
Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 05:39 AM:) p( G6 A6 V$ R T, [
突然而來既事,當然好難講幫吾幫得上忙,不過非一朝一夕既事,如果攞出黎傾下,或者慢慢會有轉機...........情況就好似電車男追女仔一樣(樂觀).........咁當然,我地最多最多都只係做下軍師,比下意見........而且解鈴還須繫鈴人,就算現實上都有好多問題,難以由第二個人出手代替自己解決問題........所以咩叫真實朋友,咩叫虛擬朋友都冇分別...只在於真實既朋友你可以摸到、見到、掌握到,而令你信心大D,安全感高D.........但幫吾幫得上忙又另一回事,好難講話一定得
Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 06:02 AM: B: g+ K0 }0 ^& K# S1 Q
補多句:處理一般問題&非一般問題
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用問題解決問題,並不是問題,因為問題已經解決,但多數有手尾,但D人多數一貫都係咁做.
但用問題之外既問題去解決問題,結果問題會越变複雜,但卻會出現前所未有既轉機,雖然吉凶難喻,但總比墨守成規好.$ |+ q+ L1 Z& u! f4 ?1 ^% W
故事:墨子長於守城,又因為墨家思想係兼愛﹑非攻,當佢聽到楚國想造雲梯攻打宋國時,就去楚國搵造雲梯既公輸般模擬戰咁較高下(公輸般攻,墨子守),結果公輸般諗極辦法都贏唔到墨子。最後想殺左墨子,點知墨子話,你殺左我,仲有千千萬萬墨家子弟。
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 10:31 AM:# U( j% f" m" k9 ^
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呢個係一個殘忍ge 事實﹐但我都會覺得換個角度黎講﹐o個d 有形有體ge frds 都未必touch 到ur heart ... 雖然話如果現實中未必真正幫到大家﹐但係我諗如果幫得手ge 都會儘量去幫lor… 呢d 係限制… 係一d 冇辦法ge 事!
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不過如果唔係呢d限制﹐我地又點會係網上面玩得咁放呢? 因為冇形體有可能會令人與人之間完全冇利益衝突﹐所以先隔膜冇咁大… 呢個係我ge 睇法 … 所以都係珍惜大家就好……
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-18 12:19 PM:& c! n% W3 P0 N1 v7 G( W
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Quoted from Playbr2
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Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-18 12:16 PM:$ C1 l9 [8 E6 m& j7 g( K8 [
我成日都有呢種感覺:, r, ^ ]1 s6 b
覺得大家日日...
Originally posted by 12d3 at 2006-10-18 12:42 PM:0 X$ o/ R) r$ `. y! ]
很在於每個人對朋友的定義.' F1 p/ H- j$ l& P& q- V
面對網上的朋友, 往往能夠暢所欲言. 你不想給他們知道的, 他們便不會知道, 不用刻意提防.
你認為這是朋友嗎?
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 12:49 PM:% J. R. }/ e) P" R
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i guess it's quoted from trista_cheong?
Originally posted by gn00987333 at 2006-10-18 01:07 PM:
最起碼我都當你地係真正既朋友
我要講既只有咁多! a; K' j% ]( K' S9 L6 S7 I
明就明,唔明就算
Originally posted by gn00987333 at 2006-10-18 01:07 PM:
最起碼我都當你地係真正既朋友
我要講既只有咁多

