熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
% h6 o8 B( O# }2 p$ v好唔鍾意呢種感覺. R/ I9 f0 q/ @/ k# F
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
; ^& M& H' S# ~# k( w個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
! Y7 T/ z# B7 l& F6 k覺得好空虛
8 e" N5 e0 ]+ K; x* E# S7 ^其實早幾次都有試過係咁
) [& ]( l; q# d" Q  ~* L2 r! f6 V% M卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己8 A4 t, n+ i( i, D; U# i6 D
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
3 C; g5 t4 e7 ]/ V' A" a但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺6 H# c" ^! K( t6 S. h
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
& F" u  F2 Q+ m/ Q8 }: R所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
' f4 ]2 [" M% j; }日日有車站,! N3 s/ Y2 k7 S, u* M. ?: \5 O
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
2 j+ _9 ~* L; f' Y) d; z# k; |/ ?* \; Z! a你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:" k: x1 W$ J+ N, S
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

8 \1 n; w! Y3 i: c2 N6 N/ R, _% d我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
0 |( j+ c/ ]8 m9 n  s感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..3 b6 F4 J' n1 c5 M0 r% }* s
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
% P  G+ B, N+ B- {0 x! _! ?% y總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
, C  Y. q. j& P- [2 s3 D% j) T& B5 \5 \其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
" ~4 v& I6 ^/ p' [所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,9 u" }2 P3 I5 a5 r4 ^) X, |1 V$ W
日日有車站,3 ]4 Y; R2 _2 G8 B
有目標!

0 {/ }- `# s" e. }  T  Y  Ewhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:3 X4 U/ p7 ~; y" [, m
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?2 X) x0 Z( z$ w  d
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
3 X: K* t/ q/ L4 G9 [2 B琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
& R! ~. z9 r" o4 k4 e/ r9 e3 h個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣" c" n# r  S- P, E  @3 @
覺得好空虛) p% z. m. N! |0 G# E7 z$ s* }
其實早幾次都有試過係咁, H, l# }8 O6 i$ F7 C& D
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
9 W# @3 ^& ]0 M5 Q- A用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?" u- t* X& J% k; I! M+ Z

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* @' Q# b6 B. ?( k: ]這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
! t: ]- M  M% s2 I/ X唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.$ }' l/ g0 j, w7 Z
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.+ O# g, O8 i1 K, w# ?. B1 L

; M; d6 J) z* ?1 t1 ~* B& a7 TPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
6 A. M- Q" N2 J) r8 xa) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
0 i- q' T+ r6 g# C1 h7 n% @b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.$ M4 Q- L4 E. N7 {
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.( q' f8 c& }; A+ M, a4 e

' f1 F& K* y, s) a1 [Just another thought on lonliness:( q: t# ^: p, Z% R5 ^) v+ X4 W. ^
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....2 Q0 G  B# g0 s& q% i1 k' X- T
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～8 J  S4 j5 x" u% H. @
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺; U4 v9 t; Z' P! v0 d; T
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影  R3 d8 i0 D3 U! |# I% S. L! Z
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
# |8 W$ q2 R. l空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉" c7 R$ ^8 z! I7 b' k, c
很少會超過一天～
2 T) z/ r& G1 L/ ?3 q2 o要期待更好的明天呀！