熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
) v' a4 P  a$ j8 }2 X好唔鍾意呢種感覺+ A4 y$ o+ o$ z5 _. D( W
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
! b) |. E- [$ a- R, u個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣! O& [3 J: w, j  U- A1 y& T$ N. @
覺得好空虛% Z- U6 U  `' Z& v3 i  Q
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
" k# G% x8 c# B! [卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
3 O5 D! ^4 f  E& A! g用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?1 D! `, M5 X; k' W) O; y

! w  T& T5 h: Q( C7 j, f( t$ d[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,( Y' x' w5 H- J1 O
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
) n' j1 E  K0 O5 P' S熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
9 I/ q: Q7 I9 x9 D  s所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
# e( C3 ?3 U# X- z* ^1 p日日有車站,' v7 {- a' m. I, `  k. ^
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
" C% Q* A2 [4 h) r你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:" P1 w2 ?" t1 M- z( @  f
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
4 z# D: X) @6 S4 o感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
) z& n- K9 @5 s玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.  Y. K2 q: U$ Y* l4 m& _' [
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
9 ]* W" j. a! m/ J* {* L2 b) P其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻," D3 S! H5 q: I
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
( F5 Y5 W% V) c$ |; I& s日日有車站,
( k+ W0 p6 X& z  L, F! v有目標!

! j* B6 g1 c; D6 F$ l. {  Iwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:$ l( `) G/ ~2 Y: ^3 _
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
: `" G. W7 U, L& v7 I好唔鍾意呢種感覺
. v4 s! |, F! c3 R2 r. d琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心/ W, o9 y  Z) G/ h
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣; T& Q& G( `  n  V0 m2 ^
覺得好空虛% ]6 X& V/ Z2 N: ^- i+ v* S
其實早幾次都有試過係咁. ~" A5 Y% c2 |, Y/ x0 X" Y
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
4 D9 e9 x! q, P* p用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?8 q2 ^/ W3 y* `

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
% \* x3 @* }. x2 c1 m: g. i唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
- M% m: Y9 _  z' d3 T有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:: _/ F- U# Q2 m3 p( ~8 ?
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
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c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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4 e) @! z" h& [$ b( QJust another thought on lonliness:
8 _, s/ z# [" g7 @& ULonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
5 o5 }2 a# b- e& M; TBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～2 M3 N  t/ {& t7 p8 E0 ~
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
, P  G0 O( i1 l1 X7 a就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
, i6 ]0 U: Z* K% W, e或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
$ ^  T' C: o% ~空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉3 R& s7 U; t5 n8 u  k
很少會超過一天～/ l/ }! s- E5 r; P
要期待更好的明天呀！