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作者: halu 時間: 2005-6-6 12:38 AM 標題: 熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣. R/ O' Z$ B2 o8 K6 o" b! m, W2 E
覺得好空虛

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其實早幾次都有試過係咁
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?

[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

作者: funnygay 時間: 2005-6-6 12:45 AM

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺/ c9 [; p6 W& ~" u
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

作者: Christy~呀華 時間: 2005-6-6 01:31 AM

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,

所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,

日日有車站,

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有目標!

作者: taipotse 時間: 2005-6-6 01:56 AM

令自己有咁忙得咁忙- p& c9 y" ~3 }/ C7 R1 @
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

作者: markmk 時間: 2005-6-6 03:03 AM 標題: ..

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
+ V k: Y4 R/ {3 @- v9 E如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.8 J" E. Y8 p: f
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.. c8 j% c, {' R0 n3 w
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

作者: 本篤十六世 時間: 2005-6-6 03:22 AM

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
( m% M- T3 E8 }其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻, N1 R' p% h; |4 R; w1 G. F
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
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有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

作者: rest365days 時間: 2005-6-6 10:49 AM

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:- P7 y$ G# a( b3 z3 ]
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?- u0 p: p* ^! C- g# b5 o3 L
好唔鍾意呢種感覺$ p% Z3 X q8 L
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心) I: k$ v/ Q6 K' m) s. p
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
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& b$ m# ]# v9 U% j4 j: q其實早幾次都有試過係咁
, \+ v( R' ?9 M# W卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己, ]( n1 w8 a7 X+ |8 [( e
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.& G: ?& v5 n7 x" E( R# S' S
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

作者: Gretzky 時間: 2005-6-6 02:00 PM

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.* ~. ?# i9 Q( ?3 l3 d1 n' a1 S/ r

People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:8 h6 N) T0 w2 j- q; {
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long% O+ t5 ?. P/ p$ R4 O% k' s
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.# }& }7 S* U4 ^6 T' w
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

作者: Jho808 時間: 2005-6-6 02:20 PM

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want to keep up the happy time...... L3 A# ?6 l n; I3 h6 p+ c
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

作者: 遊戲 時間: 2005-6-6 03:39 PM

真的啦～
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影1 l3 L4 v" q |4 s- k% {, k0 @( O
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～2 S4 N E; a, l5 r# q7 |
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
很少會超過一天～' O% y# k, R! f7 S
要期待更好的明天呀！

作者: halu 時間: 2005-6-7 02:06 AM

Originally posted by markmk at 2005-6-6 03:03 AM:
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9 J5 f1 t" n3 l; j我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想...

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其實我有諗過一個問題! y# n/ i6 C( [+ L5 }0 |3 y% h
如果我唔覺得空虛
又點顯得出我果晚特別開心& @ }+ b$ w2 a4 a
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正如冇醜女點顯得出其他係靚女一樣

作者: halu 時間: 2005-6-7 02:10 AM

Originally posted by rest365days at 2005-6-6 10:49 AM:
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3 u, x. P" n, e0 x& K [這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲...

可能你有少少misunderstand左my meaning呢
其實我呢班fd全部都識左十年# f/ |' t# e7 L" k0 t9 k4 X
每次出黎大家都真係拎個心出黎- s4 U' j7 K1 Z7 N) m/ T# P+ p
而唔會大家有d咩私心利益衝突, c0 c2 [3 {# n5 ]3 [
但因為e家大家都要做野ge關係+ w! h. _) v* v& Q( h) f
so好難約埋時間係咁arm全部人都得閒3 s" m1 ^% W( m* k
cos我地有人做野係輪班的

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同埋可能你都講中左d
就係人生目標....呢樣野真係好深奧
有d人可能讀緊中學就有..有d人可能搵一世都搵唔到
我e家黎緊下兩個禮拜22歲都未搵到呢..

作者: halu 時間: 2005-6-7 02:11 AM

Originally posted by Gretzky at 2005-6-6 02:00 PM:
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你講出左現實殘酷ge一面..

作者: halu 時間: 2005-6-7 02:12 AM

Originally posted by Jho808 at 2005-6-6 02:20 PM:8 j- n* @! @: O' J5 `! D
Actually........u feel lonely is it...

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i know..i know my fds won't leave me
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maybe that's my characteristic...i'm somehow a bit pessimistic

作者: halu 時間: 2005-6-7 02:16 AM

首先thx all開解先

but i hv some questions..
其實會唔會係同我星座有關呢. } N! a0 N/ M: \1 c4 Z
因為我係雙子...忽冷忽熱得好緊要
我真係可以o係呢一刻好開心..但一分鐘後可以好down..完全唔出聲
係極度情緒化..但其實果一分鐘係冇發生過任何事..可能只係諗到d野
呢度有冇星座高手?

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