
Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 05:39 AM:
突然而來既事,當然好難講幫吾幫得上忙,不過非一朝一夕既事,如果攞出黎傾下,或者慢慢會有轉機...........情況就好似電車男追女仔一樣(樂觀).........咁當然,我地最多最多都只係做下軍師,比下意見........而且解鈴還須繫鈴人,就算現實上都有好多問題,難以由第二個人出手代替自己解決問題........所以咩叫真實朋友,咩叫虛擬朋友都冇分別...只在於真實既朋友你可以摸到、見到、掌握到,而令你信心大D,安全感高D.........但幫吾幫得上忙又另一回事,好難講話一定得
Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 06:02 AM:. H8 K4 {. l( q6 Q
補多句:處理一般問題&非一般問題3 H/ n& g& T0 r+ k" L8 F5 E% B: I3 `
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用問題解決問題,並不是問題,因為問題已經解決,但多數有手尾,但D人多數一貫都係咁做./ ]3 [' f8 m g4 P/ h/ n6 y. A
但用問題之外既問題去解決問題,結果問題會越变複雜,但卻會出現前所未有既轉機,雖然吉凶難喻,但總比墨守成規好.
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故事:墨子長於守城,又因為墨家思想係兼愛﹑非攻,當佢聽到楚國想造雲梯攻打宋國時,就去楚國搵造雲梯既公輸般模擬戰咁較高下(公輸般攻,墨子守),結果公輸般諗極辦法都贏唔到墨子。最後想殺左墨子,點知墨子話,你殺左我,仲有千千萬萬墨家子弟。
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 10:31 AM:
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呢個係一個殘忍ge 事實﹐但我都會覺得換個角度黎講﹐o個d 有形有體ge frds 都未必touch 到ur heart ... 雖然話如果現實中未必真正幫到大家﹐但係我諗如果幫得手ge 都會儘量去幫lor… 呢d 係限制… 係一d 冇辦法ge 事!: f8 k7 O( i- b! r4 @8 O8 w, l
不過如果唔係呢d限制﹐我地又點會係網上面玩得咁放呢? 因為冇形體有可能會令人與人之間完全冇利益衝突﹐所以先隔膜冇咁大… 呢個係我ge 睇法 … 所以都係珍惜大家就好……
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-18 12:19 PM: ? i' c6 v: G5 R+ B6 {( c2 g
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Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-18 12:16 PM:
我成日都有呢種感覺:# @3 h! F, J( U8 i D; w. W
覺得大家日日...
Originally posted by 12d3 at 2006-10-18 12:42 PM:& [2 w) r" O, e* h/ H( T* Z* e
很在於每個人對朋友的定義.
面對網上的朋友, 往往能夠暢所欲言. 你不想給他們知道的, 他們便不會知道, 不用刻意提防.
你認為這是朋友嗎?
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 12:49 PM:
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i guess it's quoted from trista_cheong?
Originally posted by gn00987333 at 2006-10-18 01:07 PM:' L" c: |3 U/ h
最起碼我都當你地係真正既朋友) a' Y0 [0 f2 C9 z L. t1 F
我要講既只有咁多
明就明,唔明就算
Originally posted by gn00987333 at 2006-10-18 01:07 PM:
最起碼我都當你地係真正既朋友
我要講既只有咁多

Originally posted by 左輪仔 at 2006-10-18 03:16 PM:: S, _' |; F" t
當然有啦,雖然而家我少左上黎,
不過...
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 15:23:
ef 係講心﹐唔係講金!
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你走o左幾耐個個都隨時歡迎你返黎la 左仔~~![]()
Originally posted by 左輪仔 at 2006-10-18 03:34 PM:& x# Z' k' q$ y0 O1 V
聽到呢句說話,真係有d感動![]()
Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 03:49 PM:/ B7 l( S1 v6 o. u: [5 o8 @& M! ]
我係指真實生活上既朋友,有事揾人幫,你都會先揾佢地.因為你可以見到佢地,咁做起事上黎你會信心大D,因為你可以摸到佢地所以安全感高D,.........但其實,幫吾幫得上忙又另一回事.......而且,反問一句,你對生活上既朋友又有幾深了解,你能踏足他們的內心深處嗎??- T) Q. T) L9 y$ {3 ^8 \
至於,上網既朋友係虛擬性質的,因為在日常生活上我們未必真正影響到你/控制你........而表面上大家沒有身份地位區別,所以可暢所欲言,講一D平時未必同人講既野(秘密、私隱、赤裸裸的''性''),........但實質上你我双方都有不能越過的防火牆,就好似你既個人資料,身份利益等等............如果知得太詳細,玩得太投入,变左真實朋友,大家就會不其然地想控制/影響對方,咁暢所欲言的空間就會消失........因為虛擬朋友你不能摸透,所以會覺得他們在真正有事時幫不上忙.......但其實在心靈上,他們是唯一可以透達你內心痛處既知己........
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有一句諷剌既說話,日間上你我是勢不兩立的仇人,晚上(上網)卻成為惺惺相惜的知己
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 02:58 PM:
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做咩gn囡突然串o左咁多呀?![]()
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 02:58 PM:
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做咩gn囡突然串o左咁多呀?![]()

