熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
, k4 `: X* y+ g& o9 i5 I9 o好唔鍾意呢種感覺
* d# {# i' F5 k3 Z琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
) L/ K  ?* q/ Q個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣1 A. F, m1 ?3 j2 E  x$ b
覺得好空虛4 @; }) c  Y$ ^( [/ w3 |( `
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
  ?9 A! U9 {4 H$ _* I卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
9 N0 a  G1 }" P8 P用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?: g' N% \9 @  K/ F7 e/ H
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
- U: |. `6 |7 v+ h1 k0 j! {: A4 B$ H但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
6 ?0 Z, G* e& o1 j6 y熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,5 o' F; b- i; O( D/ }
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,7 L1 P7 o3 g$ P5 J! s
日日有車站,9 M% O# P0 V8 e% Y3 h& A
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
8 a" V; \0 A% P3 Q你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
7 X; S* |  J% |- e- E3 V9 Y1 n如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
7 r" P3 }& e5 e+ n感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..4 C9 {1 t7 p' E2 k4 X
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.5 C0 F  T9 p+ f
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
8 J- V+ R' R) ?5 M, c/ l其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
3 q+ p8 I/ ?; n- E. r所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
$ V/ K, t3 W* b0 p3 d" ^日日有車站,, k# U3 {5 |5 I/ R% L. ?4 g
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:$ U) s' K( o3 R: m& b* ~- Q
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?" A( G, `% u: y  p8 j( H3 ^
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
+ t6 @# C4 ]+ |$ U琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心/ K/ {. E% P, O8 t& G
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
2 g6 r" [3 D- ]/ }: B覺得好空虛
- w3 o$ E) p9 m! D0 c) O# g其實早幾次都有試過係咁4 j4 n" q7 H8 U& t# B  i7 _
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己: P+ l1 _# l; l( j2 H+ j! M
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.) ]0 V* h5 m( q5 U
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
* \! e" z* W% F/ B% y% n有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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6 U- ~5 j5 _  y. L: M: X; QPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:2 M  D2 C. B7 h0 a3 ^, _+ m( L
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long# J  L2 d8 O& D  s4 O. e0 f
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
# r" |# R  M4 i/ G' \) X* Z, Cc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.0 Q8 w+ k/ G% e$ t* U. \5 W

, A- c% Q* B9 mJust another thought on lonliness:
6 d2 x& a, l) [% }Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....) N  \3 s: r) x* F) t, u; B, i
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
6 W8 n& @6 _; m4 G8 |/ C% J" i我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
" c$ B. c( L$ Y. n8 e4 _就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
  c0 e, O! n) s或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～# z8 N5 W1 r& V2 V% ~, ~
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉5 F+ N% W$ l$ `1 e. r/ d
很少會超過一天～
& t  s* n+ w$ P: ]# Z+ t要期待更好的明天呀！