Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 05:39 AM:
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突然而來既事,當然好難講幫吾幫得上忙,不過非一朝一夕既事,如果攞出黎傾下,或者慢慢會有轉機...........情況就好似電車男追女仔一樣(樂觀).........咁當然,我地最多最多都只係做下軍師,比下意見........而且解鈴還須繫鈴人,就算現實上都有好多問題,難以由第二個人出手代替自己解決問題........所以咩叫真實朋友,咩叫虛擬朋友都冇分別...只在於真實既朋友你可以摸到、見到、掌握到,而令你信心大D,安全感高D.........但幫吾幫得上忙又另一回事,好難講話一定得
Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 06:02 AM:6 |) N& A" Z/ v* {# f
補多句:處理一般問題&非一般問題
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用問題解決問題,並不是問題,因為問題已經解決,但多數有手尾,但D人多數一貫都係咁做.) ^7 B3 y6 g/ ?; `! o) d t6 ?
但用問題之外既問題去解決問題,結果問題會越变複雜,但卻會出現前所未有既轉機,雖然吉凶難喻,但總比墨守成規好.
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故事:墨子長於守城,又因為墨家思想係兼愛﹑非攻,當佢聽到楚國想造雲梯攻打宋國時,就去楚國搵造雲梯既公輸般模擬戰咁較高下(公輸般攻,墨子守),結果公輸般諗極辦法都贏唔到墨子。最後想殺左墨子,點知墨子話,你殺左我,仲有千千萬萬墨家子弟。
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 10:31 AM:
呢個係一個殘忍ge 事實﹐但我都會覺得換個角度黎講﹐o個d 有形有體ge frds 都未必touch 到ur heart ... 雖然話如果現實中未必真正幫到大家﹐但係我諗如果幫得手ge 都會儘量去幫lor… 呢d 係限制… 係一d 冇辦法ge 事!
不過如果唔係呢d限制﹐我地又點會係網上面玩得咁放呢? 因為冇形體有可能會令人與人之間完全冇利益衝突﹐所以先隔膜冇咁大… 呢個係我ge 睇法 … 所以都係珍惜大家就好……
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-18 12:19 PM:5 \9 v) z% W+ S0 W! ^5 Q: X
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Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-18 12:16 PM:7 g3 X9 I' P6 n/ W/ a
我成日都有呢種感覺:- G* y" Y, f+ p8 t/ B7 n, |0 d
覺得大家日日...
Originally posted by 12d3 at 2006-10-18 12:42 PM:
很在於每個人對朋友的定義.
面對網上的朋友, 往往能夠暢所欲言. 你不想給他們知道的, 他們便不會知道, 不用刻意提防.( E9 d4 [* R. f3 O( q, ]. K
你認為這是朋友嗎?
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 12:49 PM:/ \" I5 x: a3 V- u
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i guess it's quoted from trista_cheong?
Originally posted by gn00987333 at 2006-10-18 01:07 PM:# ]1 H* k6 b. @% m V! K) J4 H
最起碼我都當你地係真正既朋友
我要講既只有咁多
明就明,唔明就算
Originally posted by gn00987333 at 2006-10-18 01:07 PM:& s) n8 t# T4 Y
最起碼我都當你地係真正既朋友
我要講既只有咁多
Originally posted by 左輪仔 at 2006-10-18 03:16 PM:
當然有啦,雖然而家我少左上黎,$ }. G/ y' P0 `1 Z
不過...
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 15:23:
ef 係講心﹐唔係講金!8 l5 @9 N% Z4 ]# g4 |) ^
你走o左幾耐個個都隨時歡迎你返黎la 左仔~~![]()
Originally posted by 左輪仔 at 2006-10-18 03:34 PM:7 b# f& p* y: k1 q
聽到呢句說話,真係有d感動![]()
Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 03:49 PM:+ r3 S: p8 v( u
我係指真實生活上既朋友,有事揾人幫,你都會先揾佢地.因為你可以見到佢地,咁做起事上黎你會信心大D,因為你可以摸到佢地所以安全感高D,.........但其實,幫吾幫得上忙又另一回事.......而且,反問一句,你對生活上既朋友又有幾深了解,你能踏足他們的內心深處嗎??8 a3 S( }7 V3 b7 C; m
至於,上網既朋友係虛擬性質的,因為在日常生活上我們未必真正影響到你/控制你........而表面上大家沒有身份地位區別,所以可暢所欲言,講一D平時未必同人講既野(秘密、私隱、赤裸裸的''性''),........但實質上你我双方都有不能越過的防火牆,就好似你既個人資料,身份利益等等............如果知得太詳細,玩得太投入,变左真實朋友,大家就會不其然地想控制/影響對方,咁暢所欲言的空間就會消失........因為虛擬朋友你不能摸透,所以會覺得他們在真正有事時幫不上忙.......但其實在心靈上,他們是唯一可以透達你內心痛處既知己........
