熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?/ l! E) U, w$ a$ [9 v. E
好唔鍾意呢種感覺( C/ z! A  [! _( v
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
5 _/ J- q- w7 B# T& y/ Z. b個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
2 l1 `9 [4 k, G* ?: X9 l覺得好空虛
/ M9 V: C: h" v9 s. W0 i其實早幾次都有試過係咁- N* D1 |& i$ ?, ?+ g
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己+ L4 w; r( n' e) t9 t1 H
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?& w6 @4 \/ h1 ]. @. V; N* |' w

. k7 X4 z: P4 m6 @$ H0 A[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
) [8 R0 j$ ^5 W6 u  J% R但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
9 S) }* l) U+ Y% W7 e# ~( S% t熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,; M6 N9 s: N7 A3 c5 c# a2 T
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,8 Z' i$ I5 ?/ `, x/ s3 Y. I
日日有車站,0 L, n8 u* l$ f+ f- x. a
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙8 W$ r( q5 \3 q% q8 Z2 N2 S
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:2 @$ y& C3 h8 q& u- }
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

8 O' [: N# U& ^( }* O: G" k我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.' {5 o& \1 b5 E7 d; U  d) H
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
% X* W$ n( Q- Z6 [, e5 r玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
& o% s. Q+ H6 Q/ |7 N總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
1 }, s4 w" Y, v  `8 U. l4 D其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,; F+ f! d* Y% Q+ }6 ~+ T
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
1 N0 n2 O  i  K% U) _- W( s, d' C日日有車站,. K& e: ~" B7 N' O& f+ }
有目標!

9 x9 f( Y5 W6 K# e6 Vwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
3 C  G* F; \5 Q( ^如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?$ m6 |6 o( ]6 {( r0 J7 E
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
+ @( J9 I- P3 A2 d' W( E琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心& ^; P9 {& ~% v+ a5 M: M3 h
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣! Y  H: \$ Q9 J- F# y6 `
覺得好空虛
3 o% Q: R* e; o2 P& Z其實早幾次都有試過係咁
) w* C4 v8 [( a0 ^  O卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
4 _% h" u/ {+ w; C- N' m用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.- U+ k6 X+ T0 O9 P# B; {9 D
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.( @$ g' S6 j6 K! b( m0 s
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.+ ^& ~' h$ X: p8 W! k' F
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
( K* S  n0 `9 v: L6 k/ Da) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long: {) s. ^+ C2 Z; I0 V3 E, W; l
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.7 U4 n* S, \$ ~. n7 e0 O% ?# q
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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+ j. s# c4 p4 d. o5 q, }% ], mJust another thought on lonliness:9 c* g7 j+ `/ C  W2 g
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....; i! k6 @) G8 p" c/ S8 r% T  J' ?" b
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～7 V4 f! a% `0 v
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
4 B* Y2 f. z7 }7 I: p就好似睇完一套好睇的電影* \$ m( u* b" W
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
. l  F( ]) ~" b. D- N空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
* m2 y! r! l8 ?( s很少會超過一天～
9 j  u3 }" y0 a5 y: s要期待更好的明天呀！