熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?, \" [6 j0 l( U" {5 L3 H: K: j* `
好唔鍾意呢種感覺5 H: ~  J% h( l
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
8 l3 T' {+ \" p: j個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
- m; F$ a( e: H, h' R覺得好空虛
; e% e/ f0 I3 M$ |  r其實早幾次都有試過係咁0 N9 ~+ }1 G/ u9 i2 w3 D8 a
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己# p6 c' A4 H  N. e, n" z( n5 T. H* U
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?( `$ M! V- D8 }
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
8 c  b' H% B- s& c但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺9 _7 A. v7 I, G; g0 D! t1 g
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
7 N' z  x1 h4 [0 M2 E8 P所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
% g. _7 a8 d! Y0 J, w$ V日日有車站,
, [4 x# j7 {8 J/ G, r6 k0 I$ _, A2 H- E有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙4 p4 ]& g& U' V- g8 B
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
7 Q9 P! P+ S! O如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

6 a. D! N  {  N) D2 y我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
/ a" l1 B0 L# }& M3 ^4 e9 n感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
5 I. V! T9 U+ _8 F0 C  c& t. [% m玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
% i9 Y  N& Q2 M' _! Q總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:3 H; x6 p! H" Z
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,; `* W) w) p: I4 Q
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,& J8 W# Z8 U5 }7 z4 e: R
日日有車站,
  D5 `$ g1 k  h: V/ s+ O3 h有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
- {3 B3 k/ n8 x( M如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?. T% r9 w2 v+ b! L8 C
好唔鍾意呢種感覺3 S" J/ y  x6 w& I  @; n: n
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
! |6 q1 w7 y) \( b- L7 ~個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣* @( Q9 X4 n. N) E7 p& p
覺得好空虛* z2 c! C- u8 M! F
其實早幾次都有試過係咁( u& C: f; x& B  I
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
; ?' T1 j4 ?- l  ~; D$ @用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?4 m% p$ b8 D$ ^4 d8 B

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
$ {) Z+ Z& }! E6 F* m9 ~唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
5 [: T$ G. B# s有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.) d' v. d2 M0 }: m- j% L/ i( d- v" o

; n2 V4 \6 @  g, ]& ^# s' \People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
' y! F% m) F- T+ Ia) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
) A; W( z  A8 q) p6 l) f1 Wb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.. v2 ^$ b( ~' x, O6 b) Q7 @* Q; R* f
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.9 M4 [& y$ @6 D9 D) ]
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Just another thought on lonliness:
2 {' g3 M7 D- N- G2 `  zLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
5 ^% _- E  c# c: U# ?But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
1 {& M( `* x) J/ t9 |/ B0 O我會有一種十分空虛的感覺. O1 C% W' L8 j& [! |( A
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影2 ~" V+ B% s, N% s
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
% {+ d2 K+ ?9 ?, k空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
; o" \& B  \, f4 s& D很少會超過一天～
7 i4 n% m* l1 b& ^要期待更好的明天呀！