熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?: Q' o5 A# x* m* X& `, t
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
1 P7 J+ L' {' d5 @" F$ q4 {琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
; w3 v, F) R& v; r1 Y( g個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣# Y4 s* @" ~; `
覺得好空虛* C! |( P' x) E0 K% L
其實早幾次都有試過係咁! w( r. H1 Z5 p1 C% _- r) ~
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己' A3 M2 ~0 F. n+ z; R
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
# C! r) i5 Q, ?- R, ~2 x4 F2 ~; {; J但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
$ `5 ^, G( a, x. a2 V' f' i+ ~熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,. q" K& b: K: N! o/ V
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,; Q; c* t+ Y& l) c
日日有車站,
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taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
! }  u& A- x& ]" j你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:6 m0 E; x* ?0 W+ M* y1 f, b& T1 S
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

" G9 D5 u5 \6 O, @0 H! H0 s我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
, `1 ]* A  X3 x$ @感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
8 k( w" s7 p3 H0 ]! s玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
( Q  X3 h/ K! J* U' C& P4 B總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:( Z8 I5 h( T: I$ u$ L0 T
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,* A0 Z, m$ e* j5 H$ W5 l
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
" T$ I# z7 ~* Q$ R3 x2 a) h日日有車站,$ [- |% C2 r  I" a8 z' G
有目標!

- d$ C7 K. \$ N5 P7 Y. L4 k: @what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
4 M9 Y+ |" C5 S如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
8 c8 x/ B. p3 ]+ X# N; Z0 N好唔鍾意呢種感覺
. q! ]$ S5 C: v; s琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心* a4 D/ ~- U. P- K
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
$ a$ [, F0 N- R覺得好空虛
* d0 J4 H% J3 k9 M其實早幾次都有試過係咁2 `& {5 c7 T/ N+ k! ^
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己4 o. k3 y5 b5 T" p  M
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?8 l) Z1 A; W9 e8 e& a" \! O! {0 }

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.: o- o5 E# e) B' `3 r* w8 ^
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足., O6 t2 _! X# y: q# ^
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own." e9 p, @& d4 {1 N8 N
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:$ b& u% I* t/ h' P5 H" V7 o! F
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long. T! o& l: h3 o4 W
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
& X/ v( V! U  E! Rc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.- ]' U. ~' g7 C2 p

& f: k' r! Q' D$ U4 u$ OJust another thought on lonliness:; _( ?! C, L2 d
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....; g7 m3 f( n2 X" T
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
4 f! |: D, N  A4 _5 d我會有一種十分空虛的感覺5 h. r3 _7 H1 o3 E3 h+ x; y( w% n/ }; b
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
. `/ a& u$ F+ Y4 R; a或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
& S3 E5 M1 j0 _& }空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
  G. H/ ]1 `! {很少會超過一天～- a* Z% ~5 s8 k7 o& `# T- B' P
要期待更好的明天呀！