
Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 05:39 AM:
突然而來既事,當然好難講幫吾幫得上忙,不過非一朝一夕既事,如果攞出黎傾下,或者慢慢會有轉機...........情況就好似電車男追女仔一樣(樂觀).........咁當然,我地最多最多都只係做下軍師,比下意見........而且解鈴還須繫鈴人,就算現實上都有好多問題,難以由第二個人出手代替自己解決問題........所以咩叫真實朋友,咩叫虛擬朋友都冇分別...只在於真實既朋友你可以摸到、見到、掌握到,而令你信心大D,安全感高D.........但幫吾幫得上忙又另一回事,好難講話一定得
Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 06:02 AM:+ O$ \& M. r" F- Y* n8 K- n
補多句:處理一般問題&非一般問題
用問題解決問題,並不是問題,因為問題已經解決,但多數有手尾,但D人多數一貫都係咁做.
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但用問題之外既問題去解決問題,結果問題會越变複雜,但卻會出現前所未有既轉機,雖然吉凶難喻,但總比墨守成規好.
故事:墨子長於守城,又因為墨家思想係兼愛﹑非攻,當佢聽到楚國想造雲梯攻打宋國時,就去楚國搵造雲梯既公輸般模擬戰咁較高下(公輸般攻,墨子守),結果公輸般諗極辦法都贏唔到墨子。最後想殺左墨子,點知墨子話,你殺左我,仲有千千萬萬墨家子弟。
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 10:31 AM:
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呢個係一個殘忍ge 事實﹐但我都會覺得換個角度黎講﹐o個d 有形有體ge frds 都未必touch 到ur heart ... 雖然話如果現實中未必真正幫到大家﹐但係我諗如果幫得手ge 都會儘量去幫lor… 呢d 係限制… 係一d 冇辦法ge 事!' `" n4 K1 P7 G5 w2 Z+ P
不過如果唔係呢d限制﹐我地又點會係網上面玩得咁放呢? 因為冇形體有可能會令人與人之間完全冇利益衝突﹐所以先隔膜冇咁大… 呢個係我ge 睇法 … 所以都係珍惜大家就好……
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-18 12:19 PM:
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Quoted from Playbr2
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Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-18 12:16 PM:4 _! {" J. I: L& z `& k
我成日都有呢種感覺:# C3 v4 d I9 C3 U
覺得大家日日...
Originally posted by 12d3 at 2006-10-18 12:42 PM:
很在於每個人對朋友的定義.
面對網上的朋友, 往往能夠暢所欲言. 你不想給他們知道的, 他們便不會知道, 不用刻意提防.2 s/ d- [2 Z/ S- `! ~' v
你認為這是朋友嗎?
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 12:49 PM:
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i guess it's quoted from trista_cheong?
Originally posted by gn00987333 at 2006-10-18 01:07 PM:$ o1 r2 Q" J8 k! g
最起碼我都當你地係真正既朋友
我要講既只有咁多
明就明,唔明就算
Originally posted by gn00987333 at 2006-10-18 01:07 PM:
最起碼我都當你地係真正既朋友
我要講既只有咁多

Originally posted by 左輪仔 at 2006-10-18 03:16 PM:
當然有啦,雖然而家我少左上黎,
不過...
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 15:23:
ef 係講心﹐唔係講金!
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你走o左幾耐個個都隨時歡迎你返黎la 左仔~~![]()
Originally posted by 左輪仔 at 2006-10-18 03:34 PM:: ~+ s) \+ E# _) i; y
聽到呢句說話,真係有d感動![]()
Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 03:49 PM:
我係指真實生活上既朋友,有事揾人幫,你都會先揾佢地.因為你可以見到佢地,咁做起事上黎你會信心大D,因為你可以摸到佢地所以安全感高D,.........但其實,幫吾幫得上忙又另一回事.......而且,反問一句,你對生活上既朋友又有幾深了解,你能踏足他們的內心深處嗎??9 q8 u6 Y& h5 t- T. N% `: ]' x
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至於,上網既朋友係虛擬性質的,因為在日常生活上我們未必真正影響到你/控制你........而表面上大家沒有身份地位區別,所以可暢所欲言,講一D平時未必同人講既野(秘密、私隱、赤裸裸的''性''),........但實質上你我双方都有不能越過的防火牆,就好似你既個人資料,身份利益等等............如果知得太詳細,玩得太投入,变左真實朋友,大家就會不其然地想控制/影響對方,咁暢所欲言的空間就會消失........因為虛擬朋友你不能摸透,所以會覺得他們在真正有事時幫不上忙.......但其實在心靈上,他們是唯一可以透達你內心痛處既知己........( x' @/ S/ t' K N! H4 i A
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有一句諷剌既說話,日間上你我是勢不兩立的仇人,晚上(上網)卻成為惺惺相惜的知己
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 02:58 PM:! ~1 h9 W4 o& g- I' y7 W# ?9 [
做咩gn囡突然串o左咁多呀?![]()
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 02:58 PM:: [- m+ b4 r. h& _) {8 f1 }
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做咩gn囡突然串o左咁多呀?![]()

