熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?; J1 O& T8 b% f: R: E) b
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
; g- y5 q6 ?/ x( b琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
# h# o& v4 p, X( }. b* r/ g8 e個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
9 \$ Y, J3 v4 \: c% Z1 H: r. `# I0 z覺得好空虛
& C% k$ t4 C+ |- B) |' e* R其實早幾次都有試過係咁; A* s( D5 }8 O6 y1 C7 m
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
' V0 C7 w8 ]$ R用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
$ l: a5 l* S5 X8 d8 d. D: Y但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺5 a- e. [& e( }% |- ^1 p- }
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
; N+ O- \" {7 x所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
& V7 E- }9 t7 Y6 e& G4 S/ l; i6 y日日有車站,
( N9 a. ^5 E4 A+ O5 E6 ^有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙1 |/ g; d; C  ?% ]9 V& @# e1 w$ r
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:4 L( s9 D* o  p; q) s
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

( v7 E- v! }! {. Q8 R我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.  g' [, A" j! v4 A
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..1 w$ k" I8 A" C1 L6 M( S5 p3 [
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.; `; O- T3 `- v; N( |# |3 Y
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:; Y, S* y+ N7 Q
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,! j/ L% w1 N1 K& q
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
$ @! ^5 N; l" b. f日日有車站,( K8 f6 j" {5 R* |/ ~# d
有目標!

9 l. I& z+ b0 mwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
' s# E( a( ^: `$ f" r! p1 b9 ^如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?0 |  E% w3 r' ~
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
! ]& n# R! R- _9 s琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
: }# ~3 u9 A) O; u1 w% B# B5 J個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
) p6 b' W. |2 f0 M2 u& R9 B覺得好空虛
2 e* R3 Z0 g- m; ]其實早幾次都有試過係咁0 V- `' e2 B3 X0 U0 }2 f
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己! w; _+ @+ k% k5 b. M5 M- p
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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0 J! j5 V' p# Z( ]這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.4 T' q. R0 R. _2 B/ x
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
+ U5 p& V* D9 y5 D( m有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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5 Q$ A; y( d# r0 gPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:1 c  v8 @* b" l4 u
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long" w7 p9 u  P8 ^, b
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone./ }9 m, a& M  m
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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3 ]7 v7 @+ K) ]' N4 o# H4 j+ VJust another thought on lonliness:& O5 b9 s* |* u+ {' o
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....2 T7 I" R& R9 ^
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～( H) X& K8 [3 m' V2 d7 @( k
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
- e6 k+ v4 s" [6 x, `就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
" [* F) x4 r/ P0 a) t: x或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～2 l( Q; x! C4 P) ?3 I
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
3 v0 b0 n6 |' b9 F很少會超過一天～
* J, I' _# D$ \# l要期待更好的明天呀！