熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?( \7 \/ C8 Z- O* P1 t
好唔鍾意呢種感覺/ d$ ^, W9 S% q
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
. g- |2 S5 I. O" x個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣# }8 D, U; T9 E0 ^1 `
覺得好空虛+ t* G" ]* H5 T4 w; W8 n+ |8 Y
其實早幾次都有試過係咁& G9 ^1 h. y6 `% Z" A2 r7 F6 q
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己  t, {  W+ i6 M, O" K0 T9 ?, Q
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?# T/ ^  Q2 _1 R4 o& ~# Z2 G3 l
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,$ ]2 W2 ]0 d$ x/ b
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺# W, m2 k1 z1 ^: p* f% m8 c( d  c
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
6 ^* I3 I! P* g/ u所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,& Z7 G4 d; U# U  |9 b6 M
日日有車站,
2 m: W$ C1 g! S有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙5 \; G& h4 \* d  x
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
. }) h9 T. d0 y. S0 j/ U% w如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

7 C& F: b2 @  s我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.9 v2 {9 I. Z4 {
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
5 ^2 N' I4 o1 k) ^( m1 u4 k1 g% i+ p" m玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.8 Y, W/ \/ j: ?! k2 b
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:+ w* u( a- ]4 C6 C5 J& k4 \
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,4 N0 C0 l8 a7 L/ e3 r
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
  z) l" n$ ~0 d8 x) }日日有車站,- J6 w; K7 [$ N5 |
有目標!

& D' [3 `- c& b' U' `9 }what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
: @/ G6 C) U0 H2 q% |如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
7 \8 t: w: `: C6 A+ H3 V好唔鍾意呢種感覺
0 Z9 _; N4 ?  _% }琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心: i2 D  {* S/ y! B- v
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
. h2 m  q5 n# Z# s  S: a# I+ _/ d覺得好空虛
! u" N1 l! N: h; C' G, i其實早幾次都有試過係咁
. j1 I4 l6 {; H! q+ j" ?1 k卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
$ c' C4 t3 C; l( w7 n用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?5 l6 @; S! W0 f0 z" c3 y' }9 b

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* p" j/ s5 x1 T8 }7 `這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
& E! G  n  w3 g& t唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
0 S! ~( \  z* @! W, M- H5 t  k7 ?# z有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.7 G$ \$ C. n9 L0 V4 ]
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
* J+ I5 u9 b8 }+ X! D3 Pa) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long4 ^* q7 `- R% ~) X! E
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.7 g6 `# @/ e' L7 m8 O
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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1 Q4 i% E2 f' Z% |& v2 ~Just another thought on lonliness:
0 k# ?8 [9 E( [" z1 ?Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
9 C% y7 b8 x* w5 L2 N# SBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
0 {) k2 P  ?2 J' ]8 d0 s7 K! M我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
! X% B7 [( c; p1 s6 D: E9 G# K8 ?: r就好似睇完一套好睇的電影; D& x4 n8 h. k4 y
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
% o8 x* P, z+ G- B0 T! _0 y$ G空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
, v* {( ^4 D/ ~; Z. v4 ^很少會超過一天～$ ?7 Q2 }3 u2 X# r& S$ {6 j
要期待更好的明天呀！