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有一句諷剌既說話,日間上你我是勢不兩立的仇人,晚上(上網)卻成為惺惺相惜的知己
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 02:58 PM:- I& P+ s4 M' F# t! Y
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做咩gn囡突然串o左咁多呀?![]()
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 02:58 PM:
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做咩gn囡突然串o左咁多呀?![]()
Originally posted by benson00 at 2006-10-18 09:46 PM:5 Q4 h s' f4 W' X7 N
大家萍水相逢,岩傾咪講多句,唔會唸做唔做到朋友。
就算傾得好投契,都只係網上虛擬。
識朋友都係要係現實世界中,一齊相處過、覺得投緣、變friend,才是正路
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-18 10:34 PM:; D% C9 ]: P) u( P) q5 L# A/ M% l4 Q
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呢d 只可能係一般網友在一般論壇的想法( B' {3 J9 V4 T: x; w2 S/ ?
但你知唔知 26FUN 比其它論壇優勝地方" B8 p0 W/ k+ E/ c' ~7 z* F# I
因為26FUN內 d 網友 ! ] l, K/ w& M8 Q$ v! y
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比較成熟,
交流比較深入
因此雙對關系都比較一般論壇d網友關系密切
Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 11:15 PM:4 \0 G! o6 q: P: p( S/ S' y
点關系密切先,Tri姐姐
我都未見過你盧山真面目
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Originally posted by gn00987333 at 2006-10-18 05:51 PM:% t/ l1 E4 w6 e' ?1 F' Q
因為我變左超正常所以我講野原全唔會理人感受
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-19 01:05 AM:) |" }8 Q! y- x9 k( Q
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唔好啦," i. Y8 h7 w3 b* F; S+ `0 z
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一個傻左,
一個都冇見過佢返過黎![]()
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 15:23:
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ef 係講心﹐唔係講金!
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你走o左幾耐個個都隨時歡迎你返黎la 左仔~~![]()
Originally posted by BOYDWAN at 2006-10-19 01:23 AM:
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trista 講出我心底話!, C: ~" K: l, w9 F8 Q3 Q, B, U
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加分!個個都加分!
唔理版主定會員都加分!
相比一份緣份一份交情,呢d 分算得係乜?$ q/ I7 ]7 O- N& T* n- t& {4 m& i
小小心意而已~![]()
Originally posted by pkbrian at 2006-10-18 07:58 PM:% C' x8 G4 `' C3 m! T
講真啦
我係網上面一向用心去識朋友^^4 T/ ?9 a. c. o& }0 [
雖然係ent fun 同大家唔係好熟
又少講野="=/ {$ B0 @" P$ w+ }: {% m5 C& p! _5 F
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但至少識每一個人都係一樣^^
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-19 10:16 PM:( ]+ L1 o2 i+ @1 p2 x
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以心待人,以誠待人...
Originally posted by 自由神 at 2006-10-20 01:24 PM:
講真句!友情?唔會有!
朋友往往係一個幫助你成功既工具!) p- D# d$ U5 E( o% [) d5 h
我俾人出賣過..........所以唔好怪我直接!! b/ t" C- G: n Y. F$ g1 _! S
你對人好!你地未必對你好!
Originally posted by 自由神 at 2006-10-20 01:24 PM:* R6 ^4 K8 c& \/ ^0 S% a6 k
講真句!友情?唔會有!
朋友往往係一個幫助你成功既工具!
我俾人出賣過..........所以唔好怪我直接!
你對人好!你地未必對你好!
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-20 11:57 PM:
以經濟學黎計算:; c! j5 {5 ^! P" u9 a( S
保持一段寶貴...
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-21 12:23 AM:1 W( E2 k" A* ?. C& D4 j* z
認識朋友的意義各有不同。
如果真系要用。。。經濟學。。。來 作為 認識 朋友 的工具。。1 `0 `$ e# {9 @8 ?
可能就 要 從最初開始,看看對方是否值得投資了。1 |$ G, k2 A7 K) b* c- ?/ @
要不要再用 投資回報率 計算一下。。是否與自己的投資組合相配?' q" x: O3 ~* A$ \2 X/ g$ |% }& v
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-21 01:03 AM:
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當然要,并且十分...
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-21 01:05 AM:1 h# |) x. h, x% k6 P$ [/ |' }8 e
叻女!
