熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
9 C6 m8 W5 o% ~8 ^6 h1 K好唔鍾意呢種感覺! f3 a) t1 N  J- z: P) F
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心  s( C) O4 ^4 V% L; Z5 A
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣. f9 J0 M$ Z- s- u5 X- E, u
覺得好空虛
' a1 N0 _0 _) v其實早幾次都有試過係咁: r. j2 @) ?- d
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
+ P5 H/ N% c7 b用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?/ n  M8 A1 j+ K4 A
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
3 Q) D) o+ u* ?! r. e* }# a  f5 Z但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
5 _* \! H8 q- a熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
0 V. ?1 D1 l% L2 f$ b所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
8 P0 o9 h3 H% L; N日日有車站,
; [/ s/ Q  V9 x有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙" O* l3 c- @" g# w% A5 E& e/ `
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:! z! b; t0 g+ G2 R0 f5 |2 U: `
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.. R* \, @4 i- Z) T% Q0 A+ j
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
. x* r6 ?: b* y% }: G玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.5 y& g# J' \, q0 V1 I+ y3 e
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:! v& M% Z: g5 n$ O6 h( o: x
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
$ m" `" P& g( l! B; b9 h  X所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
4 m, T6 u! d* n- W. B. t日日有車站,$ P. \! f- T9 m- Y
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
8 u$ V& M0 ?- @1 _如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
% ~" w5 [5 N$ }5 k3 J好唔鍾意呢種感覺
# Y: [: D2 ], A' {- P琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心4 J( q  ^8 j6 `& Z5 {
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣/ l0 v  f5 {3 `1 b3 R
覺得好空虛
# i, d/ i# {$ ]% K' _) @" g' G其實早幾次都有試過係咁- {. H: n  q9 B4 v2 p1 N
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
4 Z: \; u5 f7 `; s& h' ^6 R8 z用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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; y4 ^( L) L2 E. V這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.2 W! [& Y: z' R
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.( F  {, I/ b' |3 Q- v& v* l( t
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.$ j7 b4 ~  k( S5 h, p$ \

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a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long; ~/ q+ P3 y; u) o
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
7 L# I$ E) \3 G. _* cc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:
  U! Y$ \8 `7 d, t, xLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....& A7 m1 `! s# c9 X  c2 E
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
. w9 l3 z5 f3 i' i* d我會有一種十分空虛的感覺# b# {* N* D  T5 U) x& w) ?* p! s
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
0 P* z9 h  P7 V: e或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～; J5 k8 m/ D4 ~: `- g
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
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3 F  j+ t8 i% b6 a要期待更好的明天呀！