熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
1 c9 g7 y* S/ m, \$ E/ z1 m好唔鍾意呢種感覺
# m- P: F  p* f+ @琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
1 D, g( e% d5 o+ E個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
8 d0 w3 Z# C& ~0 m" X覺得好空虛
; E4 M& `( l, a$ S其實早幾次都有試過係咁" z& f& F! H6 T3 f9 Z6 d
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己% k& K5 b. y1 r) V0 U
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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3 d) F& v' G4 B4 p* H$ P* G[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
2 x6 K% K) Z0 X8 q) j0 z* `8 Y& [但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
/ O% u5 V7 r$ O; ]熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,: k5 M; S; j( }/ p" P
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
, ~: b, Y' x# L8 v日日有車站,5 l) @& e5 Z0 \8 y; l
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙2 Y5 l% e' `! `, G7 A- ?% R
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:4 J, I2 E5 l- s/ n
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

2 G% @  t4 h8 H; q我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
+ B7 g6 ]5 f3 m. g* l; ^1 b% u, \感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞... B8 F: M8 |: r3 I) C
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.7 |+ X2 d, F' o  e& b2 Q
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:0 `7 w7 ^& D& u- r$ k( J7 m9 x2 w
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,6 ]- [6 \/ `& }) T6 C; A
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
. g: _$ ]4 c# R- O$ c  x6 u8 E/ U日日有車站,
8 R1 o8 q( c6 |+ p: z7 l! G有目標!

9 B+ z) z6 s0 d5 nwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
: \3 \3 g2 U. @2 i7 y- u如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
- \9 r4 {8 E+ E: I! x  z0 l1 Z* d好唔鍾意呢種感覺" g* ]5 a* O( |+ q- y! ]" i6 i$ a
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
/ K: |; w. `, M個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
, I+ G( |! p( {8 y: [+ Y覺得好空虛6 O9 n$ V5 T9 p/ n% b
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
9 E& l" q0 q+ J) p卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
+ T  M5 o* K9 A' [" K" n% v用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?. K( T) I) w# Y  b) L# z

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  v  m4 e8 S) k2 X" b' y這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.8 q* r6 ]+ [8 F3 g
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
0 `- ^& q4 b2 N4 Y9 O$ f" V有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.# G. l3 _3 D3 L

3 ^) c3 G' u6 O( a. l8 wPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
# K. T3 F$ w) p5 B+ A# R8 g" ca) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long1 b4 y/ q2 _) I! y, _
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.+ V; r1 g7 d% B2 v6 X
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:+ k; i% v- x7 b  Q. S! Z6 D
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
: E: c! Q. I7 O5 m9 WBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～) U4 Z+ x1 D9 ~5 g
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
5 `$ z2 N: [* R- c就好似睇完一套好睇的電影, ]4 o/ j: E" E& V/ b1 _
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
1 U# P, o  s, p+ L% k空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉/ B2 s2 A7 }  @5 Z2 u  r1 `7 O
很少會超過一天～
4 H% v  i+ T+ `- P* k( |要期待更好的明天呀！