熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?6 e- v5 j3 l6 N: r
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
! d5 G; @3 `6 X2 L: \  m琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
" [: Y- _8 a  |$ v2 X個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣) U+ @3 Y- k2 P% Q: b
覺得好空虛
0 @; w/ k6 h1 i其實早幾次都有試過係咁
, n: x; u+ _3 z! I) o" q卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己& @& z& M$ _" G4 G4 q; b
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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' f) K. ^  }+ Y7 p5 p: O[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
0 R( i* z( k- D$ X但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺3 f0 q, b7 e( D" k% j" Y
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
7 V" ~( _2 W/ j( t所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,6 _6 h1 U) K. E  V% @& E/ J
日日有車站,( Q' H0 P! o7 ]) O" y6 V, i% k
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙0 F. s# R( k' Z3 `% M% G" J9 b
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:3 |# |; i! Q$ u# ]) E. ]# r$ j
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.9 i% b/ L: A1 H. w7 ^& g+ W
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
5 Z7 p/ z8 |( [$ p% o+ r4 |% z玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.9 {7 R" o$ V; [9 k* M! \* Y
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
+ A* T' z9 S, J其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
% x6 N+ x  d( s. j: V. j% p% Y所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,5 e* H; C. F9 @4 v7 P9 t5 g
日日有車站,2 M( u. c% n9 A/ H3 ^& U# r
有目標!

2 U0 e( @3 F3 A/ j9 E& Jwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
& b. b3 h2 V) ^3 |% x2 d% n0 F如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?  T% L+ W0 V' R4 F1 g# e+ H
好唔鍾意呢種感覺3 O* V( C, H1 {  f
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
( R) ~# }% s  }( c' E) ]個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
9 U3 @3 |0 Q. @* @覺得好空虛
( Y' }! l: g3 M3 l$ d! l) E* f其實早幾次都有試過係咁. [! J3 I$ {' f. c$ n( A9 @! X' t
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
3 c1 h9 l7 f% k9 X3 T用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
/ g$ E2 V3 {! }% T. M唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
$ e" N7 R( i( j3 d" i+ p有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.* c% v$ ?, I* l- `  ~# g
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:) X* t0 f7 \! F  v: ?9 a
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
3 K  L  [: S: ^2 Ob) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
; Z8 J3 j8 V* q# F8 C( k3 n$ u& wc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.5 C7 l7 }% Q8 w- t

7 ^+ `. w, n* Y2 d! S/ j7 TJust another thought on lonliness:1 b- T# p  E, [7 f
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
$ o6 ?+ A9 b3 L0 E6 r# P3 iBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～- x% ]. a. A0 Z, d/ _# N2 O2 c; N
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
( p) u7 a9 v9 _6 @0 A# s( c/ i& s就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
' @7 W% G8 T2 {- F或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～1 j4 b6 a) L3 k- ?0 K% q
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
( [* P  a5 q" T6 V8 x很少會超過一天～& ^/ C& s0 U2 J6 ~% x8 U  B
要期待更好的明天呀！