熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
( O$ B$ Y+ J% @好唔鍾意呢種感覺5 G% d2 S8 B$ R9 T0 c( a7 [" \& o  b
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
6 M* J3 q2 {; K% u- L8 s個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
+ [+ A6 j% U5 c# f2 p% |覺得好空虛- P% Y  i7 Y3 h5 H7 p8 Z
其實早幾次都有試過係咁, T) ^4 w/ a% j/ P8 k* t
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
0 R& h  S( O, s9 U用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,1 Q9 ]. l; p( \; @6 T! Q. n0 i
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺8 q7 h1 d# Q6 U7 d$ X3 O& C- Q4 J
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,; k! F  \( @/ M/ `) q- L1 u9 J. Z
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,  |* f* j& R$ x! m9 R) Z+ ]- v
日日有車站,
- I. V5 r( _- N/ Q1 v有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙7 S4 d7 O2 J; s9 {  {( S: o
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:+ n/ V7 g8 h' u+ ~/ T$ R- u
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
' v) X  }! T" n) T感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..( {( ^" T7 G+ y6 A; J, L
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
7 v) ?. B+ S- V9 M- E5 W& s總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:- N: f/ j+ K+ c
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,% r/ B% l: f- p& n% j: q  _
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
6 c2 o) f4 C9 T1 f2 k, X$ O6 J% \日日有車站,
* R( P4 J2 ?: A. v有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:7 [8 K5 ]$ U0 B
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?# V& F. Y, `7 d% u4 A9 ~
好唔鍾意呢種感覺& ~6 g5 f/ l/ T0 U6 \" _
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
  G' X7 V2 F# e1 S  {個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣) n+ u( h6 T* n7 h; C! q, ^9 f  ^
覺得好空虛" T1 Y# z2 `* z
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
  e, S( d) R$ W- \. u, V卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己( r: o* B/ X8 O& ]* y/ P1 T" j* Y
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?( s, i- `* n9 A5 `1 a( ?" \

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" L! F% l- Z3 H8 m% o這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.- t) r+ R6 x" n  C- _: |
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.0 c6 I; U5 O! `( t
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.: f9 @% T5 n8 E, u  H5 ~) q

$ E4 h6 n/ u9 {# aPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
: Q' ?% V* ^# a" d! N' X& Qa) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long( b: _/ ~4 W! y  r
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
! X1 p% {5 F3 Z* e$ x* {' X( Nc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:0 ]: i' s3 k) W0 |; v, `7 [
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
9 N: `3 t+ C. W6 J5 {But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
7 ~0 U, U6 V1 w* n" _0 P我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
9 n" P, ~7 [& N" ?就好似睇完一套好睇的電影8 D  @) Q; p: d7 N9 x
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
1 h" U( }! U% \3 P空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉, }4 U) e7 p" E+ R* l7 y( p. I" F
很少會超過一天～
! q* K" K2 c$ i0 \/ s要期待更好的明天呀！