熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?% K6 _, p6 C- H1 g; i4 @
好唔鍾意呢種感覺6 }2 q: [/ W6 C; {1 K
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
6 W) o  Q$ X  q' c! E7 z! C個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
. a( P% w+ T/ E+ b  D覺得好空虛
  I% m3 w4 d# K3 x4 ]6 v* {% O( ~其實早幾次都有試過係咁4 d/ L( u- S3 c9 K
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
8 \0 Z  F% X! m5 A; Z7 U用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?5 p3 y6 q6 Z7 ?# y/ `& C8 P
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
  z( E7 j, x3 M# g; E2 C( f/ M但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
$ x/ i, \# ^9 @9 Y( E8 Z% Z熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
; \6 }3 ^8 Z4 g8 Z/ q& c' I- S$ @所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
6 O# J7 \& k! m5 D# \0 h日日有車站,8 O; ^6 ?3 N3 B5 s& k
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙- J3 _3 ^  o) c/ `& N
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:( B' q5 U( G8 p# W9 k4 S
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

5 g$ f# `  n, G& h% h7 E我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
" B$ b) A2 w& ?. Y/ n) `感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..0 S$ f) A$ z- I. U# W/ `" }9 x7 N3 m
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
) R* E: L& A- ^% w$ J- {總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
: M8 ^% Q( k( U% J9 I其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,! K- b2 r: {/ C+ v6 `$ ~
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
9 `. }% {. y0 U3 M6 \# s# W日日有車站,* N- T$ s% B7 J; E0 G* Q' r) Y7 A. ?
有目標!

; W( ]! i4 t1 V/ ^what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:5 q# d0 I* |* T8 c/ k! c' B
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?! b7 ], n2 A" k8 _9 H7 e2 F
好唔鍾意呢種感覺1 u( Y( ~. m/ Z
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
: W, j( f2 T5 I. d個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣3 o! d0 T& M5 _* F
覺得好空虛
% H- w& S9 X0 ?' y: Q- M9 x/ u5 D其實早幾次都有試過係咁
* G9 v; j. b  l# w, d卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己3 n9 n! \# H2 n# D) u" B, m1 i
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?: q( z/ _' i; |( {

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" p' L' v$ ]. X, H0 B這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.  v2 T7 m+ [( c' `4 [, _
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.+ h9 U' c  t( X& k0 Y, L) Q
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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& \( |9 P( E- j  g# }7 jPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
+ Z! _' F: f( O: |a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
8 D3 n: q( u4 A4 [b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
; [5 \) ]) o8 Y2 s/ G; Kc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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% ?2 c6 P+ k; l0 K/ S# qJust another thought on lonliness:
3 p9 |3 Y4 j6 Y! p$ WLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
/ S9 J/ _) ?1 ABut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～- ]2 O' [. `7 V
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺. }9 Z0 X# Q5 B2 K7 y) ]
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
' a" w0 p3 X$ c或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～7 @; b9 v' [3 j- N6 \2 S8 g4 V
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
5 J2 l, U6 ]5 R& Q3 H9 n! B很少會超過一天～0 F; q5 B0 v+ L, @# s) ^5 a4 w1 j9 ~! c
要期待更好的明天呀！