Originally posted by benson00 at 2006-10-18 09:46 PM:* n+ e8 v4 o, j) R# a) C0 e) _
大家萍水相逢,岩傾咪講多句,唔會唸做唔做到朋友。
就算傾得好投契,都只係網上虛擬。. a, \ u7 _( y* c, O# U
識朋友都係要係現實世界中,一齊相處過、覺得投緣、變friend,才是正路

Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-18 10:34 PM:
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呢d 只可能係一般網友在一般論壇的想法
但你知唔知 26FUN 比其它論壇優勝地方3 R% s; ~' r& Q! V, h3 d
因為26FUN內 d 網友
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比較成熟,3 r9 R+ e2 ^* E6 h" s" z
交流比較深入# @1 ]2 ^% Y# |" i8 z* a
因此雙對關系都比較一般論壇d網友關系密切
,Tri姐姐


Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 11:15 PM:
点關系密切先,Tri姐姐
我都未見過你盧山真面目
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Originally posted by gn00987333 at 2006-10-18 05:51 PM:
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因為我變左超正常所以我講野原全唔會理人感受

Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-19 01:05 AM:( @0 j: P; z0 ?/ o4 S
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唔好啦,
以前有幾個網友6 R1 J2 J4 M/ I# A1 X( [
見過我盧山真面目之後6 i- s4 W7 {6 ~6 d( h8 d
一個傻左,0 t; Y# `3 F, r! h8 @
一個都冇見過佢返過黎![]()
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 15:23:4 |3 k( }+ z/ _. F- c
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ef 係講心﹐唔係講金!0 W( e0 s7 |, l: U& @
你走o左幾耐個個都隨時歡迎你返黎la 左仔~~![]()
Originally posted by BOYDWAN at 2006-10-19 01:23 AM:% W2 G* t3 B5 p6 l6 n5 `
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trista 講出我心底話!
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加分!個個都加分!8 g, o2 v! y' _3 e6 B* M
唔理版主定會員都加分!) {9 l6 k d2 r0 ?! r
相比一份緣份一份交情,呢d 分算得係乜?
小小心意而已~![]()
Originally posted by pkbrian at 2006-10-18 07:58 PM:
講真啦
我係網上面一向用心去識朋友^^
雖然係ent fun 同大家唔係好熟9 v8 N9 z" T$ m5 P4 |( x
又少講野="=; O! i, s- P+ ?3 A8 m
但至少識每一個人都係一樣^^

Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-19 10:16 PM:1 l) Q& p" h7 B* k* ~! |1 R
(小弟的愚見)
以心待人,以誠待人...
Originally posted by 自由神 at 2006-10-20 01:24 PM:
講真句!友情?唔會有!
朋友往往係一個幫助你成功既工具!
我俾人出賣過..........所以唔好怪我直接!9 i3 x8 ~# T. v# @0 c0 `
你對人好!你地未必對你好!
Originally posted by 自由神 at 2006-10-20 01:24 PM:
講真句!友情?唔會有!* O/ h) L* P& T( R& N3 n8 g+ t# Q
朋友往往係一個幫助你成功既工具!5 p% n4 W+ Z N0 R. A+ d# o6 p
我俾人出賣過..........所以唔好怪我直接!
你對人好!你地未必對你好!
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-20 11:57 PM:
以經濟學黎計算:
保持一段寶貴...
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-21 12:23 AM:% O/ R) {2 \7 W7 T
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認識朋友的意義各有不同。
如果真系要用。。。經濟學。。。來 作為 認識 朋友 的工具。。" H5 M2 X% _. [' Z: i& B
可能就 要 從最初開始,看看對方是否值得投資了。
要不要再用 投資回報率 計算一下。。是否與自己的投資組合相配?5 n6 e. p5 }1 e; v
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-21 01:03 AM:
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當然要,并且十分...
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-21 01:05 AM:
叻女!
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-21 01:08 AM:
敢網上識朋友你又點睇?
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-21 01:11 AM:
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駛唔駛 出黎 見面 先?
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唔駛 既 話。。。齋吹。。談天說地。。有乜所謂呢。。
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Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-21 01:16 AM:
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今晚有時間入黎齋吹下
http://www.26fun.com/bbs/viewthread.php?tid=116775&fpage=1
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-19 05:19 AM:
多 d 入 [真‧頑童俱樂部] 玩下~
不過我地有時玩得好 "dean" 家播~! K+ R9 U" ]8 e) y1 j: {) R
http://www.26fun.com/bbs/viewthread.php?tid=116775&fpage=1
Originally posted by 自由神 at 2006-10-20 01:24 PM:$ j& ~0 E- `+ a) U) w/ c
講真句!友情?唔會有!
朋友往往係一個幫助你成功既工具!
我俾人出賣過..........所以唔好怪我直接!
你對人好!你地未必對你好!
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$ D' A# E/ M7 P! L: q0 A* `2 zOriginally posted by teramishu at 2006-10-22 11:59 AM:
自由神[/size...
Originally posted by teramishu at 2006-10-22 11:48 AM:
TriTri 有唔有发觉到...
Originally posted by teramishu at 2006-10-22 11:59 AM:* c$ E: d' ?0 T) q
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自由神[/size...
Originally posted by iMacc at 2006-10-23 08:54 PM:
我喺ef都唔算好耐~" r2 z/ c3 x5 V o& m$ _
發言唔算好多~
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Originally posted by iMacc at 2006-10-23 08:54 PM:
我喺ef都唔算好耐~
發言唔算好多~
...
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-24 02:47 AM:
好同意。。
的而且確,有時候。。9 P6 J: F4 y9 W9 p
真誠對待他人。反而製造左機會比人“揾自己老襯”
真系“該燴”。
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-24 03:37 AM:4 o7 W0 z2 G7 [! p# Z
自己醒d未得 law


9 o% J- E9 M( f6 O7 P. J" S' rOriginally posted by stanley_ckc at 2006-10-27 12:10 AM:8 ]1 A! v! A# Q. ~ \# B* Y7 W) [
不過很可惜之後因為一件事令當中有些朋友吵了,這兩年的友誼一夜告吹.......
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-27 02:37 AM:
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一段長時間建立友誼2 r* c: L8 C+ Y0 F
一夜告吹% @$ ] [, s* l( s4 y+ j0 g9 }
這未免太過可惜
(But the Sad Thing is: It Happen Quite Often To Everyone)
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-27 02:39 AM:
有時候, 友誼就是這樣。
合久必分,分久必合。9 p$ u5 _: W# z8 R& c, j* W
有時候,唔見面,保持神秘感,
大家互相有一種,“彼此不要求” 的 保留心態。# ?' o5 [/ ?3 J) Z3 U) T5 ^+ B
未嘗不是一個維繫關係的方法。。; r) {& e: n1 Q% a, _
Originally posted by ckyckk at 2006-10-27 03:15 AM:7 t5 b; w5 F4 R+ D6 c W" I3 m
當然有啦,雖然而家我少左上黎,% T. n2 K2 ]; O/ B
不過...
8 M H/ T" N' A jOriginally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-27 05:41 AM:! Y8 K9 r) Y! j5 N$ T
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vv1668vv:
你就比我Lucky啦," Y- D" |2 D! _. m5 M9 d6 g7 P
合久必分 我就有一大籮
分久必合 就重未遇過
Originally posted by ckyckk at 2006-10-27 03:15:' L; }9 V0 w+ h4 d
當然有啦,雖然而家我少左上黎,
不過...
Originally posted by 左輪仔 at 2006-10-28 12:14 AM:
抄我![]()
Originally posted by ckyckk at 2006-10-28 12:40 AM:
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見係好野先"參考"咋
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Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-27 02:39 AM:$ G. ^8 n' F# M8 o8 Q, _6 e" C
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很認同
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