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發表於 2005-4-27 02:01 PM
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in fact, under this situation, we really would not be so intellective sometimes, that means we will solve it in a little bit "9" way
9 E& n1 c# q3 D5 x, U% O4 W5 D" jconsider in the following (not in order):
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6 [5 M, k! H9 A9 V4 U1st, how close the relationship we are?" q' J" ?" ^3 q: H
2nd, how serious he/she has done?
* x; e9 Y/ u3 d! d3rd, would it affect other seriouly after i help/not help him?
7 D# d* H6 ` y. r4 o; x8 u. E+ g4th, even worst problem he/she has made, why he/she did it? any good excuse?
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i may ask my "good heart" first, that means i may 大義滅親 if they have done a serious problem, just like murder because this is gd way for they to self-questioning and searching, also this is a 交代 to the victim.
2 A3 i0 A$ H q3 x! C& i' l2 p6 dbut if they have a very good excuse, just like self protection, then i may advice them to surrender, because their crime can be understood under Law (just like HK this kind of place with gd law situation)
/ k' `8 [- X2 B5 W" nbut for some situations just like murder in China, smuggle of drugs in thai land, than they must die, then i may help them to cop, but sure they should have a very good excus for me to help !!!: G' E1 M9 E+ @! \, a$ Y
: S; d0 H7 m+ abut whatever, i think we should put our 良心 first b4 doing anything and need to 將心比己!!! |
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