熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?. U+ L& g1 a" J: X
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
+ K9 }% T3 b% `, Y$ x琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
/ ^9 J* Y' I/ r0 @- R2 g個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
- j# B% o% [# V6 h( E覺得好空虛) |  ~6 L, z8 @8 O
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
5 p5 \/ j. X0 P+ U/ A1 T% q卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己- Q8 h5 |# m# I3 v* P8 H
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?' f8 F' m) H  w7 {' J' ^6 |' n
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,8 t+ B3 K! W. T
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺; Q: q1 E5 t7 U+ Q
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
$ V  W( h- r7 S0 E/ N所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
7 G* D) ?0 H% H6 F7 @; n" E日日有車站,
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taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙( R- y, z6 i" |/ {
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
5 G) Z: G7 `3 ~# d' u' R, `如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

# p+ [  ^* e2 ~( n+ i2 I, c5 T我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
; a; Q9 _8 ]8 `$ c8 A# ?4 r9 w感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..8 P) }8 y& G: \5 p3 A  U4 N
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
2 A4 B9 I2 C) V總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
) Y# L0 ]) U" J其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,& P$ U6 o1 w2 k* s/ e2 J
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
5 S8 u' E7 ~3 c4 u日日有車站,
) E; T2 q/ a6 P/ H* m有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:. I# K. h2 C* v# r$ R& E
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?- }$ l1 z; n/ \: ^( o: B
好唔鍾意呢種感覺5 ?! s4 K. c4 m- D
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心2 v& C3 x8 Y- V% Y* P
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣& D( z& @0 {. ~- S" \2 B& A
覺得好空虛
2 n8 \% [: Z5 F: v+ {其實早幾次都有試過係咁
4 W& n7 q- R: v4 L+ X/ l9 m卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
& `! d7 S1 M- R2 H  p6 _3 Y2 [用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.$ R' C( {( [1 p) ]
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
5 K, F( @/ q* {有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:! v' K) H6 \* j' Q5 m" _
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long3 I2 o' g! E  u" X" C& M
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.1 H  L/ \7 Z& G" N, }5 _
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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; J" M, s8 E0 a" @Just another thought on lonliness:& E1 G# }. P* v7 \9 ?' d( r
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
* V+ l+ c- R# W" y) WBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
/ e4 F# M% y/ |5 K8 ]我會有一種十分空虛的感覺, N" G! C+ V( Z9 N# t
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影# B: d: T# L8 r* Z
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～( D7 E2 |- R3 T
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
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要期待更好的明天呀！