熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
: K7 v: W* n# v2 ?4 T& M9 B好唔鍾意呢種感覺7 F% _9 I5 j% _  l. v  Q
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心/ \* F( O: v4 ^" p3 w
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣4 {: s- Z) G; Y3 ^7 ~
覺得好空虛' g. z- H5 s% i+ F" ^( V
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
1 J* u; f  p6 h; ~2 [7 W$ M6 e卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己! s* x* |9 [& i/ h) E: D  P
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
. R7 h6 X9 x. g3 w4 o但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
* z; x0 f, `. V: H% F+ n熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,0 e& Q/ v) i" o& q0 O
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,: Z# p: Q4 ?- H. a
日日有車站,
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taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙: h- D, c& b, P/ q2 F# c) h
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
" _) k5 D- g) Y如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

! S9 s- b/ a1 q) I0 J/ L我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
1 j$ ^- S6 t. T% l3 u; y感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..2 W( D! V2 l/ L' A& j
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.1 o" ?; s- A' S, R/ b4 F+ b) q
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:, s# ?6 Y0 B& |. ^/ Q
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,1 G. C) u) t* ^, X
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
' p" o8 T) Q3 x- N! F  F/ }日日有車站,
2 `  H2 E6 f; T/ M有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
7 i; z" p  U. M1 e# R如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?4 E. v1 Q/ I3 d2 g
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
& N5 n5 l0 [' t  p琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
1 ?* E9 j' |) S* ~  ]5 u個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
. e. V6 z/ H, P) B0 X; `; r覺得好空虛
+ E1 z" o) m, K6 |2 h其實早幾次都有試過係咁4 w5 ~& `- F5 V& ^
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
( r; J+ y& V5 K- F- o& N用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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7 I8 z* s( l& z! S, [# T! O這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.8 b, W- p8 X) M
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
) D& B0 g# ]1 o) j有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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7 o2 d* b; q$ P" `People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:6 O' t" O  V  a3 ?/ [
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
& J6 X- G$ U8 B6 W! eb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
. m6 ]6 s4 T2 S& U; fc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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/ [' d; s/ I6 F5 D! e1 K7 @6 RJust another thought on lonliness:2 J% g5 ?7 I5 s' G# \
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
) n0 y8 `) i; cBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～' \, d4 E6 ?% J  ^& k) E
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺1 T$ X- g6 X, W
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影! Z. O/ [# O' h. c
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～2 `( D+ `0 z1 y( K0 O) T
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
0 U+ \2 X$ R4 U- B很少會超過一天～
, v9 S0 k% P2 N! |要期待更好的明天呀！