熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
" A7 {9 U6 c- {& A  ~5 I5 Q6 k- Z好唔鍾意呢種感覺
( L6 _, i& L2 f3 z6 L琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
, t* C& H! ]) i. H# Y個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
: A  a0 a( C- }! v) Y2 V7 l( {4 f  [覺得好空虛
3 Y0 T3 ^# z% T; f* I其實早幾次都有試過係咁- G  j7 t3 A8 @$ Q; l/ z$ f
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己' A( G; \4 W: e+ H0 x
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?4 A5 @7 k6 f( D. r: L. ~

$ J: C" Y1 Q; q[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
# |4 p0 v9 C5 G3 M% _但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺1 p+ Q2 M+ a* q* {3 ?
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
4 P# ?5 ]% X5 X/ k7 v0 V: O3 }+ A所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
& Y+ D, A2 r- o/ K- a4 y9 [( f日日有車站,2 Q8 F: x- J: \+ v9 [5 n" J
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
/ `, d( z' V1 k' ]# m6 W2 E% j你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
( d9 E: T' \4 w: S2 J- ?( Q( m  b4 h( L如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

1 r  K0 d2 u7 ?* s, Z; P我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.& K( F/ G) u: q+ Q' k0 H  @/ n, p
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
) u) D/ W$ `  ?$ v4 A* ^, L玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.* m; B8 T( P* e. @0 [$ y
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:0 n) T+ \0 @/ J2 c
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
- F, J! Y1 p6 J所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,  O( A7 R, N0 Y  n5 i8 y
日日有車站,
1 w% Y0 d) _: K5 m有目標!

- ]* u; }; r2 _" p% r: \8 U" \& xwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:& f/ w- x+ _# G$ W2 ?9 n& q
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
: f3 a% ?1 N) b9 N" ]好唔鍾意呢種感覺
( f' S% G  X" M: c琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
8 _& q0 D. q; H) C: T個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣4 [6 Q2 q( g- B7 Q2 _3 o$ i5 f
覺得好空虛8 J$ F% k4 w; v
其實早幾次都有試過係咁% s' ?7 L5 G# b$ X, e) \% r
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己- M0 s( g8 T1 ?. a; Q: M7 o
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?8 r- F& Y2 x; o+ w7 @: v6 c

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.; H3 w( d: ?* P' a) C( [
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.3 P8 |* P+ |) E% P  G0 c
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
! L5 z# T6 Q$ ]& o! d$ G# Pa) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
( D; r0 z4 ], R- U* Bb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
# s% `$ G4 I# E) Oc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.- ^. I7 x, _: Z" Y# x

0 k$ M7 h; \# J4 U5 jJust another thought on lonliness:4 ~5 \9 q7 Z+ l/ s6 Y( i& b
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
. r  G  u* \2 L+ xBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
" a& b/ T: p/ t我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
# s$ n! ~  ?3 T' x7 g" x就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
- N/ D/ y5 l0 {& l5 Y$ @或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～( q5 V, c/ |5 p, `$ n! ]
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉8 K% ?7 n2 B9 k# O$ g8 I0 _1 o% q
很少會超過一天～. F  x' O# g0 \) |3 O4 w* {
要期待更好的明天呀！