熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?! s* G0 S& W1 k% R, j1 Q
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
: I2 @# t5 ?5 C$ e1 @. }6 _* W琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
2 a) n7 S$ l" A( R6 i個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
! k# Q8 e' Q7 b1 p覺得好空虛
3 E0 R1 l/ W( ]+ h6 ]- v1 H其實早幾次都有試過係咁
1 g1 j+ D8 C8 G5 ^& y# H, |3 D卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己; n3 }( ]( B. h; Y
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,' q) y- g  C* W. T3 J$ H' L
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺( ]. r; N# ?6 _/ ^9 z2 A
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
  F" u! u$ o+ T所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,) q; x2 j! J+ a' [$ Z
日日有車站,+ F4 s/ I' U$ l% W
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
! n4 R3 Q* S% C$ ]* c) W1 q你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:/ C! b& q3 A& L) P
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
! x1 o- n3 @, \+ Y0 }感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
6 o6 ~3 w* o2 j% ]. J1 g8 k( g% x玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心., k8 X- ^/ Y. K& o: |
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
2 \1 p0 O$ U+ G( {其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
: i  X: M; p* |5 e5 @所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
. \" h6 D) w% _9 u日日有車站,9 ], D8 H. |! N/ h8 }
有目標!

. F$ b& \1 H6 }( _what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
) r* m1 T4 J! s7 c如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
0 T) a' P/ b0 z/ I3 O2 B8 k8 A好唔鍾意呢種感覺. g. ?" S& \. L
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心+ O* w/ q* X. w" B5 h7 V  e6 o
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣( e" m' ], c' |) j. r
覺得好空虛
$ m) C9 J% s* Q: {, o+ Q/ O: J4 m" r其實早幾次都有試過係咁
5 T& ^- x+ p0 C- {  q卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己# Y4 D; n+ p8 Q% z
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?) t/ h7 M' n& u- L* Z

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5 P% u0 d+ O6 L' V1 P這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦., v4 V! j. j9 _% C9 K% |0 `
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.( n, h) @5 H6 y  y. X; ]
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.# h; g1 p5 o. Q$ f' F
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:. Y  O3 M' p# ^8 K3 o4 V( v
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
9 o6 m9 w( R9 q! y7 `6 Y! Yb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
7 q5 q! ~7 W* s) y" G) Cc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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* z$ H) j6 |" \( |  A% KJust another thought on lonliness:
5 X" N% i0 x/ a& p  k7 V( QLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
0 S2 `) F4 Q" r, BBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～9 i: p# P' p3 [2 _' c1 M8 O5 j3 W) F
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺) f% I* m8 A0 M' Q* y. Y% |3 b
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
4 x7 F) g7 ~3 b9 I; r3 Z或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～5 D2 Y6 U5 t% [: H) o, d" c
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉$ I  q$ |7 h, X% u  ^
很少會超過一天～
* O2 l0 {) p0 a6 b! V, ~要期待更好的明天呀！