熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?1 Z' [% N+ k7 E9 r
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
8 J% `6 U+ _  U! x9 J' W琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心& l2 G; f, c: I
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
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7 B6 a2 z5 b! S6 P其實早幾次都有試過係咁9 s0 g& h) N2 z' \/ W8 @2 E
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
; e7 U' I8 C: B, ^  a8 N5 D. A用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?6 N, g; e# L7 d' i6 l/ i* U
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
' i: g4 ~, i- x但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
" q8 w: U( n- H2 x9 b- t& `( E熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,: e  W! s+ J, t- f& f% K) W2 L0 X) f
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
! r5 @$ J2 A' u日日有車站,
' }; R4 T7 y! r4 Z+ {( [& n9 P有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
8 `" ]3 k2 t3 F: b. b+ c你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:# ]! }7 M! F- G, X- F8 s9 k- ~+ B
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
* M' ~3 W2 Y$ r' s2 Z- B; G- k感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞... l7 {# b# @1 |! @& a- f9 g
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
  j2 W% |/ I7 B& q: g  X$ X總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:5 U4 G6 |. _" D! Z. @  u8 s5 E
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,( \' X+ x! @$ Z6 [6 b+ p, P# m: n; _# ]
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
/ ~2 h0 a5 {# z8 _* }. W& R日日有車站,8 h% o3 L' M! i+ U4 s, a3 L
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:9 `5 B6 M4 ~! _  Q3 `4 g
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?3 F4 I9 l* Z0 d' @0 Z! z
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
% ]: w. Q4 z1 J( \* J4 k( g琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
# ^) m- x  p' s* {% }個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣9 J( ?  `3 m& ?6 @/ i
覺得好空虛9 r7 o; S, [; [. c1 `9 n3 w
其實早幾次都有試過係咁: d) ?1 e2 k, [' T/ c. J9 q( b0 {
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
* t" J  `4 _" X用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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- g8 v5 |4 U% F$ v這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
- I! a( o* w' B+ D" C$ D! \唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
2 N" {$ c& L; l. Y, D2 |  |有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:) I# ~3 A8 N$ M' V9 ?5 ?6 z; d
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long* J" G* r# C5 ^; U. [/ E% K) K% @
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
; |  ~( v0 n+ x/ Ec) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:, ~4 e0 N, E$ C1 ~2 s3 G( E) H
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....- E- k" J: B+ r$ W/ t* l
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～# w4 G3 T9 ~$ I2 s
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
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或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～7 _$ ^2 B/ T/ l, n" e2 H  z
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
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要期待更好的明天呀！