
Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 05:39 AM:9 w' t5 a, t; K- F* I6 c
突然而來既事,當然好難講幫吾幫得上忙,不過非一朝一夕既事,如果攞出黎傾下,或者慢慢會有轉機...........情況就好似電車男追女仔一樣(樂觀).........咁當然,我地最多最多都只係做下軍師,比下意見........而且解鈴還須繫鈴人,就算現實上都有好多問題,難以由第二個人出手代替自己解決問題........所以咩叫真實朋友,咩叫虛擬朋友都冇分別...只在於真實既朋友你可以摸到、見到、掌握到,而令你信心大D,安全感高D.........但幫吾幫得上忙又另一回事,好難講話一定得
Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 06:02 AM:
補多句:處理一般問題&非一般問題5 Y4 ^( F; u7 G" e, y: C
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用問題解決問題,並不是問題,因為問題已經解決,但多數有手尾,但D人多數一貫都係咁做.
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但用問題之外既問題去解決問題,結果問題會越变複雜,但卻會出現前所未有既轉機,雖然吉凶難喻,但總比墨守成規好./ u! I9 Y) u ~6 X/ f8 J
故事:墨子長於守城,又因為墨家思想係兼愛﹑非攻,當佢聽到楚國想造雲梯攻打宋國時,就去楚國搵造雲梯既公輸般模擬戰咁較高下(公輸般攻,墨子守),結果公輸般諗極辦法都贏唔到墨子。最後想殺左墨子,點知墨子話,你殺左我,仲有千千萬萬墨家子弟。
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 10:31 AM:
呢個係一個殘忍ge 事實﹐但我都會覺得換個角度黎講﹐o個d 有形有體ge frds 都未必touch 到ur heart ... 雖然話如果現實中未必真正幫到大家﹐但係我諗如果幫得手ge 都會儘量去幫lor… 呢d 係限制… 係一d 冇辦法ge 事!
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不過如果唔係呢d限制﹐我地又點會係網上面玩得咁放呢? 因為冇形體有可能會令人與人之間完全冇利益衝突﹐所以先隔膜冇咁大… 呢個係我ge 睇法 … 所以都係珍惜大家就好……
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-18 12:19 PM:6 J9 ^1 W ~' k+ c/ r. B
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Quoted from Playbr2
[ Last edited by Triangel on 2006-10-18 at 12:22 PM ]
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-18 12:16 PM:
我成日都有呢種感覺:
覺得大家日日...
Originally posted by 12d3 at 2006-10-18 12:42 PM:
很在於每個人對朋友的定義.8 v8 s$ e& K# J
面對網上的朋友, 往往能夠暢所欲言. 你不想給他們知道的, 他們便不會知道, 不用刻意提防.0 x- l! `, ]8 E! |6 S: E
你認為這是朋友嗎?
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 12:49 PM:
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i guess it's quoted from trista_cheong?
Originally posted by gn00987333 at 2006-10-18 01:07 PM:* @7 U, c8 \! ~2 s* ]: g
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我要講既只有咁多
明就明,唔明就算
Originally posted by gn00987333 at 2006-10-18 01:07 PM:
最起碼我都當你地係真正既朋友0 I7 E; h! t$ f) [* K4 J9 k
我要講既只有咁多

Originally posted by 左輪仔 at 2006-10-18 03:16 PM:
當然有啦,雖然而家我少左上黎,
不過...
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 15:23:! R; D, a2 r A3 U8 i5 ^" T
ef 係講心﹐唔係講金!$ x M& @) }' g9 p- I! w- e$ f
你走o左幾耐個個都隨時歡迎你返黎la 左仔~~![]()
Originally posted by 左輪仔 at 2006-10-18 03:34 PM:& | O- h0 D t9 b/ n9 [8 F9 [# w) K# i+ C
聽到呢句說話,真係有d感動![]()
Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 03:49 PM:
我係指真實生活上既朋友,有事揾人幫,你都會先揾佢地.因為你可以見到佢地,咁做起事上黎你會信心大D,因為你可以摸到佢地所以安全感高D,.........但其實,幫吾幫得上忙又另一回事.......而且,反問一句,你對生活上既朋友又有幾深了解,你能踏足他們的內心深處嗎??/ j8 Y$ \3 l! r# }, P5 i. P
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至於,上網既朋友係虛擬性質的,因為在日常生活上我們未必真正影響到你/控制你........而表面上大家沒有身份地位區別,所以可暢所欲言,講一D平時未必同人講既野(秘密、私隱、赤裸裸的''性''),........但實質上你我双方都有不能越過的防火牆,就好似你既個人資料,身份利益等等............如果知得太詳細,玩得太投入,变左真實朋友,大家就會不其然地想控制/影響對方,咁暢所欲言的空間就會消失........因為虛擬朋友你不能摸透,所以會覺得他們在真正有事時幫不上忙.......但其實在心靈上,他們是唯一可以透達你內心痛處既知己........
有一句諷剌既說話,日間上你我是勢不兩立的仇人,晚上(上網)卻成為惺惺相惜的知己
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 02:58 PM:
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做咩gn囡突然串o左咁多呀?![]()
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 02:58 PM:2 r, U" [: J5 Q, h' h ?
做咩gn囡突然串o左咁多呀?![]()

