熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?) `3 m; O: j2 B/ h; T0 t  ?: A
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
& F  B4 A; T# {3 N6 c0 V7 s0 _8 J琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心. R: P% G* O8 T8 w6 D  D
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
* [2 s5 u( f* `5 {6 L覺得好空虛1 |* h$ A# L! h  u$ j
其實早幾次都有試過係咁( @$ P# Q1 \/ W0 k5 s% y& w! h
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
" p/ Y: M: E) a3 @1 t/ {; t用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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* @7 k* E5 E4 n2 F[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,# N0 d" x+ S( ~+ A
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺( T* i1 Z2 n# R9 a6 I
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,8 w) c& ]1 i0 d! C3 ~& I) @* {
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,4 J# }8 h6 u; m; F) D9 d6 f: V8 H
日日有車站,
: }( r1 z8 ~. V0 V有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙% ?) a3 T- C0 l& Y" T' C0 M
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:& S% C' p$ T7 m( |# H* |- z
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
1 H$ _# A9 J+ w0 J2 f. r/ ]感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..' G; _7 k* n  a8 U- h
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.- V/ A0 W2 U. S( I
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
  M  j' l9 {2 y- ~+ A1 f/ a其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,; `5 P) X* [+ x* F: T9 i7 H1 Y" J: ]" ~' I
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
$ m- q& q& o# Z; D日日有車站,3 X' m2 f3 f, b6 N4 p* S3 o
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:7 v$ R( a- ^# O% k" h
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
# Y5 ^6 l: _' h$ X0 r% c/ N3 _好唔鍾意呢種感覺
! U6 F, V/ q4 u琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
& g6 H5 `5 s0 t# }個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
* y* m! Q4 b' r5 T1 U. Y# ]& {覺得好空虛2 i, h0 Q9 A0 O; I2 Q
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
$ C" W, h6 C% p) O卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
  Z: o9 b7 u' F0 v用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?6 h  s4 W; M3 Y  r& D. \9 S. Z

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) s( c6 @( t* ~" e" \這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
- y9 y9 r& G$ O, y4 E唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.# M- y$ N4 ?; a; \
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
* |  l2 n) O0 n7 e- p" Hb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
2 q5 _/ `8 ?" Qc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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+ q- g- f+ k  r" W0 w. OJust another thought on lonliness:
& F: z( u- }0 \8 X5 ~2 tLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
( Z" n/ \# r1 cBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
4 H( a; z9 K4 U* J5 ?6 q# V" e我會有一種十分空虛的感覺: P0 Q7 |# z+ Y0 z2 ]" H; \8 q
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影% {, A1 @( `7 c  Z3 P2 ~- o
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
- G( ^% D% q: {2 ]# X% W( Y空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉" O8 e3 ^# H" Z+ d4 g: b2 [6 M
很少會超過一天～# P" c4 X' H; Z( |
要期待更好的明天呀！