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標題: 熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+] [打印本頁]
作者: halu    時間: 2005-6-6 12:38 AM     標題: 熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?. G% I7 S. Y* ~0 k1 z
好唔鍾意呢種感覺9 V! I0 F8 m3 ?, }/ d7 E5 _- _; b
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
* @" f3 `1 X. G個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
+ c- f1 t' z. u覺得好空虛6 J& v4 w7 c$ U3 H# f1 K
其實早幾次都有試過係咁1 ^( `) @1 D/ A- m7 ^
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己6 C# S: Q& O! b: R
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]
作者: funnygay    時間: 2005-6-6 12:45 AM

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
6 Z# \' r5 }" a  A9 n但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
+ ?/ S; u& d( d3 X; O熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面
作者: Christy~呀華    時間: 2005-6-6 01:31 AM

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
  ^5 y9 v* q) d: P. l8 N' k  T7 g所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,! z+ v' h% v1 L- r& g
日日有車站,
7 _9 n2 A' J4 y! ]" L有目標!
作者: taipotse    時間: 2005-6-6 01:56 AM

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
6 L/ Z/ o; @9 b4 n% P& y你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?
作者: markmk    時間: 2005-6-6 03:03 AM     標題: ..

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
% a$ d. Z, k: C: k) x如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...
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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.7 \' A, |+ H/ F& \2 Y
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
  ^+ F% W" i( m1 h/ @2 B) G玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
$ }# g( c1 [# g: g總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.
作者: 本篤十六世    時間: 2005-6-6 03:22 AM

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
0 B0 @  a8 Z6 b' X) L其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
1 P2 `! \5 U. n/ a所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
  K% w  l( m. s- I5 \; o# U日日有車站,3 X: W' p. R, R* D3 b& S: |5 a! }$ E
有目標!
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what does he mean ar?no point
作者: rest365days    時間: 2005-6-6 10:49 AM

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:/ O1 a5 I2 f) d* r+ f( \  S
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
% g7 y$ Q* F) q2 ~好唔鍾意呢種感覺& a, S" S. O7 o: G/ _9 [
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心0 {8 c; s; @6 `
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣2 V" H( h4 `7 j2 h+ k( q
覺得好空虛
2 i3 B& F+ W: s4 ~3 \6 i" o其實早幾次都有試過係咁2 O" y9 {0 g/ I: ~/ U
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
% z  `' s4 w+ t. B0 a7 Q用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
+ G% r% W2 y/ Y7 D8 |8 ]$ W唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
9 v. m2 ^# G6 E" x( t& {; \8 b1 h有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:
作者: Gretzky    時間: 2005-6-6 02:00 PM

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.: a2 v. X! T$ s3 I9 x/ F: K

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a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long$ Z' `; G  v# X( _
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.2 Z, A# v5 }; g# ?& p
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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2 I2 t. @! R& t$ _8 h2 V2 d4 n/ ]Just another thought on lonliness:3 S- d+ ^4 L* h* {
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.
作者: Jho808    時間: 2005-6-6 02:20 PM

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time....." B  }7 r" W/ o9 t* q
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!
作者: 遊戲    時間: 2005-6-6 03:39 PM

真的啦～9 k8 p0 c  H6 F: {2 D! ]7 p
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺1 s% b8 j' o  F% F! W
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影+ B: G- _9 p: D5 r# E2 E+ p  W
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
+ M" T2 _8 f6 G2 u2 `# D空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
" F# R& N- q/ |很少會超過一天～2 ?% O" |. R" a+ Y
要期待更好的明天呀！
作者: halu    時間: 2005-6-7 02:06 AM

Originally posted by markmk at 2005-6-6 03:03 AM:: g' y% B4 ^9 n, [* q9 X/ J
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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想...
. x. M: u# Q+ k% }  F2 i9 q1 @* e其實我有諗過一個問題
# A+ @+ d3 Q: p$ y. |2 j6 n如果我唔覺得空虛
, _, ?5 j6 |: D! s又點顯得出我果晚特別開心0 F& {. A6 b( V' j8 h  i7 k

# `. I% Y8 M; P3 L& P; o2 b正如冇醜女點顯得出其他係靚女一樣
作者: halu    時間: 2005-6-7 02:10 AM

Originally posted by rest365days at 2005-6-6 10:49 AM:) z+ K+ `! D" V0 }
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲...
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可能你有少少misunderstand左my meaning呢
- o4 v+ n: r+ V+ r, d其實我呢班fd全部都識左十年
' g/ E3 m/ ?& j9 g- P: ]9 Z0 ~0 b每次出黎大家都真係拎個心出黎
5 [2 u' N8 M) _0 O  f7 B7 v, m$ [而唔會大家有d咩私心利益衝突
; ^4 f; Q  z, t: ]1 k; V) i但因為e家大家都要做野ge關係
/ u; D3 n/ v) q4 M0 Z/ jso好難約埋時間係咁arm全部人都得閒
& a9 W- `( X' V8 c' l/ Xcos我地有人做野係輪班的, h8 Q4 y" h1 r+ d* B# v
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同埋可能你都講中左d6 z4 m% j4 o# B& m' D0 L* s
就係人生目標....呢樣野真係好深奧5 H3 m* ~( j7 N' h$ X
有d人可能讀緊中學就有..有d人可能搵一世都搵唔到
" J! T0 F/ [1 A: U7 {! X, Y我e家黎緊下兩個禮拜22歲都未搵到呢..
作者: halu    時間: 2005-6-7 02:11 AM

Originally posted by Gretzky at 2005-6-6 02:00 PM:# g2 ^$ H/ B! ]: `* i/ y+ x7 o  k1 u
Solitude is part of life....we long...
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that's the reality...
& j0 F! P0 k9 H5 R& g. U! z$ ?你講出左現實殘酷ge一面..
作者: halu    時間: 2005-6-7 02:12 AM

Originally posted by Jho808 at 2005-6-6 02:20 PM:
. `% H! }1 y& h. S7 O1 w3 y; HActually........u feel lonely is it...
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i know..i know my fds won't leave me
( K0 a. X4 N7 p2 A( qbut i juz can't control my feeling/ e* Y5 n& v! \  C" p% G' \- y
maybe that's my characteristic...i'm somehow a bit pessimistic
作者: halu    時間: 2005-6-7 02:16 AM

首先thx all開解先; S7 a( z( P. ^7 {9 M* g% t
but i hv some questions..
) n; {6 t; v  T. P; K3 }其實會唔會係同我星座有關呢
8 h2 D) w; r, Z因為我係雙子...忽冷忽熱得好緊要
) O  L; j; j% ]4 v6 Q8 w- Z0 q我真係可以o係呢一刻好開心..但一分鐘後可以好down..完全唔出聲
# h, n# B1 ~7 n9 ]係極度情緒化..但其實果一分鐘係冇發生過任何事..可能只係諗到d野
5 F0 G' [: _; i9 ^4 O6 f% A/ j呢度有冇星座高手?



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