熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
* [, r) c+ j4 p) O. r; E+ y好唔鍾意呢種感覺
8 I& n7 W' S# a! x% S5 ^琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心+ S1 a% d4 L  M3 R
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
$ l: q/ X! H% b) W# F8 d覺得好空虛
6 D4 u4 B/ ^9 r* d* x5 A其實早幾次都有試過係咁+ i$ y: v' Z4 v
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己2 w% y+ G/ H5 }6 \* L( k6 i
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
5 n0 A2 l7 |0 {但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺) A2 ~  y4 }2 V4 @3 }, G! p
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
& p  c% L4 y5 N  O/ d. I/ P6 D* q所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
/ f5 A' X( b7 X6 y! c3 Q, u日日有車站,! f. l- i/ c( A
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
, c. |( G% H$ ^8 v5 i6 t9 M- g你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:# K% b" b3 Q5 u: n3 m) ]
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
( G) D0 K2 H1 |% }感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
, z) q- h3 C0 }2 [! _玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.* |8 M) E# D" z; L
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:" x, M1 r  I, b2 P
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
* j0 j1 t1 }7 Z; i7 `5 F所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
8 g$ @- b" t0 m8 o# `6 v* ^日日有車站,. S" }# t8 o7 d1 Z) _6 m5 j
有目標!

) B4 M* p: F4 ]8 `: B0 X; v4 Hwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:0 L/ }/ T9 W4 _8 f
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
' D1 k! Q# N( T9 d好唔鍾意呢種感覺
! V$ O+ m. Q) Z4 l琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心- l) W# U( Y  {
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
8 e7 |4 D2 A& V- R  g1 s覺得好空虛
" t, H% d0 W; i1 V3 K! w  p其實早幾次都有試過係咁5 E8 l% k8 K* R( D; @, q
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
2 z7 K9 B: [& `' M& |1 ^用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?" u" g6 T% }( N! w  o

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5 B' v4 Q) W4 r, V這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.: c1 k7 Z* c* r) m" B! F2 }/ ^: \$ A  @
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
9 A: I# ~$ r: j. w8 m0 ]$ y) s有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.8 @6 u* x' B' ?

  G5 Y- I, V) c3 o9 \* }) bPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
4 D4 ~7 I! h+ ?3 ?! Aa) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
& Y) D9 c$ C0 P, S" @b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
+ p" m  ]. ]4 n! fc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.7 l, d' {: ~  U0 Y8 L* b9 l4 \
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Just another thought on lonliness:( S4 @& C. M5 o# }% K" Y7 x/ a
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
( l8 t- ]; y$ H1 RBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
- l- ?9 x- [9 _8 e! d' Y# H) ?8 u4 }我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
7 P4 t$ Y& }9 v8 w8 W/ d就好似睇完一套好睇的電影" b5 l& s3 ]! m$ [; p" ]
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～5 G/ p$ D# E9 @
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
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  ]1 [* y- E4 X6 Z; e要期待更好的明天呀！