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-21 01:08 AM:
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敢網上識朋友你又點睇?
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-21 01:11 AM:
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駛唔駛 出黎 見面 先?
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唔駛 既 話。。。齋吹。。談天說地。。有乜所謂呢。。
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Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-21 01:16 AM:9 x- [/ s, |7 F5 z
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今晚有時間入黎齋吹下& ] s v/ j- _" Y( N# H
http://www.26fun.com/bbs/viewthread.php?tid=116775&fpage=1
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-19 05:19 AM:
多 d 入 [真‧頑童俱樂部] 玩下~
不過我地有時玩得好 "dean" 家播~U2 ]0 P! Y8 o" c$ E5 F1 d
http://www.26fun.com/bbs/viewthread.php?tid=116775&fpage=1
Originally posted by 自由神 at 2006-10-20 01:24 PM:7 E; Q6 ~. Q$ a. u6 T7 d- h' ]
講真句!友情?唔會有!8 S, A1 f$ U3 C. F& @/ y
朋友往往係一個幫助你成功既工具!: ]) I2 q, n) U i+ K
我俾人出賣過..........所以唔好怪我直接!; g8 i/ q9 @8 Y( Y9 @
你對人好!你地未必對你好!
Originally posted by teramishu at 2006-10-22 11:59 AM:$ W! z# F8 ]8 F1 ~, v9 x; ~ D
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自由神[/size...
Originally posted by teramishu at 2006-10-22 11:48 AM:& a8 E3 d8 ? j0 k& W9 p# _
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TriTri 有唔有发觉到...
Originally posted by teramishu at 2006-10-22 11:59 AM:0 z( N, @0 H! Q& a7 ?
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自由神[/size...
Originally posted by iMacc at 2006-10-23 08:54 PM:. J3 t3 q: K' O1 q& F1 e# k7 D
我喺ef都唔算好耐~& @& ]6 b) z9 d6 B9 s3 _
發言唔算好多~2 |( w- ~* w7 p" @% ]2 s% G* c
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Originally posted by iMacc at 2006-10-23 08:54 PM:) Y& w0 \5 T U7 ^) y
我喺ef都唔算好耐~
發言唔算好多~
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Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-24 02:47 AM:$ y: t7 f5 b- R4 ^+ M, |% }
好同意。。# a0 [- D5 n8 v3 z, X, p
的而且確,有時候。。. f4 T! m8 r. e8 s( G
真誠對待他人。反而製造左機會比人“揾自己老襯”
真系“該燴”。
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-24 03:37 AM:. N: _- i8 c* h% l1 R* G
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自己醒d未得 law
Originally posted by stanley_ckc at 2006-10-27 12:10 AM:: R4 |/ z- ]+ Y, {# I
不過很可惜之後因為一件事令當中有些朋友吵了,這兩年的友誼一夜告吹.......
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-27 02:37 AM:+ f/ z- E/ ]' T: z
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一段長時間建立友誼
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這未免太過可惜
(But the Sad Thing is: It Happen Quite Often To Everyone)
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-27 02:39 AM:* C3 j! E. t4 {( q0 m$ h; Q
有時候, 友誼就是這樣。
合久必分,分久必合。7 K& B7 l7 K$ \5 t& n- D
有時候,唔見面,保持神秘感,
大家互相有一種,“彼此不要求” 的 保留心態。2 y5 y/ }$ x% |5 I+ b, Z; |& ^! b4 I
未嘗不是一個維繫關係的方法。。
Originally posted by ckyckk at 2006-10-27 03:15 AM:
當然有啦,雖然而家我少左上黎,9 t: q* T2 ~! Y* f; P
不過...
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-27 05:41 AM:' p1 J( R3 d4 l' H6 H! k% L
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你就比我Lucky啦,
合久必分 我就有一大籮; C/ |8 l! T) t) z5 Q G- u+ M
分久必合 就重未遇過
Originally posted by ckyckk at 2006-10-27 03:15:
當然有啦,雖然而家我少左上黎,1 c9 F2 |) j6 O/ ]/ H
不過...
Originally posted by 左輪仔 at 2006-10-28 12:14 AM: |* f0 r8 Q/ H* l% j: R9 f
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抄我![]()
Originally posted by ckyckk at 2006-10-28 12:40 AM:( E S7 F' |- ~% V! l. x+ K* R
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見係好野先"參考"咋/ R0 }9 |: w; Z% @3 u- l6 s& w; v
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Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-27 02:39 AM:- D R% C7 I& f( }# B8 ]3 m0 B0 j
很認同
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