熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
7 I" B; \, F& V0 G4 N/ U- Q好唔鍾意呢種感覺  e0 U0 t+ x9 R! C9 i2 H3 z9 D
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
0 ]: j  x6 ~- A個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣, P. I' Y: p/ J6 G" X5 c
覺得好空虛
% m# j5 ~7 `: ]" A+ X+ A其實早幾次都有試過係咁( v* F2 V+ S* ?( w* t  [! T
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己! y* K/ s6 S# r7 n( O
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
  [" {* e7 Q- p# D- F$ q5 b但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
% L4 M  F* ?6 o8 S$ M熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
; x, c6 |" k# h  L* E" [3 c所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
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有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙! t+ e% n* R8 t
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
* L, K; N% O; R/ z  O& Z! u$ e0 g. c2 @如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.$ F8 f  j) X0 b& X' Q3 A
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
9 Y* U' _' ]" \; x# y玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.7 S# x" g8 t' z* Y" n6 R' ^
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:; S! f+ d. u  @6 y+ M+ k
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,# O4 T" n9 S. Z. R' g% [3 C
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,% L) W' t" V5 k0 E
日日有車站,
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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
! w3 Z1 u" o2 p5 R5 r- p6 d3 J' c3 h如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
3 X# S$ y8 l3 K* X: v好唔鍾意呢種感覺
( w7 u! e9 q, }# z2 Z; U" C琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
: y4 C  a, t8 d- k" V+ }個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
0 y  O! j* f* N' u覺得好空虛
* Q4 X$ G/ f9 g其實早幾次都有試過係咁4 k5 b' k( c( n0 H9 M
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
5 h) H1 R( [, w6 O$ r用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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) |3 T$ k3 E5 R/ y這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
6 m  C" e, b- G; W7 y唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足./ p- ]" r$ J6 _5 }7 k+ z3 t+ z
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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. ]. A& M0 h- l  }$ UPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
7 K* p; v3 k% Pa) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
0 O5 J! d- }0 F1 I) db) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.* @5 ]; I* n" }& ]
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess." t! z6 {) K6 t+ l7 q% H% I
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Just another thought on lonliness:; k: ~' V3 X% U
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....9 Z' i( l8 {2 |& r
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
/ r/ `- ]$ V, q' Z! l% _# z我會有一種十分空虛的感覺9 J' T2 n' C" \, U
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
/ k( c+ \" O3 u) g4 [) c或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
) C. J5 H7 p$ ^; j: ~空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
7 D' ?" {7 g9 q: }" ]# P4 g1 Q5 S很少會超過一天～2 K. B5 i3 s- H
要期待更好的明天呀！