熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?3 d$ L# L" |: S! P3 S
好唔鍾意呢種感覺7 }( K" E9 `+ b- W
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
. B6 N& d. w% N: z個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
  ?$ Z  B' z2 ]  x# S# ?+ C覺得好空虛
" r7 Y4 @( f) z: N: s其實早幾次都有試過係咁
) |# _* g4 D" o+ \5 Q5 v* k) z5 Z卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己& g$ l; [  w& T/ c
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?. f. I9 l$ y. m/ b& `# g/ X* e) e, w

7 v3 w% ~  Q. U, p$ x2 l; m+ Z[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,& F/ G) }6 `) c
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺- {3 v. P2 {" G; Q
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
5 p/ {: V$ b5 F9 L1 W" b所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,4 V) ~1 e& y$ Z# e9 s
日日有車站,
" e, U: y! X: N, I% s有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
( m( X5 Z( C3 q7 B你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:2 H8 Z5 y  W- H' v( b
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.2 v+ P! D5 W- W* {, a
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..5 f3 c) l( O' i* i
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
+ U2 t) \, b: w9 ~8 d- M總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
2 v7 C2 k: l- R' p# j: ?其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
/ l9 j; y' O6 ?. X- `8 q: m5 n* m6 x所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
8 f  [& r* t7 W日日有車站,
3 I) e1 h: S) N# R) `, p有目標!

- K9 l) {% a5 e' e9 |what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
! q- I: n4 s7 T& c如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
8 p" v1 `0 a4 u- t  H: O好唔鍾意呢種感覺4 ]! \8 L. i+ O0 P0 y- I
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心+ p- o- K( S+ \. \7 ~3 C
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
. L+ I- @" f8 V9 l# ?0 L9 o覺得好空虛  L2 F$ ~( |& \1 P$ v' t8 |8 C& q
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
, ^1 m) g0 u9 N! Y/ e  T! i卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
0 q' z. r$ F* x. W用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?, G5 b6 q9 w, ?

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.$ r5 A% Y" F- Q
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.. m! ~( n7 I" |8 ^3 A
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
- y' I5 W! _) x- f+ ta) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long, p: e. j, }- _; F
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
- s9 J& N' z. e* [c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.: F* S! V. H  l* Y& ]
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Just another thought on lonliness:
5 ^/ ~" n, u( _4 Z* W% BLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time....." w% {0 o1 R; t, R+ E
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～+ x) t+ K' f- B  h# Q
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺( U3 m% t1 D2 J4 n! @
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影9 t7 A, f3 \) W2 @$ x+ _) I1 b
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
  b- o( U! b: q/ i9 H" c6 ^) }空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
. }8 m6 d& F  U- p6 i5 Q. \很少會超過一天～3 H+ t. i6 W* M) F
要期待更好的明天呀！