Originally posted by 左輪仔 at 2006-10-18 03:16 PM:
當然有啦,雖然而家我少左上黎,8 F" {$ P+ f; e. D* ?* {: P* C3 Z0 @
不過...
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 15:23:& i* I8 R( p1 A3 W* h
ef 係講心﹐唔係講金!
你走o左幾耐個個都隨時歡迎你返黎la 左仔~~![]()
Originally posted by 左輪仔 at 2006-10-18 03:34 PM:$ b" C) \* F1 h% e
聽到呢句說話,真係有d感動![]()
Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 03:49 PM:& O8 x! _6 c6 F G
我係指真實生活上既朋友,有事揾人幫,你都會先揾佢地.因為你可以見到佢地,咁做起事上黎你會信心大D,因為你可以摸到佢地所以安全感高D,.........但其實,幫吾幫得上忙又另一回事.......而且,反問一句,你對生活上既朋友又有幾深了解,你能踏足他們的內心深處嗎??
至於,上網既朋友係虛擬性質的,因為在日常生活上我們未必真正影響到你/控制你........而表面上大家沒有身份地位區別,所以可暢所欲言,講一D平時未必同人講既野(秘密、私隱、赤裸裸的''性''),........但實質上你我双方都有不能越過的防火牆,就好似你既個人資料,身份利益等等............如果知得太詳細,玩得太投入,变左真實朋友,大家就會不其然地想控制/影響對方,咁暢所欲言的空間就會消失........因為虛擬朋友你不能摸透,所以會覺得他們在真正有事時幫不上忙.......但其實在心靈上,他們是唯一可以透達你內心痛處既知己........$ P j6 k1 i& K* @
有一句諷剌既說話,日間上你我是勢不兩立的仇人,晚上(上網)卻成為惺惺相惜的知己
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 02:58 PM:' ^; S& T/ C. H2 \0 A7 G! F9 c3 P
做咩gn囡突然串o左咁多呀?![]()
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 02:58 PM:
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做咩gn囡突然串o左咁多呀?![]()

Originally posted by benson00 at 2006-10-18 09:46 PM:7 v" Y) [$ t: w6 C; q
大家萍水相逢,岩傾咪講多句,唔會唸做唔做到朋友。
就算傾得好投契,都只係網上虛擬。( n* V$ x+ E: z5 k
識朋友都係要係現實世界中,一齊相處過、覺得投緣、變friend,才是正路

Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-18 10:34 PM:
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呢d 只可能係一般網友在一般論壇的想法
但你知唔知 26FUN 比其它論壇優勝地方
因為26FUN內 d 網友 c: {6 h/ j3 A0 T7 J' u
雙對黎講,
比較成熟,1 D6 i% j# c* g2 m5 X: n' ?
交流比較深入
因此雙對關系都比較一般論壇d網友關系密切
,Tri姐姐


Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 11:15 PM:* F% s2 r4 e- T r
点關系密切先,Tri姐姐
我都未見過你盧山真面目
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Originally posted by gn00987333 at 2006-10-18 05:51 PM:
因為我變左超正常所以我講野原全唔會理人感受

Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-19 01:05 AM:
唔好啦,
以前有幾個網友& R' F: h% k, {$ q* z: v" Z2 J$ j) }
見過我盧山真面目之後
一個傻左,
一個都冇見過佢返過黎![]()
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 15:23:
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ef 係講心﹐唔係講金!5 Q! X j/ X% W8 Q
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你走o左幾耐個個都隨時歡迎你返黎la 左仔~~![]()
Originally posted by BOYDWAN at 2006-10-19 01:23 AM:
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trista 講出我心底話!& z; d: c. ~' u0 \$ d) u/ g
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加分!個個都加分!
唔理版主定會員都加分!
相比一份緣份一份交情,呢d 分算得係乜?
小小心意而已~![]()
Originally posted by pkbrian at 2006-10-18 07:58 PM:. \2 b( e e a
講真啦
我係網上面一向用心去識朋友^^" P$ k9 e) x' E% S$ \' y% s) D
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又少講野="=
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但至少識每一個人都係一樣^^

Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-19 10:16 PM:5 `: ~( q: F" o, m0 } c3 |+ S
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以心待人,以誠待人...
Originally posted by 自由神 at 2006-10-20 01:24 PM:
講真句!友情?唔會有!
朋友往往係一個幫助你成功既工具!- k4 ]. Y# y) }( N' p& b
我俾人出賣過..........所以唔好怪我直接!" f( @& r7 ?7 l1 o$ A8 m D% y
你對人好!你地未必對你好!
Originally posted by 自由神 at 2006-10-20 01:24 PM:
講真句!友情?唔會有!
朋友往往係一個幫助你成功既工具!' e& H% W1 Q6 x, J5 N
我俾人出賣過..........所以唔好怪我直接!
你對人好!你地未必對你好!
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-20 11:57 PM:0 A8 I; c& L8 `5 V; k
以經濟學黎計算:
保持一段寶貴...
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-21 12:23 AM:( A& o8 _+ z# z6 L: b
認識朋友的意義各有不同。5 X0 v. d2 k/ I, O% O; `
如果真系要用。。。經濟學。。。來 作為 認識 朋友 的工具。。
可能就 要 從最初開始,看看對方是否值得投資了。! G1 M1 d& W9 I# W7 v4 V7 x; ]
要不要再用 投資回報率 計算一下。。是否與自己的投資組合相配?0 J/ }; V. M9 s5 @# R1 e2 N
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-21 01:03 AM:! o c+ S. J3 j
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當然要,并且十分...
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-21 01:05 AM: ~1 u4 J$ K) u7 ?
叻女!
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-21 01:08 AM:
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敢網上識朋友你又點睇?
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-21 01:11 AM:0 z% J- x" t; E* C7 y( N6 j
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駛唔駛 出黎 見面 先?
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唔駛 既 話。。。齋吹。。談天說地。。有乜所謂呢。。, H& v- C ]- Y. s, x) B" D2 ?
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Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-21 01:16 AM:
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今晚有時間入黎齋吹下
http://www.26fun.com/bbs/viewthread.php?tid=116775&fpage=1
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-19 05:19 AM:
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多 d 入 [真‧頑童俱樂部] 玩下~1 l4 _, X( d8 [
不過我地有時玩得好 "dean" 家播~6 r, U2 b! P1 {5 K% i# O( D3 o! M
http://www.26fun.com/bbs/viewthread.php?tid=116775&fpage=1
Originally posted by 自由神 at 2006-10-20 01:24 PM:( y2 ?% X! d. ]0 Y
講真句!友情?唔會有!
朋友往往係一個幫助你成功既工具!" @/ m% q: k' c0 w$ K3 Q
我俾人出賣過..........所以唔好怪我直接!
你對人好!你地未必對你好!
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自由神[/size...
Originally posted by teramishu at 2006-10-22 11:48 AM:& q1 T1 X4 M E. C2 j9 ?; f+ L% h& }4 C
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TriTri 有唔有发觉到...
Originally posted by teramishu at 2006-10-22 11:59 AM:
自由神[/size...
Originally posted by iMacc at 2006-10-23 08:54 PM:0 E3 P: k$ L8 Y. y8 v. ]% N# y
我喺ef都唔算好耐~
發言唔算好多~
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Originally posted by iMacc at 2006-10-23 08:54 PM:9 M" K- f+ n2 m8 H; N$ x$ c
我喺ef都唔算好耐~5 e' H2 `: O3 z* D# m- j
發言唔算好多~
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Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-24 02:47 AM:
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好同意。。
的而且確,有時候。。
真誠對待他人。反而製造左機會比人“揾自己老襯”
真系“該燴”。
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-24 03:37 AM: q$ d' y0 s; c i8 n/ P& F
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自己醒d未得 law



Originally posted by stanley_ckc at 2006-10-27 12:10 AM:
不過很可惜之後因為一件事令當中有些朋友吵了,這兩年的友誼一夜告吹.......
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-27 02:37 AM:0 X( e3 w" }( D$ ]4 V1 F7 o
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一段長時間建立友誼
一夜告吹) j( m/ p+ B2 ?% W1 C Y
這未免太過可惜
(But the Sad Thing is: It Happen Quite Often To Everyone)
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-27 02:39 AM:1 R! `+ x2 _" Y @/ K0 a1 R
有時候, 友誼就是這樣。. d( g* B* i5 f* ~
合久必分,分久必合。
有時候,唔見面,保持神秘感,
大家互相有一種,“彼此不要求” 的 保留心態。- H5 r Z; R6 ]6 N# Q2 l
未嘗不是一個維繫關係的方法。。
Originally posted by ckyckk at 2006-10-27 03:15 AM:
當然有啦,雖然而家我少左上黎,
不過...
, J* P& d: b1 D: }3 NOriginally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-27 05:41 AM:
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你就比我Lucky啦,
合久必分 我就有一大籮4 `% v( K4 V* X8 a4 U; H: K
分久必合 就重未遇過
Originally posted by ckyckk at 2006-10-27 03:15:
當然有啦,雖然而家我少左上黎,$ m, F4 C3 V, J2 j& N
不過...
Originally posted by 左輪仔 at 2006-10-28 12:14 AM:9 b' S1 |& u6 N& Y: S
抄我![]()
Originally posted by ckyckk at 2006-10-28 12:40 AM:3 C) C( {' V8 h; B8 K a( P
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Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-27 02:39 AM:
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很認同
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