熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?' f( h+ x7 i+ Q% d$ z
好唔鍾意呢種感覺/ q+ C. r1 ^0 L
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
3 U- J, x# e  p4 r6 x個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣! n! j6 w  ^0 x- }* M. I
覺得好空虛* A8 n& u0 r7 i$ x/ N
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
' }' B  @4 \0 I1 ]* N8 J卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己4 P# K5 U7 }* M
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?6 |; |8 F" Y) P8 m2 |

* h/ S* ^* S9 [8 F[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,. ^" a3 g/ C' J1 V. L) i
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
% o% g9 A! h0 k" z: p熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
" J% Y9 q" t: `# e3 S所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,7 ~! n- I/ w% F* o4 ]3 _
日日有車站,
  p% V: P3 d* s1 P( ~有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙. [5 R/ A0 v; j6 {4 P$ M9 [
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
5 N8 ^. P% N9 b; B4 ~3 B+ D如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

4 h0 ?+ i" |( _0 I9 r我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.# I) A+ `  ?) [" G3 M2 `
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
5 B. Z$ O8 H! z# L0 j玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.3 D! f2 W9 y8 K' J
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:# M( B6 @# Q8 [: R; x3 J0 Z  _  b% X
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,' g4 J: G: _# ~( _, n
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,1 c. c8 ]& s! B- e- u+ h
日日有車站,
9 `" K, L$ Q. x$ Y有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
9 T) G) f& {% x. o3 _( J如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
8 B* q1 ]3 L1 v3 M1 ~: ]好唔鍾意呢種感覺/ g7 ?2 V- l- r/ D
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心" k' R6 B' t+ U9 n
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣. I% I1 L/ h* |/ I# z0 l
覺得好空虛
  C+ h7 w* N+ x其實早幾次都有試過係咁, z; J: t) M0 i1 ~8 O8 d
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己, n3 e% n$ B# H! U+ }+ o/ S/ U
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
  P2 t" I1 s* e1 h+ m

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
, E- O- U' L6 x6 t- [- q唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
  p  B2 _( y, `有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.9 Q/ X. n2 a6 F0 M* L

2 s8 H* `0 Y% R3 lPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:1 M" s, Z& X, M5 W- x6 O1 R/ {3 g
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long, ]) F$ h, ]2 v  Q3 y
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
/ r3 b+ C7 a) Wc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.6 {% ^9 a! l  F. }
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Just another thought on lonliness:/ [* k( {4 e9 r4 c8 y
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
) e9 T* `; j' s) ~But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
  z6 [9 _* f/ J! ?我會有一種十分空虛的感覺2 d3 r6 [: i* r6 X
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影2 {/ h6 y# U! e: J; |
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～  i9 h$ L' B- z4 S/ Y4 h( w% ~
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
3 j9 z* Z5 g+ M8 @0 }5 ]( G很少會超過一天～
9 s, r9 i: x* {" e0 ~% ^要期待更好的明天呀！