有乜辦法可以令自己對感情唔好咁重視同埋冷血D?...

Charcoal_henry

有乜辦法可以令自己對感情唔好咁重視同埋冷血D?...
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感情太豐富一受打撃果陣真係會好辛苦...; ]+ |7 R% f  O7 M# }! M
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any suggestions?

迪達拉姑

哦..性情中人..同我一樣我諗..好易唔理智..樓主分享多d你實例同個人心境黎睇下我地似唔似..7 l* \6 U& t, a
我諗個性自細培養..我諗..對感情唔重視..就可能係想獨來獨往..最好好似流川楓咁..
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john01daly

Anyone can help, I also want to know.

Charcoal_henry

Originally posted by 迪達拉姑 at 2008-2-17 03:06 AM:4 |0 e, \! n# ]1 W" k2 _
哦..性情中人..同我一樣我諗..好易唔...

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8 \' b  O, G) b4 Ogood to hear that someone has got the same feeling with me
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1 h- l7 ]+ `; @& M唔係好想講experience...; b7 z8 G& F4 f* Z" {1 g: P

2 C" x4 ?6 F4 k, ^! X) ^2 j不過我自問都係一個性情中人, 好唔捨得一D曾經擁有既野 eg. school life, relationship with gf, close friends etc....
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我唔係想做獨行俠, # `" [+ B3 o/ H7 \4 T; ], I4 w+ \8 @
只係想知道點樣先可以令自己對人與人之間既感情(no matter love or friendship)睇得開D...

escalation

個人分享:6 @+ T: v0 S+ p) |2 Y
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我自己曾經都好似你呢類人, 十分熱情和感性, 而且鍾意用"性情中人"自居, 其實呢種態度只係唔成熟既表現. 當然, 人地唔會咁好心點醒你, 就算點你都未必醒.1 E; F% M9 L; F# C0 w; K  Z  P, w7 w
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解決方法: 好簡單, 多經歷一些挫折, 你慢慢會開始"化", 心態亦漸漸穩重起來. 呢個過程好奇妙的, 好難形容, 總之, 你經歷多左, 好多野會在你意料之中, 就唔會再比D小事情小變化影響你情緒.

自由神

Originally posted by escalation at 2008-2-17 08:35 PM:
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我自己曾經都好似你呢類...

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係呀！# [3 w5 @$ k( A
只要當一切都係遊戲，咁就會“笑看風雲”