熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?8 ]) l) `5 U8 H! P5 Z
好唔鍾意呢種感覺2 I; z& C' C1 ^8 W$ _. A) P
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
& W% H; {8 l( E8 f- V. t& W個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
* J  ~5 q- Z" W/ A9 v" @覺得好空虛/ {  T9 x( f% z* a
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
* L8 q: X; i0 J+ R8 W: b( C卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己+ i0 Y( \# t2 @1 J, t$ z
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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* A; B3 E, R/ |" s5 W: `8 d[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,- O9 J# V8 J, D4 b
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
. K' {. N5 o" v( b% u- V熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,6 t& x7 Z* X9 C7 ^' T: t
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
' }( Q) Z2 y1 P) U日日有車站,
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taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙8 P# J' ], b6 O1 B) ~0 s& ?
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:( t1 B0 H: p$ Z* A: y
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
. ^" j- o6 @% h6 d感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..9 w; P  m' {/ l4 P. q
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
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本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:0 U7 V% Y3 N9 f/ M" x8 n$ {
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,# u: m7 m5 c: ^
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,# r6 e3 h* I. @
日日有車站,
9 L6 w2 P7 y5 J: |( J2 k  L! J有目標!

0 n2 i  \- _7 q+ i$ @% Zwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
; o6 z$ F2 x4 k$ e如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
' a# d( \: o! {2 T) |好唔鍾意呢種感覺
$ D1 S+ `8 {8 X7 K0 i琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心+ c  j& F& ]* e5 c. x6 z
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
/ H6 ]( l" ~+ l3 S覺得好空虛' i" _. _6 j% \
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
4 E8 X' S6 @+ ~7 G- ~卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己  ]$ h3 ^* \0 ?: D) t
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?6 Z5 C( P1 E* d+ G" J1 T; c8 c

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" t, t6 c5 R9 S/ r, h: x! g( u& m這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.8 r  L! J! Y; L3 n  J& C
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.. \, m: D! p6 H+ Z& [: j9 |
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:# J7 P& `& V" q
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
; Z% S% W8 p$ L" D. W' z1 Kb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
* H% R( b$ e1 X1 bc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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: `9 s& g7 p0 \/ J* z1 NJust another thought on lonliness:
4 P5 t2 }1 T- f/ \6 R/ @Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
7 }, C: _5 H/ b( X9 m5 m; dBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～. G) e, W( u8 S6 E# T
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
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空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
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要期待更好的明天呀！