔鍾意呢種感覺7 Z2 Y' r& V4 l3 U9 V1 I
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
+ l; D, C. }) B% W4 ]個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣+ K& B& b, `# a9 f4 Z
覺得好空虛: w* a: r- j4 e' X( p7 i0 ?$ W
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
( B' Q+ E8 a+ a1 Y  T" v5 v: \卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
/ f1 _$ R8 ^" P; ~: E6 B用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?7 T+ U% E. V8 `" l+ o% a

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.+ a. R; m: Y- r/ X6 B* ~2 x' V- E
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
6 k# h4 ~( _* _4 @2 a2 W& n有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.& x' n; Y7 H. a, d9 d
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
; G) F* I- ^7 X5 C% @4 w2 Z' y% J, Va) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
7 h& e8 a/ s- O: U3 D# K3 \b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
/ k! |' [& G( t8 {8 Jc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.% i3 Z( m; u' }6 H

: {. e  @. y3 z. q% {Just another thought on lonliness:
/ ]- M0 d# N1 BLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....+ C! v1 P( p5 u
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
1 o& _3 `, h; `& @2 K) `我會有一種十分空虛的感覺' c% z/ Z  Q4 {- s6 @2 }0 v, x
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
; c0 m( G! x) K8 }' f+ t! t/ R或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～3 M+ v8 m# n) F$ W# Q
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
2 R& B  C. x2 {5 _: k3 H* G很少會超過一天～
/ g. ]* h# k8 }5 M要期待更好的明天呀！