
Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 05:39 AM:4 Y* R9 w- {3 M O3 I
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突然而來既事,當然好難講幫吾幫得上忙,不過非一朝一夕既事,如果攞出黎傾下,或者慢慢會有轉機...........情況就好似電車男追女仔一樣(樂觀).........咁當然,我地最多最多都只係做下軍師,比下意見........而且解鈴還須繫鈴人,就算現實上都有好多問題,難以由第二個人出手代替自己解決問題........所以咩叫真實朋友,咩叫虛擬朋友都冇分別...只在於真實既朋友你可以摸到、見到、掌握到,而令你信心大D,安全感高D.........但幫吾幫得上忙又另一回事,好難講話一定得
Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 06:02 AM:( S2 [9 x3 t3 W' a- f$ h. f* I; R
補多句:處理一般問題&非一般問題
用問題解決問題,並不是問題,因為問題已經解決,但多數有手尾,但D人多數一貫都係咁做.# K( r% |7 k% \5 v9 [3 i
但用問題之外既問題去解決問題,結果問題會越变複雜,但卻會出現前所未有既轉機,雖然吉凶難喻,但總比墨守成規好.
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故事:墨子長於守城,又因為墨家思想係兼愛﹑非攻,當佢聽到楚國想造雲梯攻打宋國時,就去楚國搵造雲梯既公輸般模擬戰咁較高下(公輸般攻,墨子守),結果公輸般諗極辦法都贏唔到墨子。最後想殺左墨子,點知墨子話,你殺左我,仲有千千萬萬墨家子弟。
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 10:31 AM:$ M% ~3 D) {6 ?9 j( V: b
呢個係一個殘忍ge 事實﹐但我都會覺得換個角度黎講﹐o個d 有形有體ge frds 都未必touch 到ur heart ... 雖然話如果現實中未必真正幫到大家﹐但係我諗如果幫得手ge 都會儘量去幫lor… 呢d 係限制… 係一d 冇辦法ge 事!
不過如果唔係呢d限制﹐我地又點會係網上面玩得咁放呢? 因為冇形體有可能會令人與人之間完全冇利益衝突﹐所以先隔膜冇咁大… 呢個係我ge 睇法 … 所以都係珍惜大家就好……
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-18 12:19 PM:
Quoted from Playbr2
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Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-18 12:16 PM:* n! w/ w! ^: Q( Y! M! N* o3 a
我成日都有呢種感覺:
覺得大家日日...
Originally posted by 12d3 at 2006-10-18 12:42 PM:/ z* Y, `8 [3 A. e3 S( A+ {4 S( Q# X
很在於每個人對朋友的定義.
面對網上的朋友, 往往能夠暢所欲言. 你不想給他們知道的, 他們便不會知道, 不用刻意提防.
你認為這是朋友嗎?
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 12:49 PM:, P. c) m0 v& G/ N/ Y7 r
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i guess it's quoted from trista_cheong?
Originally posted by gn00987333 at 2006-10-18 01:07 PM:
最起碼我都當你地係真正既朋友* s5 u$ H, Z$ O: H, w. l0 O
我要講既只有咁多
明就明,唔明就算
Originally posted by gn00987333 at 2006-10-18 01:07 PM:9 B$ O- r" X# n. L. ?2 Z& I* N
最起碼我都當你地係真正既朋友) w4 h5 U t* n( a9 O$ ]0 L
我要講既只有咁多

Originally posted by 左輪仔 at 2006-10-18 03:16 PM:
當然有啦,雖然而家我少左上黎,6 G4 ^/ c" c2 f5 M! S# N
不過...
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 15:23:
ef 係講心﹐唔係講金!
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你走o左幾耐個個都隨時歡迎你返黎la 左仔~~![]()
Originally posted by 左輪仔 at 2006-10-18 03:34 PM:3 Z k a3 P1 A8 T! H, T
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聽到呢句說話,真係有d感動![]()
Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 03:49 PM:
我係指真實生活上既朋友,有事揾人幫,你都會先揾佢地.因為你可以見到佢地,咁做起事上黎你會信心大D,因為你可以摸到佢地所以安全感高D,.........但其實,幫吾幫得上忙又另一回事.......而且,反問一句,你對生活上既朋友又有幾深了解,你能踏足他們的內心深處嗎??) ^5 R/ Y3 Z+ I$ c
至於,上網既朋友係虛擬性質的,因為在日常生活上我們未必真正影響到你/控制你........而表面上大家沒有身份地位區別,所以可暢所欲言,講一D平時未必同人講既野(秘密、私隱、赤裸裸的''性''),........但實質上你我双方都有不能越過的防火牆,就好似你既個人資料,身份利益等等............如果知得太詳細,玩得太投入,变左真實朋友,大家就會不其然地想控制/影響對方,咁暢所欲言的空間就會消失........因為虛擬朋友你不能摸透,所以會覺得他們在真正有事時幫不上忙.......但其實在心靈上,他們是唯一可以透達你內心痛處既知己........
有一句諷剌既說話,日間上你我是勢不兩立的仇人,晚上(上網)卻成為惺惺相惜的知己
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 02:58 PM:/ p( [- n# s# O2 x( @& L. ^3 T8 w8 A
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做咩gn囡突然串o左咁多呀?![]()
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 02:58 PM:
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做咩gn囡突然串o左咁多呀?![]()

