熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?- @' V& c# t1 e8 n) ?6 Q
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
3 A6 u/ |: o  j3 D琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心" {; C7 O1 F4 E; @
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
6 u3 V  l/ V. r) V" B4 t; A) r覺得好空虛, D( U$ f1 s( X9 P
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
8 \3 I8 ^2 G/ f$ C+ P  _) z卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
( ~7 E# F! R# F6 N4 r$ p. J用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?$ J& F+ b7 ?; g# s7 b

6 D* ~6 k3 e  ?( ~[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,3 o, ~3 {, v  u. w2 ^1 O
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺0 `* w( n. r- }0 X2 v
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,5 L& e; b3 m8 ?8 A  ?& W# ]. w
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,4 r9 F, ?6 `0 O. ]: m
日日有車站,3 W3 J7 U7 }/ U5 t# t& R. Q3 o$ ?
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙) m, a, s/ q& o+ ?3 C% G9 H
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:+ x: p2 H/ [+ |0 j4 ?& V
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

  O, P# N. i9 X& q( d3 ?) h我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
7 {) p, Y7 B+ p感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
2 x$ I) l4 i0 U8 X8 P+ t  y玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.  V, \- ]) d% Q. B! W! z. {
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:) j* E; D% u% J& w' F( |
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
% W/ ^, C* ^; j所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
" K0 j4 F7 R3 U# r4 g日日有車站,
8 E/ j/ F3 f5 N4 A有目標!

8 |- e, Y7 u. e, q) D9 Jwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:. E0 g) p/ n" V+ r2 ~" N
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
' ^, X" ?. D  c) f# U2 F' `好唔鍾意呢種感覺
4 |6 S1 d# o. t琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
* Y; L& J7 H/ N9 k& Z個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
9 ~* o/ C' ?% A: j: v覺得好空虛
' _7 Z7 @9 H- C' V/ ]$ r& F0 W其實早幾次都有試過係咁
7 t$ O) |3 n& P卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
3 O. d7 z  g/ y& [( i用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
* ]8 n3 c1 O: |% d1 V1 N% d/ R

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& ~2 z1 e: a* _, H+ c8 j' k這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.; m- v( U1 B  D$ ?5 R: U/ K" M; r5 H
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
- ^4 `) }/ `4 T0 U) T有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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7 o- o4 _  S+ X6 B0 U5 tPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:' ~. k5 b. U$ s; F7 c  ^4 U1 b
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
0 F. {- Q0 d8 K( v3 {: ~b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
' @9 q1 x( U1 v9 m- Bc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.; {* u3 f4 {! P% T4 C, n

8 f& ^* A* O* c, HJust another thought on lonliness:) [5 G  e/ Z8 ]3 d' A
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
9 G1 \, B. T  eBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～: i# {- s) w9 }& U7 c, k
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺" r! |% d; a% E+ G0 h
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影7 p  H4 B4 X; l3 ]% J8 s" v  z
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～3 i) e; g9 v3 N9 \3 h. [' \/ [
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
9 L6 T  j" R) D% B+ n, f很少會超過一天～$ n% y; U2 x4 f  U/ w" ~$ h9 b
要期待更好的明天呀！