熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
. ~" \/ h$ B1 |7 g好唔鍾意呢種感覺
3 V9 s3 y0 T8 n$ `. ]5 _! z5 c5 Z琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心  B, a; B. e6 r
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
# p. C9 n; O5 Q6 [5 A' g覺得好空虛0 R/ T# P( d4 v4 n4 G4 c6 _+ D0 \& R
其實早幾次都有試過係咁# p3 D! H" i: A! W( s7 X
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己5 `- w5 h: i9 m$ D; p: Q5 Z' j# V
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?* @7 A6 s8 O  g0 U
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
7 H# c$ `: }% s; u+ \但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
: P% J5 a/ v  X1 A熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
: S+ c" R4 [; }- {7 \所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,' [: B: u$ [1 N5 e* B! v
日日有車站,
' }7 w% [/ h) V9 D* S有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
+ p2 y8 s/ O% }/ H你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
1 p  R- k% @. M/ U) o% f. o如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.- T/ m; x0 M0 v" J: _% P! A: q: S6 Y
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..' m! k0 ~9 G9 V3 R4 r3 K
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心./ |! Z5 C& b$ \" }  r
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:! E( T7 s- I5 Z# P" ^
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,' E& _' p) V, F0 @3 p
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,% L$ H* v) K$ `3 e3 s
日日有車站,
. r9 x% \  q: H) B- I有目標!

6 p$ e8 D7 A: e. S, E* Kwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
1 B/ N! n7 {5 K9 [如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?* U$ ~2 Y- k" t3 s; `- p. s- Q
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
6 d$ [8 A4 [3 K" G# U  X# m& T琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
; M+ q+ {! P8 S5 j個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣1 K8 x4 J7 |3 Q) f( b) ?* |4 J) F
覺得好空虛5 `8 {: y& H$ ]* x
其實早幾次都有試過係咁9 U( Y8 Z- k2 \4 _
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
# F: x# d. X2 ]3 Q/ C用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
4 z% x' d; r7 [唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.% S5 Z' b5 }; l$ t% \
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.: J9 `  a( X( g! w$ @
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:( z( j, A; z' c9 c4 {3 ?
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
  X/ v: S7 {! Kb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.: B' g, X* [+ p: _4 D+ }
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:
) x% Q" L: [3 i# P- E8 }- p5 uLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
2 ^" N7 Q( D: J4 ]! Q! UBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
) ^& ^' m0 |; u% L我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
1 t8 B8 D2 F) R" ~3 I就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
, K  ~! R& V# _' t5 ]或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～4 _" W1 h( Q, e8 I. n+ Z% q
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉  g4 s. n$ S" U8 x, e. ^$ Q  W
很少會超過一天～( H: W+ W; g- p* P$ r
要期待更好的明天呀！