熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
% ~# ^3 m0 B# ]2 X! E" R( n好唔鍾意呢種感覺  J2 A* Y3 z8 @, w
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
& v2 m$ b9 Y5 X- G  L; ]" X6 [個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣1 ^5 y3 j" C/ }# C: B* L
覺得好空虛
/ m' F* o( v# h2 A" \其實早幾次都有試過係咁
* v# Z6 A0 c2 D8 K+ y卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
* q* i/ b3 y/ y' l; T: b用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,4 b3 w3 z  l* E7 U: G
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺8 c; G4 ^, x) N# t9 f
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
! E' {3 ~' y$ Y. k6 w7 b* h5 Y' _所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,3 u8 P2 s" m" n; N
日日有車站,
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taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙3 f) Q1 S' N! y+ C" @! L
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:- D6 e+ Q' O7 v9 s0 A. Z
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
" B7 U% Z! f; k$ t感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
/ t) C& K1 |8 U0 N玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.4 c& ~: W( s5 [& h& M
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:) w2 N" G0 h- C0 Q5 k8 N  i3 E
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
8 M# Z" ^! X8 {+ D所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
, a# ?8 X! p$ w日日有車站,
, v8 S. w; B! E: O有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
4 H' _1 ]$ ]' Y* E3 F) V' o( e如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?+ H- W7 j- `$ T1 ?5 L
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
+ U4 u' q' @, ?7 J琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心. ~! o# S! T8 G. q  w
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
; }' D  H4 ~0 S' J) A覺得好空虛
) L, i- @, p( L% M4 b/ o! v其實早幾次都有試過係咁
7 y8 `3 J* J" @3 J卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
: c. \$ V* W  b用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?; J, D+ M! p, d- j

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" R* x( x8 i1 U& ]% F5 x% j( I  d* V這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
! w- m% D6 K* z8 f; s唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
9 K9 v& `$ r. [( X, y5 f0 c有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.) w. v  i+ B$ T: ^  ?
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
$ }8 q5 v* G) M5 s1 ha) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long! O$ r% _5 u( o; b% r$ p+ Q
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone./ r3 T% U! J- R
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.$ R- s% l& u! t- t  e, K& ]# ]
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Just another thought on lonliness:( k$ r+ H* q* r# w& ^; d, T
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time....." J: K( k) q- H! u* J' r
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
$ `2 m, c7 o) v0 c" ]: _我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
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或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
6 A& z+ D% g" b& }空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉; _* h) b7 N+ e, j6 }
很少會超過一天～
" n4 ^) V7 {2 s& B: c要期待更好的明天呀！