熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
9 g: S0 Z. Y* v9 I4 r5 \好唔鍾意呢種感覺
7 Q: j( w+ K! D0 j3 F! Q/ [0 a. p琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心: }. p4 A1 ^; X/ `+ J
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣# ~, V3 f9 w% b) c4 ?6 \
覺得好空虛
, B0 m* N4 m" Z1 a0 S- V其實早幾次都有試過係咁, H8 D7 a' m' w, o$ @1 k/ D( T
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
6 |4 r7 ~& h9 y7 M2 q, N/ g$ I$ b用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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" z$ X) a' h0 A' A7 F4 R* B[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
- S) o0 U9 ?' W6 o9 ^6 `7 v& ]2 j但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
; d; J# ?- S- E( H熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
' q2 ?! v  |* u- n/ U5 a所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,. O' e/ h8 c6 j! X) f. e
日日有車站,, E4 `6 U  M+ q
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
8 a) Z  C, e, d! C- F- A你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:3 y& L5 l# R0 }( X; G
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
4 b* O9 [0 x+ Z5 F7 v) g; r5 C+ \4 ?, @感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..- Q# ?: o! P* P1 d
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.9 o' ~/ H$ ]8 M2 P
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
" Y/ [9 I8 S/ S* N7 F其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,0 l+ l4 Y) ^- i: G: |6 k7 T
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,* O2 C5 F, e7 C0 g1 E* F
日日有車站,2 z( L: e6 f& ^# W6 l: j+ e( ~
有目標!

6 X* ~1 f4 a. y1 R5 Jwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
+ m9 C& G  r8 r' }+ R4 J; a+ M如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
: s# `; S! H( v好唔鍾意呢種感覺
( P8 W) G8 \% ~2 m! C琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心/ M0 ?& [* t7 v* Q. X* n: H
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣$ Q, t6 f7 s- W4 o* f
覺得好空虛% U9 X* n- n5 A5 e6 s& @# H8 W
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
1 v+ ]: x- A0 |' i5 v7 I0 r% L卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己0 l& j" r( B9 o6 o2 Q( d7 G0 D
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?5 k; ]7 |  d4 l7 U- D- Z

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
' b5 o; N0 y8 q) w, q6 J. G唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
' j. i% [$ m  H有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.: m* ~: S  e: h1 ~- D6 k# R$ Q8 p
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:$ g' N- k- }1 d. p
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long7 N1 `  h2 w& e* f
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.( |' y% w7 m$ m+ y
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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7 ~8 T4 J: g$ `" ]Just another thought on lonliness:& c2 z! F9 Z  k; T
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....' s& d/ D! O( l5 v6 C8 `0 l' G
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
. m. f4 _. K: ^" l" c我會有一種十分空虛的感覺, j# U# J6 Y( L' `9 D
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影) I7 f8 C' R7 W+ a/ v
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
  M! s9 O0 g( ]. \) |7 `5 w空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉5 p# K1 z# |* k
很少會超過一天～
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