
Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 05:39 AM:
突然而來既事,當然好難講幫吾幫得上忙,不過非一朝一夕既事,如果攞出黎傾下,或者慢慢會有轉機...........情況就好似電車男追女仔一樣(樂觀).........咁當然,我地最多最多都只係做下軍師,比下意見........而且解鈴還須繫鈴人,就算現實上都有好多問題,難以由第二個人出手代替自己解決問題........所以咩叫真實朋友,咩叫虛擬朋友都冇分別...只在於真實既朋友你可以摸到、見到、掌握到,而令你信心大D,安全感高D.........但幫吾幫得上忙又另一回事,好難講話一定得
Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 06:02 AM:; F2 r) b2 _9 U4 r
補多句:處理一般問題&非一般問題9 K" y8 L4 U& [* R
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用問題解決問題,並不是問題,因為問題已經解決,但多數有手尾,但D人多數一貫都係咁做.5 M1 C* \* T4 |# R
但用問題之外既問題去解決問題,結果問題會越变複雜,但卻會出現前所未有既轉機,雖然吉凶難喻,但總比墨守成規好.' b# }, x1 D3 l* o" H
故事:墨子長於守城,又因為墨家思想係兼愛﹑非攻,當佢聽到楚國想造雲梯攻打宋國時,就去楚國搵造雲梯既公輸般模擬戰咁較高下(公輸般攻,墨子守),結果公輸般諗極辦法都贏唔到墨子。最後想殺左墨子,點知墨子話,你殺左我,仲有千千萬萬墨家子弟。
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 10:31 AM:
呢個係一個殘忍ge 事實﹐但我都會覺得換個角度黎講﹐o個d 有形有體ge frds 都未必touch 到ur heart ... 雖然話如果現實中未必真正幫到大家﹐但係我諗如果幫得手ge 都會儘量去幫lor… 呢d 係限制… 係一d 冇辦法ge 事!: B& d1 j. @1 R9 z. \: ]
不過如果唔係呢d限制﹐我地又點會係網上面玩得咁放呢? 因為冇形體有可能會令人與人之間完全冇利益衝突﹐所以先隔膜冇咁大… 呢個係我ge 睇法 … 所以都係珍惜大家就好……
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-18 12:19 PM:3 ?- |2 ^; U. a) b
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Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-18 12:16 PM:
我成日都有呢種感覺:
覺得大家日日...
Originally posted by 12d3 at 2006-10-18 12:42 PM:
很在於每個人對朋友的定義.+ T) ]9 y: `2 j9 H- K q
面對網上的朋友, 往往能夠暢所欲言. 你不想給他們知道的, 他們便不會知道, 不用刻意提防.
你認為這是朋友嗎?
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 12:49 PM:
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i guess it's quoted from trista_cheong?
Originally posted by gn00987333 at 2006-10-18 01:07 PM:5 O( D! p0 q, z k0 d
最起碼我都當你地係真正既朋友
我要講既只有咁多
明就明,唔明就算
Originally posted by gn00987333 at 2006-10-18 01:07 PM:
最起碼我都當你地係真正既朋友
我要講既只有咁多

Originally posted by 左輪仔 at 2006-10-18 03:16 PM:
當然有啦,雖然而家我少左上黎,$ M- T1 a) z, J. _
不過...
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 15:23:0 f5 X F7 O: {% Y
ef 係講心﹐唔係講金!. \- F+ V" ^( \! g% t& ?; R
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你走o左幾耐個個都隨時歡迎你返黎la 左仔~~![]()
Originally posted by 左輪仔 at 2006-10-18 03:34 PM:0 F3 J& K* `9 \* i" n
聽到呢句說話,真係有d感動![]()
Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 03:49 PM:
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我係指真實生活上既朋友,有事揾人幫,你都會先揾佢地.因為你可以見到佢地,咁做起事上黎你會信心大D,因為你可以摸到佢地所以安全感高D,.........但其實,幫吾幫得上忙又另一回事.......而且,反問一句,你對生活上既朋友又有幾深了解,你能踏足他們的內心深處嗎??
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至於,上網既朋友係虛擬性質的,因為在日常生活上我們未必真正影響到你/控制你........而表面上大家沒有身份地位區別,所以可暢所欲言,講一D平時未必同人講既野(秘密、私隱、赤裸裸的''性''),........但實質上你我双方都有不能越過的防火牆,就好似你既個人資料,身份利益等等............如果知得太詳細,玩得太投入,变左真實朋友,大家就會不其然地想控制/影響對方,咁暢所欲言的空間就會消失........因為虛擬朋友你不能摸透,所以會覺得他們在真正有事時幫不上忙.......但其實在心靈上,他們是唯一可以透達你內心痛處既知己........3 Y* q" r# y* c, `9 \; R' e' J
有一句諷剌既說話,日間上你我是勢不兩立的仇人,晚上(上網)卻成為惺惺相惜的知己
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 02:58 PM:/ B) W0 B% d Z9 d
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做咩gn囡突然串o左咁多呀?![]()
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 02:58 PM:
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做咩gn囡突然串o左咁多呀?![]()

