熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
. L! R5 ^8 U( t( {& s好唔鍾意呢種感覺- ^9 K* \; K3 _% U" A  |2 g
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心0 v8 T; T' p' r
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
1 f* O! ?! h% @6 b) A5 _, a$ |覺得好空虛- ], p8 S9 A( l4 a' \* S) o
其實早幾次都有試過係咁5 b- ?, N9 m/ a$ g
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
2 U$ W$ y* B' H& `& C用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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  h/ j/ \' `+ O- A& K0 \[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
. H" q3 f0 ~* I+ R但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺  l) f) ]6 O2 m6 g
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,( i: B7 C- u% ]! s4 c
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,, b, A1 R9 E: b$ H  Y9 N& |
日日有車站,
" p' F3 U" q5 h& U+ j" z8 }) u有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙. o( o5 e' F/ `: Q1 L% D
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:5 i5 C9 D& A! k
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.5 {8 n' g, Z4 f: @1 G1 k
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..& i5 @. C# ~+ W! x! S% E) ]
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.4 ?9 o3 Z0 `6 z
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:8 a( k6 d( ^/ P0 c* ]4 e# n
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻," b: v: C% a7 O: Q+ x6 M
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,& q2 F+ P! |9 Z1 R# f
日日有車站,
4 e3 B* y0 l/ P6 g" y& e; \  @有目標!

5 B" [8 k% ]# G) V/ Y+ U9 Y! ]what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:9 g' m# q/ Y3 K  ~; _2 X
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?0 Z, q  s0 i9 i2 _" Q* ?9 |
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
4 J( g; b9 m2 A琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心2 f  `# X1 C1 M/ A
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣$ q5 Z: A& `) ^
覺得好空虛( @) E* a, k3 a  ~: A" D. G
其實早幾次都有試過係咁& F; c2 T  O7 S- ~$ R# W2 \
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
9 B% @( R: K) T3 F4 W4 {用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?# ^! |$ w- a3 k: r( A

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.. h/ e, P4 v; _: c/ [
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.' P0 m8 y! ?: _6 q) y) R8 H
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.8 z9 B4 {2 D" P5 f' v

$ r9 O  f7 q; `( j( c% vPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:$ i* K! n& U# H& x" Y8 P/ C6 _; s
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
9 q$ V: A2 K& n7 U$ Wb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
/ x1 O, g. x$ V  Jc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:
; b( L+ Y; U: R5 iLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
& w1 c3 g3 |0 h; B. HBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～3 W1 D8 w$ F4 k8 g' }% c
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
# l, E/ l( |# B7 L$ A就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
. k0 `$ n" R, j) f2 K3 ^5 `或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
: {% A5 r3 u- a$ h空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
4 v# M. q' L2 f很少會超過一天～4 N# p4 g$ T4 k, C" S0 B0 w
要期待更好的明天呀！