熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
% ^& O0 y9 Z! q4 O1 z5 I6 R, B! z# o! i好唔鍾意呢種感覺
( q4 x9 e5 c' g6 \. n琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
5 K' x& p  ]: V/ v9 u個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣- G3 M8 x# E- t4 X* H2 Q
覺得好空虛
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卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己3 E, G$ N" G, E$ M
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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' f1 z& w* {$ W8 N/ }. v! ^4 B[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,2 P) _4 B: u& W; N9 G$ c; C% ~; j
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺7 ]3 N0 {  J, u' ?. h1 |% J" d
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
- q, A* t6 R4 s所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
. d0 E: a2 A& u6 P* J日日有車站,
2 p. G6 `# G1 N9 b& V: P* q有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
) M) D5 q+ j8 h8 e) U7 `$ g4 p你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:  M' ^/ n; c' Z
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶." V/ n5 @8 b) ]9 }0 W
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..  d+ O0 [. D6 G6 a! q
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.3 F, C3 W/ y2 I: _/ }0 o* H& q
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:, ^+ j" I& J3 [! z4 C! H
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,/ K# D. z$ @; [5 F, U1 P% m) {$ u
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,& R0 o3 S- U' A+ \
日日有車站,
2 i1 A9 V+ |. _# U有目標!

9 {* C' W; [! E2 H1 v% |/ vwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
$ q, P0 V( r5 w9 M如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
, |" ]& y& J" E7 G- O好唔鍾意呢種感覺
: l, I: u& W- ^3 Y9 y) Q琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心2 m% A5 G3 ]" \: n# A
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
( Z1 u. R) p; e) l0 d% L" u. z0 w  z覺得好空虛
: f  O8 k( M9 ~- ?4 j4 f# ^0 A其實早幾次都有試過係咁
" S7 l0 [8 ]# k* b卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己2 v; O7 E0 O7 u% J+ M
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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0 g; t4 [+ ^: y7 T! Y這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.% D! L/ B" x+ J9 L
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.' x: D1 y6 M  O" D+ X# r
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.9 ^1 S3 O3 `# r/ o/ S

# {  {9 H# E5 hPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
+ \  l- k" w( S5 ha) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
$ m1 W. M+ R3 P: M0 [; T& V) \9 cb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
7 t  n, N( f% Oc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.' C( K4 w6 p! @3 Z4 m
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Just another thought on lonliness:
. a, B' g7 {0 F5 @" gLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
# B5 U7 g6 |3 d* W) X  v( vBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～9 Z6 ?! ?4 K/ y' c
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
2 Z8 N, t# a2 ]+ O3 H: J" d就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
1 P9 _7 h5 Q8 h; ]' J6 k或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～5 x) u, @  X& H+ Z6 s% D% ?/ l
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
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+ D& O: A$ b1 \+ B" \3 O要期待更好的明天呀！