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作者: hkmoney 時間: 2005-5-14 03:55 AM 標題: 拍拖"見家長"

大家拍咗幾耐拖先去見家長?

見家長時又做咗d乜? 分享吓啦!

[ Last edited by hkmoney on 2005-5-14 at 03:59 AM ]

作者: x_integration_x 時間: 2005-5-14 05:19 AM 標題: REply

drink tea lor

作者: Gretzky 時間: 2005-5-14 05:50 AM

About a year.....

What did we do? Of course it's dim sum! If you know how to how a chopstick properly, order the right dim sum and pour tea for the parents, you pass the first gate!

I took my girlfriend's parents (now my parents-in-law la) to a fancy Chinese restaurant for dim sum. My wife has told them a bit about me already (so they have an idea of what your name is, what you do for a living and who's in your family, etc.). It was an intense beginning but we chat about current affairs, what to do on weekend, stuff like that.....

Things I've learned from my experience:
1) Be on time! If you are late, you will climb a long uphill road in PR work!
2) Let the parents choose what they want to eat, never take the initiative!
3) When it's time to order, don't order really expensive things. The parents may think of you as a spender with no brain.
4) Pour tea...lots of tea....but don't bring them food with your own saliva-dipped chopstick!
5) Try not to talk too much. Answer their questions in short sentences.
6) It's okay to be tense (believe me, they are just as scared as you are), just smile. Cheerful face score points.
7) If other relatives are coming too, make sure you talk to them with eye contact.
8) Do some homework before the meeting (names of people, taboos..etc.)
9) Be genuine about youself..don't bluff!

Parents like their future son-in-law to be honest . And they have eat more salt then your portion of rice!
10) One last thing, it's nice to know not only they are reading you on the spot, you are reading them as well. It's a mutual interview process.

Enjoy.

作者: lliu 時間: 2005-5-14 06:01 AM

First time when I went to see her parents in her house, she told me only her parents and a anutie is in the house, so its ok for me, but then when I walked in..................

Auntie Uncle Auntie Uncle Auntie Uncle Auntie Uncle Auntie Uncle Auntie Uncle Auntie Uncle

there was more than 20 people in her house, all of her relative and friends.....
I only figure out who is her parents when they all leave...

作者: yyy007 時間: 2005-5-14 08:00 AM

great exp shared Gretzky !!

作者: jorg 時間: 2005-5-14 09:16 AM

great Gretzky!!
its really good experience
but....i have no girlfriend

5) Try not to talk too much. Answer their questions in short sentences.

maybe answer more....
i think if i talk less, they may think i am a cool guy....
not passion

[ Last edited by jorg on 2005-5-14 at 09:23 AM ]

作者: hkmoney 時間: 2005-5-14 12:08 PM

Gretzky: great experience!

indeed i not have gf... just ppl say it's scary... lol

作者: trista_cheong 時間: 2005-5-14 01:37 PM

Originally posted by Gretzky at 2005-5-14 05:50 AM:
About a year.....

What did we do...

wa ... Gretzky ...u seldom come here !
i think ur post in 時事政治區 is quite good , i appreciate that u are here ~ welcome

besides , +10 for nice response

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