Originally posted by benson00 at 2006-10-18 09:46 PM:
大家萍水相逢,岩傾咪講多句,唔會唸做唔做到朋友。1 Q' _) k* W" p7 X0 R U
就算傾得好投契,都只係網上虛擬。
識朋友都係要係現實世界中,一齊相處過、覺得投緣、變friend,才是正路

Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-18 10:34 PM:: K# }: F& \2 I
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呢d 只可能係一般網友在一般論壇的想法$ p8 u& ~' S6 g2 L: l
但你知唔知 26FUN 比其它論壇優勝地方. R! B }2 O. l0 }: j- }
因為26FUN內 d 網友 2 M( a4 n: x- \( r) t# Q/ j: _
雙對黎講,
比較成熟,9 m* ?+ u3 f! I: u# U
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因此雙對關系都比較一般論壇d網友關系密切
,Tri姐姐


Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 11:15 PM:" c! ?, ~ J" A8 W+ u- e
点關系密切先,Tri姐姐
我都未見過你盧山真面目
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Originally posted by gn00987333 at 2006-10-18 05:51 PM:
因為我變左超正常所以我講野原全唔會理人感受

Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-19 01:05 AM:
唔好啦,; i* E) W# l$ V5 { X
以前有幾個網友6 f3 s1 Y, W) |; n4 M$ }0 U+ i. h
見過我盧山真面目之後* a2 U. x' X% T
一個傻左,! g# J7 P. y8 e; R) ]
一個都冇見過佢返過黎![]()
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 15:23:
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ef 係講心﹐唔係講金!
你走o左幾耐個個都隨時歡迎你返黎la 左仔~~![]()
Originally posted by BOYDWAN at 2006-10-19 01:23 AM:
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trista 講出我心底話!
加分!個個都加分!
唔理版主定會員都加分!
相比一份緣份一份交情,呢d 分算得係乜?
小小心意而已~![]()
Originally posted by pkbrian at 2006-10-18 07:58 PM:+ N$ C5 b4 |. \9 R, }7 P" T! Y
講真啦/ U4 a7 b p |
我係網上面一向用心去識朋友^^
雖然係ent fun 同大家唔係好熟
又少講野="=
但至少識每一個人都係一樣^^

Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-19 10:16 PM:) ]" S: ]2 R {% m
(小弟的愚見)
以心待人,以誠待人...
Originally posted by 自由神 at 2006-10-20 01:24 PM:
講真句!友情?唔會有!
朋友往往係一個幫助你成功既工具!
我俾人出賣過..........所以唔好怪我直接!6 E) _) {2 }+ C; d$ N& W9 v
你對人好!你地未必對你好!
Originally posted by 自由神 at 2006-10-20 01:24 PM:6 {6 G+ ?( K2 i& ^' o9 Y: R
講真句!友情?唔會有!; W5 u1 _ A% y1 T
朋友往往係一個幫助你成功既工具!
我俾人出賣過..........所以唔好怪我直接!
你對人好!你地未必對你好!
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-20 11:57 PM:
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以經濟學黎計算:
保持一段寶貴...
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-21 12:23 AM:/ s3 S; e5 I |) g/ p
認識朋友的意義各有不同。0 ?# _3 v( y& v1 W& V
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可能就 要 從最初開始,看看對方是否值得投資了。
要不要再用 投資回報率 計算一下。。是否與自己的投資組合相配?+ u' n: Z; U: w+ w
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-21 01:03 AM:
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當然要,并且十分...
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-21 01:05 AM:' l& W2 q; [0 L3 W% d( B" Q! Y4 C
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叻女!
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-21 01:08 AM:
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敢網上識朋友你又點睇?
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-21 01:11 AM:
駛唔駛 出黎 見面 先?
唔駛 既 話。。。齋吹。。談天說地。。有乜所謂呢。。
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[ Last edited by vv1668vv on 2006-10-21 at 01:13 AM ]
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-21 01:16 AM:9 L' D$ g3 y9 \1 {
今晚有時間入黎齋吹下
http://www.26fun.com/bbs/viewthread.php?tid=116775&fpage=1
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-19 05:19 AM:
多 d 入 [真‧頑童俱樂部] 玩下~' a* D" f" Q, I9 ^6 J0 H
不過我地有時玩得好 "dean" 家播~# ]! n: D' a( [4 e3 A/ e& j
http://www.26fun.com/bbs/viewthread.php?tid=116775&fpage=1
Originally posted by 自由神 at 2006-10-20 01:24 PM:4 W: n# a z$ R) i+ @7 L7 R
講真句!友情?唔會有!
朋友往往係一個幫助你成功既工具!
我俾人出賣過..........所以唔好怪我直接!
你對人好!你地未必對你好!
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Originally posted by teramishu at 2006-10-22 11:59 AM:
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自由神[/size...
Originally posted by teramishu at 2006-10-22 11:48 AM:3 o5 n( u: e5 \5 a; i
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TriTri 有唔有发觉到...
Originally posted by teramishu at 2006-10-22 11:59 AM:2 z' Z a1 D0 R8 d p1 N
自由神[/size...
Originally posted by iMacc at 2006-10-23 08:54 PM:
我喺ef都唔算好耐~0 \: S# z% J% \) d9 |
發言唔算好多~
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Originally posted by iMacc at 2006-10-23 08:54 PM:( n) z" X6 q+ Y4 _
我喺ef都唔算好耐~$ |9 Z0 K) F: M5 C: j* i
發言唔算好多~$ J$ y' i) r# ^% w, u
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Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-24 02:47 AM:
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好同意。。
的而且確,有時候。。
真誠對待他人。反而製造左機會比人“揾自己老襯” . \$ ]. W& d5 R$ c( _+ F
真系“該燴”。
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-24 03:37 AM:
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自己醒d未得 law



Originally posted by stanley_ckc at 2006-10-27 12:10 AM:# }8 C& F- q+ P1 W3 u
不過很可惜之後因為一件事令當中有些朋友吵了,這兩年的友誼一夜告吹.......
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-27 02:37 AM:
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一段長時間建立友誼
一夜告吹0 F' r+ j* i |% z y z( D" J* i$ [
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(But the Sad Thing is: It Happen Quite Often To Everyone)
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-27 02:39 AM:
有時候, 友誼就是這樣。
合久必分,分久必合。
有時候,唔見面,保持神秘感,
大家互相有一種,“彼此不要求” 的 保留心態。2 y' Q# n3 Z* @. }6 ?
未嘗不是一個維繫關係的方法。。$ q- m* @7 _+ }% c7 G8 g
Originally posted by ckyckk at 2006-10-27 03:15 AM:
當然有啦,雖然而家我少左上黎,6 M6 { L4 Z8 c2 j- J' M. J+ O* `
不過...

Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-27 05:41 AM:5 P: | p; I4 l/ G, w
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你就比我Lucky啦,. S3 N# e4 R( x w
合久必分 我就有一大籮; Q9 Y) j7 v4 f% _
分久必合 就重未遇過
Originally posted by ckyckk at 2006-10-27 03:15:
當然有啦,雖然而家我少左上黎,& }& o- ~& d" v& c0 r( F
不過...
Originally posted by 左輪仔 at 2006-10-28 12:14 AM:
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抄我![]()
Originally posted by ckyckk at 2006-10-28 12:40 AM:9 D6 p" j5 }! n; p. p# S
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見係好野先"參考"咋
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Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-27 02:39 AM:# l% S, w% m& M* D3 _# \
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很認同
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