Originally posted by benson00 at 2006-10-18 09:46 PM:
大家萍水相逢,岩傾咪講多句,唔會唸做唔做到朋友。+ V6 {7 u4 b5 E0 D- X
就算傾得好投契,都只係網上虛擬。
識朋友都係要係現實世界中,一齊相處過、覺得投緣、變friend,才是正路

Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-18 10:34 PM:
呢d 只可能係一般網友在一般論壇的想法% `. ]' P q! T
但你知唔知 26FUN 比其它論壇優勝地方
因為26FUN內 d 網友
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交流比較深入
因此雙對關系都比較一般論壇d網友關系密切
,Tri姐姐


Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 11:15 PM:1 V4 T5 H% ?' a* `& M
点關系密切先,Tri姐姐
我都未見過你盧山真面目
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Originally posted by gn00987333 at 2006-10-18 05:51 PM:
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因為我變左超正常所以我講野原全唔會理人感受

Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-19 01:05 AM:
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唔好啦,
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一個傻左,
一個都冇見過佢返過黎![]()
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 15:23:
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ef 係講心﹐唔係講金!
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你走o左幾耐個個都隨時歡迎你返黎la 左仔~~![]()
Originally posted by BOYDWAN at 2006-10-19 01:23 AM:* |. L! S6 {5 j) S( W
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trista 講出我心底話!2 e% |9 E6 t$ O! o
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加分!個個都加分!
唔理版主定會員都加分!! J2 J2 I* e* }1 U- g! [) C* n) n
相比一份緣份一份交情,呢d 分算得係乜?4 y' A; ?( w+ c, M' d0 C" Z
小小心意而已~![]()
Originally posted by pkbrian at 2006-10-18 07:58 PM:
講真啦
我係網上面一向用心去識朋友^^! t/ G' Q" w! I* z/ Z" S+ O
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雖然係ent fun 同大家唔係好熟
又少講野="=* g' E; t2 }# C6 {& \
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但至少識每一個人都係一樣^^

Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-19 10:16 PM:- t( G1 R2 N5 o" l" S
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以心待人,以誠待人...
Originally posted by 自由神 at 2006-10-20 01:24 PM:
講真句!友情?唔會有!
朋友往往係一個幫助你成功既工具!
我俾人出賣過..........所以唔好怪我直接!
你對人好!你地未必對你好!
Originally posted by 自由神 at 2006-10-20 01:24 PM:
講真句!友情?唔會有!# w3 F7 W' Z+ b4 R" A+ K4 b, A
朋友往往係一個幫助你成功既工具!( S1 Z5 {* e9 g6 `+ E
我俾人出賣過..........所以唔好怪我直接!
你對人好!你地未必對你好!
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-20 11:57 PM:
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以經濟學黎計算:
保持一段寶貴...
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-21 12:23 AM:3 |* m/ F4 j H+ z; d% ^, x$ [
認識朋友的意義各有不同。
如果真系要用。。。經濟學。。。來 作為 認識 朋友 的工具。。
可能就 要 從最初開始,看看對方是否值得投資了。5 L0 }. F! ^9 O; A' c! |2 x
要不要再用 投資回報率 計算一下。。是否與自己的投資組合相配?9 n! b7 W8 i9 z6 _: R! Z
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-21 01:03 AM:+ o; L# b* ^) C ^- N
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當然要,并且十分...
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-21 01:05 AM:
叻女!
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-21 01:08 AM:" E; C( z8 b% d- [4 S5 N
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敢網上識朋友你又點睇?
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-21 01:11 AM:& \: q$ c+ L, T( ]* K
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駛唔駛 出黎 見面 先?8 ^* f5 i' W3 l+ u* y; `4 C6 U
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唔駛 既 話。。。齋吹。。談天說地。。有乜所謂呢。。8 ?% v- E0 {" D9 p8 \4 l! v
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Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-21 01:16 AM:1 L! j8 a' F' M$ \5 X
今晚有時間入黎齋吹下! |% ]3 V: u- C
http://www.26fun.com/bbs/viewthread.php?tid=116775&fpage=1
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-19 05:19 AM:4 \" d4 h/ z" ]- m- s" K$ H5 a/ o8 B
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多 d 入 [真‧頑童俱樂部] 玩下~4 l% T, o: W3 n) `8 O! y' K
不過我地有時玩得好 "dean" 家播~) F: c% [6 C, G# j! A
http://www.26fun.com/bbs/viewthread.php?tid=116775&fpage=1
Originally posted by 自由神 at 2006-10-20 01:24 PM:
講真句!友情?唔會有!
朋友往往係一個幫助你成功既工具!
我俾人出賣過..........所以唔好怪我直接!
你對人好!你地未必對你好!

/ r8 r1 H' t. F- H( {Originally posted by teramishu at 2006-10-22 11:59 AM:
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自由神[/size...
Originally posted by teramishu at 2006-10-22 11:48 AM:1 e5 d: L" \9 J* \' M5 T) f6 h
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TriTri 有唔有发觉到...
Originally posted by teramishu at 2006-10-22 11:59 AM:
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自由神[/size...
Originally posted by iMacc at 2006-10-23 08:54 PM:
我喺ef都唔算好耐~: i; L0 R a+ z8 l& I/ Z& T% L
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Originally posted by iMacc at 2006-10-23 08:54 PM:" O8 R" r: P; ~$ z1 [+ K
我喺ef都唔算好耐~
發言唔算好多~
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Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-24 02:47 AM:, w5 Z: A" K/ h5 a9 u& V
好同意。。4 M2 g2 d3 Q# \ j
的而且確,有時候。。8 R4 o M K; \5 o/ W; b
真誠對待他人。反而製造左機會比人“揾自己老襯” 2 I, T; S# K8 U3 S0 v" l6 P
真系“該燴”。
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-24 03:37 AM:
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自己醒d未得 law


& q1 y* s7 R" c8 b: QOriginally posted by stanley_ckc at 2006-10-27 12:10 AM:4 p4 I g+ Z: B8 p* s5 p
不過很可惜之後因為一件事令當中有些朋友吵了,這兩年的友誼一夜告吹.......
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-27 02:37 AM:
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一段長時間建立友誼1 v$ ], I) V4 ~
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(But the Sad Thing is: It Happen Quite Often To Everyone)
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-27 02:39 AM:
有時候, 友誼就是這樣。
合久必分,分久必合。
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有時候,唔見面,保持神秘感,
大家互相有一種,“彼此不要求” 的 保留心態。
未嘗不是一個維繫關係的方法。。2 F, a9 a5 ?1 M4 \6 T4 U I6 E
Originally posted by ckyckk at 2006-10-27 03:15 AM:
當然有啦,雖然而家我少左上黎,* h. O# u+ m* N6 [: ]! `( @- @! G
不過...

Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-27 05:41 AM:- K: K" }$ y8 ]& i6 x9 H
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你就比我Lucky啦,
合久必分 我就有一大籮: |3 P( g, u' _: g4 W2 b$ {
分久必合 就重未遇過
Originally posted by ckyckk at 2006-10-27 03:15:
當然有啦,雖然而家我少左上黎,
不過...
Originally posted by 左輪仔 at 2006-10-28 12:14 AM:
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抄我![]()
Originally posted by ckyckk at 2006-10-28 12:40 AM:
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見係好野先"參考"咋2 z2 U& C2 Q6 z
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Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-27 02:39 AM:
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很認同
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