熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
1 N9 S9 v: k& O7 Q好唔鍾意呢種感覺
9 H8 l6 a# n/ w3 G% H4 W5 B% \/ U4 g琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
- a$ J. |; x* Z/ \6 b& h# W! ~個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣/ y4 {1 M8 A8 u; [# [5 h
覺得好空虛. h& d/ f/ a' m# q
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
* b5 B5 y% s5 E卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己% S7 I' @' L( v: ~
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
! ~7 I9 d0 y6 M但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺% ^5 X4 e* K* O) K9 Y+ y2 E
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,; ?: F8 b% J3 O% X9 g
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,, W" ]5 d) H1 x5 r, u( `; H4 j
日日有車站,
* l9 @; k$ D4 I; v5 O有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
9 I! k! q( T2 |, m$ r你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
7 ^/ o, @6 h0 c1 P1 a+ P  b如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

9 r) j6 R7 v- {0 ~0 @我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.5 M9 T0 c/ o; }
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..2 D8 J- i  c. A" y9 `" H- j& L5 `
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
% q" t2 i" \9 I$ G9 q1 W0 h. ^: z總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:: _7 @* E; [. a  [3 E# {3 b$ R# w$ K
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,& y1 P" D, Y; E, o5 F3 E# N9 Z
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,; Y0 ?0 `$ j! l' N  b7 P# B* S. g$ k, X
日日有車站,8 V$ {0 e; p" J6 Z7 ~
有目標!

5 l$ [/ {5 ?4 Q; mwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
) [$ }" A; E" h7 z+ ^2 _" @) \如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?. ]; W9 O1 e9 z! X! P
好唔鍾意呢種感覺: ?# q4 d+ [6 r" D
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
9 D9 J. X; @/ o; x; B6 b個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
3 N  }, U8 ?% f8 o7 A7 p' p覺得好空虛
* j* A/ l8 B4 s$ ]* R4 k" V; h其實早幾次都有試過係咁
& R$ Z0 w+ `( V& Q$ H* u% D卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
' S1 V( q: `- [/ r' O; v用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.4 w' s& _4 A7 P+ G; A
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.; D; ~% A/ k; s) G6 [* X( t+ @& A
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
0 O0 a; E4 O- _! {a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long8 G7 Z- z+ [4 L0 P# `5 f
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
" g' x1 H3 Z# I2 l4 V: fc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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" u9 D$ G9 z- z& V$ [) lJust another thought on lonliness:5 M# S, W8 U: s; E, H7 E( c
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time...../ u  J' U* v6 j, x/ o
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～. P7 B. b. j, A4 P
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺' z8 }1 n1 C6 l
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
# o5 W( i  n! }6 x或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～+ `2 g' Z4 @4 {
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉' G6 \7 M0 y) g. Y
很少會超過一天～
$ b& M1 i- g! X3 v! B要期待更好的明天呀！