Originally posted by benson00 at 2006-10-18 09:46 PM:6 t$ H) d+ V, j$ z+ v- e6 I! \
大家萍水相逢,岩傾咪講多句,唔會唸做唔做到朋友。' X z i% ~* V/ D
就算傾得好投契,都只係網上虛擬。8 x8 [% b8 Y. {+ w$ z/ {
識朋友都係要係現實世界中,一齊相處過、覺得投緣、變friend,才是正路

Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-18 10:34 PM:; b9 a$ j: b( C
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呢d 只可能係一般網友在一般論壇的想法, \6 r4 S4 i& A3 c, n
但你知唔知 26FUN 比其它論壇優勝地方
因為26FUN內 d 網友
雙對黎講,
比較成熟,
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因此雙對關系都比較一般論壇d網友關系密切
,Tri姐姐


Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 11:15 PM:
点關系密切先,Tri姐姐
我都未見過你盧山真面目
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Originally posted by gn00987333 at 2006-10-18 05:51 PM:# {& @: p, M( W- \4 f0 @
因為我變左超正常所以我講野原全唔會理人感受

Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-19 01:05 AM:: d$ ~6 m( a+ N3 I$ \6 P% x X J4 }
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唔好啦,
以前有幾個網友
見過我盧山真面目之後$ B* _! Z; i$ Z: H* E
一個傻左,6 Q5 g4 T9 o, L: d! d8 A' F
一個都冇見過佢返過黎![]()
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 15:23:8 i) F3 l1 l2 g; a5 M/ E/ I
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ef 係講心﹐唔係講金!% m; B5 O: c* C+ n$ {, Z
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你走o左幾耐個個都隨時歡迎你返黎la 左仔~~![]()
Originally posted by BOYDWAN at 2006-10-19 01:23 AM:0 Z/ N/ f* x, Z
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trista 講出我心底話!
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加分!個個都加分!
唔理版主定會員都加分!
相比一份緣份一份交情,呢d 分算得係乜?8 w4 B, I0 l5 p# T9 ~ O' T
小小心意而已~![]()
Originally posted by pkbrian at 2006-10-18 07:58 PM:
講真啦# t. g- f9 A& Q I9 q
我係網上面一向用心去識朋友^^3 C. }- C+ Z+ @! e8 m4 x
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又少講野="=
但至少識每一個人都係一樣^^

Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-19 10:16 PM:, w: U1 l2 o j' p3 ^9 |
(小弟的愚見)
以心待人,以誠待人...
Originally posted by 自由神 at 2006-10-20 01:24 PM:
講真句!友情?唔會有!0 q' Z( O' M* O; F( f ]8 D' P
朋友往往係一個幫助你成功既工具!' v0 ^+ h! a4 i8 z; X" ]9 T
我俾人出賣過..........所以唔好怪我直接!
你對人好!你地未必對你好!
Originally posted by 自由神 at 2006-10-20 01:24 PM:
講真句!友情?唔會有!
朋友往往係一個幫助你成功既工具!) j9 {) L8 o/ w3 A
我俾人出賣過..........所以唔好怪我直接!
你對人好!你地未必對你好!
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-20 11:57 PM:' I3 a6 p; j7 v
以經濟學黎計算:" J! e9 y3 W1 X
保持一段寶貴...
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-21 12:23 AM:
認識朋友的意義各有不同。# ]) _! {0 s, e1 `6 a/ S6 b0 m# v( }
如果真系要用。。。經濟學。。。來 作為 認識 朋友 的工具。。8 \: h- S8 p1 }
可能就 要 從最初開始,看看對方是否值得投資了。
要不要再用 投資回報率 計算一下。。是否與自己的投資組合相配?) {) V" }7 x2 }1 `6 U
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-21 01:03 AM:) b1 ?. x0 T( \& S- V
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當然要,并且十分...
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-21 01:05 AM:
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叻女!
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-21 01:08 AM:( f1 _; Y% F* H: R4 S5 K
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敢網上識朋友你又點睇?
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-21 01:11 AM:5 X6 \; O% I, v, F$ x8 d
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駛唔駛 出黎 見面 先?. j6 _" c5 Z2 T1 Z1 H5 p& G
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唔駛 既 話。。。齋吹。。談天說地。。有乜所謂呢。。/ L0 v1 k/ ]* ]. L+ ]/ P
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Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-21 01:16 AM:9 c. w* g" ^( V
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今晚有時間入黎齋吹下
http://www.26fun.com/bbs/viewthread.php?tid=116775&fpage=1
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-19 05:19 AM:2 C+ x( y! G: h7 _& y5 R
多 d 入 [真‧頑童俱樂部] 玩下~ t$ I2 B# \; y
不過我地有時玩得好 "dean" 家播~
http://www.26fun.com/bbs/viewthread.php?tid=116775&fpage=1
Originally posted by 自由神 at 2006-10-20 01:24 PM:* [$ n6 P8 ^$ }( a) c
講真句!友情?唔會有!
朋友往往係一個幫助你成功既工具!" k4 t$ h( B" X+ ^- J7 J
我俾人出賣過..........所以唔好怪我直接!
你對人好!你地未必對你好!
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" n3 {" z% s- |& W% `2 uOriginally posted by teramishu at 2006-10-22 11:59 AM:2 I6 P7 Q5 d0 ]# U4 @/ G( M
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自由神[/size...
Originally posted by teramishu at 2006-10-22 11:48 AM: f, g. J: | K% u( I2 b; Q) {/ Y
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TriTri 有唔有发觉到...
Originally posted by teramishu at 2006-10-22 11:59 AM:
自由神[/size...
Originally posted by iMacc at 2006-10-23 08:54 PM:& x7 M' w* g/ ^+ g- d) [! ^9 T
我喺ef都唔算好耐~4 a, g8 w, M2 I- U4 S7 ^! B0 E: {9 F1 s
發言唔算好多~
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Originally posted by iMacc at 2006-10-23 08:54 PM:8 z1 P" O( f; _( s0 u
我喺ef都唔算好耐~% Q( _' _* a8 K+ W/ g/ g
發言唔算好多~
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Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-24 02:47 AM:$ \: S6 v0 {. g9 Q7 l: }7 e
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好同意。。/ K" B! K) o% g3 r. K- s% G$ ^
的而且確,有時候。。
真誠對待他人。反而製造左機會比人“揾自己老襯” 0 f2 C5 d" S4 @0 [3 o% X- e
真系“該燴”。
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-24 03:37 AM:+ j" `* q' U0 J7 W. v% M+ k7 v
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自己醒d未得 law


; C' E3 B, g3 w0 x0 s xOriginally posted by stanley_ckc at 2006-10-27 12:10 AM:, _- D' m K- \! i
不過很可惜之後因為一件事令當中有些朋友吵了,這兩年的友誼一夜告吹.......
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-27 02:37 AM:
一段長時間建立友誼
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這未免太過可惜
(But the Sad Thing is: It Happen Quite Often To Everyone)
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-27 02:39 AM:
有時候, 友誼就是這樣。) O7 o& ]0 y% k* i9 `2 M
合久必分,分久必合。
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未嘗不是一個維繫關係的方法。。
Originally posted by ckyckk at 2006-10-27 03:15 AM:
當然有啦,雖然而家我少左上黎,
不過...
) h7 O) L8 v4 K. i4 T2 q! D% @Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-27 05:41 AM:
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vv1668vv:
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合久必分 我就有一大籮
分久必合 就重未遇過
Originally posted by ckyckk at 2006-10-27 03:15:8 q8 R, P- p/ Z% D0 ^, i7 m
當然有啦,雖然而家我少左上黎,
不過...
Originally posted by 左輪仔 at 2006-10-28 12:14 AM:3 l" g: i) b* l L8 Z4 D8 t' U; w, p
抄我![]()
Originally posted by ckyckk at 2006-10-28 12:40 AM:
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Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-27 02:39 AM:
很認同
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