Originally posted by benson00 at 2006-10-18 09:46 PM:$ f$ F! X$ f" y# f, M: ]! J3 G
大家萍水相逢,岩傾咪講多句,唔會唸做唔做到朋友。
就算傾得好投契,都只係網上虛擬。! D9 n$ H0 ~1 v9 b, C
識朋友都係要係現實世界中,一齊相處過、覺得投緣、變friend,才是正路

Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-18 10:34 PM:
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呢d 只可能係一般網友在一般論壇的想法1 G! f& [0 W; U' a5 ^
但你知唔知 26FUN 比其它論壇優勝地方6 I$ \$ V5 Z) F, k) j* V7 x1 @$ |
因為26FUN內 d 網友 / _% {" B6 L) \0 u5 ~6 N
雙對黎講,' ]3 @2 M% }: K8 f- L3 s
比較成熟,; W: u0 D9 V+ \, D4 h+ W
交流比較深入
因此雙對關系都比較一般論壇d網友關系密切
,Tri姐姐


Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 11:15 PM:0 C0 g& r+ C% N* [7 u/ h! P' _) j
点關系密切先,Tri姐姐
我都未見過你盧山真面目
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Originally posted by gn00987333 at 2006-10-18 05:51 PM:
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因為我變左超正常所以我講野原全唔會理人感受

Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-19 01:05 AM:
唔好啦,
以前有幾個網友
見過我盧山真面目之後
一個傻左,, d. e+ }- j: U) X
一個都冇見過佢返過黎![]()
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 15:23:) X8 T9 e' y; q. {& E7 o
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ef 係講心﹐唔係講金!
你走o左幾耐個個都隨時歡迎你返黎la 左仔~~![]()
Originally posted by BOYDWAN at 2006-10-19 01:23 AM:! |9 F" J$ Z$ t) L6 N6 Y
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trista 講出我心底話!
加分!個個都加分!
唔理版主定會員都加分!, z' }: T' ^, O3 B/ K
相比一份緣份一份交情,呢d 分算得係乜?
小小心意而已~![]()
Originally posted by pkbrian at 2006-10-18 07:58 PM:. c& B, v/ z5 ]& S5 x+ J4 A
講真啦 \9 V( G- d9 m! r- J5 }. _" n y
我係網上面一向用心去識朋友^^. E& m: u- X9 l( {" n* s0 d
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雖然係ent fun 同大家唔係好熟
又少講野="=" Q, i5 y* l3 H
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但至少識每一個人都係一樣^^

Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-19 10:16 PM:
(小弟的愚見). Y+ R+ Z& t# j! s V
以心待人,以誠待人...
Originally posted by 自由神 at 2006-10-20 01:24 PM:" h7 {7 |. B& R' G
講真句!友情?唔會有!
朋友往往係一個幫助你成功既工具!
我俾人出賣過..........所以唔好怪我直接!5 z3 Z0 q( ~# T8 F/ w4 Q4 ] u
你對人好!你地未必對你好!
Originally posted by 自由神 at 2006-10-20 01:24 PM:& @1 O6 L3 D% J2 h* P$ c/ \: c6 E L
講真句!友情?唔會有!
朋友往往係一個幫助你成功既工具!
我俾人出賣過..........所以唔好怪我直接!
你對人好!你地未必對你好!
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-20 11:57 PM:
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以經濟學黎計算:& U: L& J$ W) q* S/ Y, y
保持一段寶貴...
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-21 12:23 AM:
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認識朋友的意義各有不同。" l: j/ c8 Y8 v/ z1 m
如果真系要用。。。經濟學。。。來 作為 認識 朋友 的工具。。' y% }6 y- p8 O/ u
可能就 要 從最初開始,看看對方是否值得投資了。0 e. O2 [- m# O" H. @
要不要再用 投資回報率 計算一下。。是否與自己的投資組合相配?
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-21 01:03 AM:
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當然要,并且十分...
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-21 01:05 AM:
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叻女!
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-21 01:08 AM:
敢網上識朋友你又點睇?
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-21 01:11 AM:
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駛唔駛 出黎 見面 先? y! P. d0 y. q, j( Q2 `
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唔駛 既 話。。。齋吹。。談天說地。。有乜所謂呢。。/ A3 `7 n1 X5 Q) ]& s
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Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-21 01:16 AM:
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今晚有時間入黎齋吹下
http://www.26fun.com/bbs/viewthread.php?tid=116775&fpage=1
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-19 05:19 AM:
多 d 入 [真‧頑童俱樂部] 玩下~
不過我地有時玩得好 "dean" 家播~0 W- T4 A: i* x& V4 U
http://www.26fun.com/bbs/viewthread.php?tid=116775&fpage=1
Originally posted by 自由神 at 2006-10-20 01:24 PM:# s `. C8 g( x$ }9 o& H
講真句!友情?唔會有!
朋友往往係一個幫助你成功既工具!
我俾人出賣過..........所以唔好怪我直接!- y$ {- s! A- \0 D, f
你對人好!你地未必對你好!

9 G' t! m0 l! ?, `* ROriginally posted by teramishu at 2006-10-22 11:59 AM:
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自由神[/size...
Originally posted by teramishu at 2006-10-22 11:48 AM:2 J& A: f% R) h$ o# E
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TriTri 有唔有发觉到...
Originally posted by teramishu at 2006-10-22 11:59 AM:' L6 P# c" Q2 T6 ] U" P
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自由神[/size...
Originally posted by iMacc at 2006-10-23 08:54 PM:
我喺ef都唔算好耐~
發言唔算好多~, G$ `5 F& _, U- t# U& J+ [7 g
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Originally posted by iMacc at 2006-10-23 08:54 PM:& N9 B# O# y4 N" }* I
我喺ef都唔算好耐~
發言唔算好多~' ~3 ^( i$ E: R q- L
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Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-24 02:47 AM:
好同意。。
的而且確,有時候。。9 f [, ]4 k& P) O c
真誠對待他人。反而製造左機會比人“揾自己老襯” 8 W" k; p3 a$ B( {
真系“該燴”。
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-24 03:37 AM:
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自己醒d未得 law



Originally posted by stanley_ckc at 2006-10-27 12:10 AM: T1 m( e0 T% {: [ o" ~9 F0 `
不過很可惜之後因為一件事令當中有些朋友吵了,這兩年的友誼一夜告吹.......
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-27 02:37 AM:
一段長時間建立友誼# l3 f6 R& L1 u' y, t8 ]4 _
一夜告吹
這未免太過可惜! h1 c t. y4 h% B6 Z) L/ e
(But the Sad Thing is: It Happen Quite Often To Everyone)
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-27 02:39 AM:0 e _- S1 z' K( t" J6 t& ]4 |. S; H. \
有時候, 友誼就是這樣。; d; E# e1 E4 K/ G5 d
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有時候,唔見面,保持神秘感,
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未嘗不是一個維繫關係的方法。。
Originally posted by ckyckk at 2006-10-27 03:15 AM:
當然有啦,雖然而家我少左上黎,
不過...

Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-27 05:41 AM:
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vv1668vv:
你就比我Lucky啦,. O( j) M7 [# v9 a. m0 d
合久必分 我就有一大籮1 D4 m% q8 R: ]3 e+ E
分久必合 就重未遇過
Originally posted by ckyckk at 2006-10-27 03:15:
當然有啦,雖然而家我少左上黎,/ \: @1 u8 E% N7 ]! j O% ?7 e- k
不過...
Originally posted by 左輪仔 at 2006-10-28 12:14 AM:
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抄我![]()
Originally posted by ckyckk at 2006-10-28 12:40 AM:2 Z! _0 r- Q9 \; b* m
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見係好野先"參考"咋
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Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-27 02:39 AM:0 n; G+ E! ^6 j! O r x
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很認同
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