熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
3 \6 ~; {2 a4 x3 Q$ d' x; s2 S好唔鍾意呢種感覺2 {! X+ M3 B0 N! w# L& Y) d1 {2 c
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
' W& c& v7 m% D  p0 ^個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
, l+ k( W* ^3 r8 @9 v' {7 z& {覺得好空虛- ~% s( D  t5 ^+ V; [: g
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
& i  ~8 l# B; w6 d* f1 T) V5 j$ ^" p7 g卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
) q( P# S5 S8 A% n用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
4 s8 t. B' v9 a9 J6 P- Y但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺4 ?# j: a6 i( p! R! s$ M' J
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
3 m: I  ?7 z3 u所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
$ I2 M9 u8 b! H3 s* ~日日有車站,
. Q$ W& C5 Q, O9 s0 F有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
: x( m6 p9 t. S6 I( T- Z! ~0 _你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:$ X0 N/ w4 }* u; G. b
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.3 f+ v' w  u# D7 f, ^
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
( e1 k8 Z8 x/ S% }. p玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
" P- ?+ }- Q4 N3 p2 b2 K" o; D總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:" I/ j6 t+ a( f& l2 |7 b& H, S
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,! h  j1 P% W# u: i
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,0 O+ n/ t3 D0 ~) g
日日有車站,. o8 I( D" Y; |' b' J: X
有目標!

6 z0 A6 B6 C9 x- rwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
9 L& Y; k! N- G+ ~7 `# j8 A  r如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
! ^$ N( T1 ]# }) t好唔鍾意呢種感覺2 n! A9 v' \0 |! j# m- b- ^
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心- A/ m3 K  n( W  u( s" n
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
6 n4 _8 P7 m0 Y2 v/ F& k: X9 s覺得好空虛
5 F8 w- x5 h. ?1 Q其實早幾次都有試過係咁+ b: c8 b  P* T$ J# L& }9 P5 [4 [
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己$ d- p- E$ Q: t* ~# H/ u& |
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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: i9 V& |8 p9 {3 ]- y3 H7 d這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
  D* p. }. E3 m; H唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.( N, s$ J8 s# M- x5 I: R% @
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.8 c4 C3 P. p2 U+ H, z) y" V

* @* {2 F9 @6 g) k2 [People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:) h+ A  o1 ]. |8 O% g2 K6 ^& P
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
7 A7 P9 G) ^* Y% u8 |7 cb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
" j4 u* n$ E2 p# z6 m1 s7 Kc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.. Y) r" U! p7 p" y. C  F1 k! H

- M8 b7 F) q$ d& PJust another thought on lonliness:
/ i/ f" `: p# n, s. g* K6 C/ E, ALonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....2 C9 x) c' p& H1 d9 g* D4 }
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
) T( w+ ^0 }: h( m我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
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或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～: |2 M* q3 ^" m+ c" G8 ^
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉  H8 Z& p: r6 G
很少會超過一天～
' M1 S) X  V8 B. {; }要期待更好的明天呀！