熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
$ p' x" Z- Y) N0 Q/ Y好唔鍾意呢種感覺! x9 h2 z! m& V! p5 R
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心2 P& H# L: t6 g4 `; h  S
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣+ _. N7 C/ G! b* n/ `6 j
覺得好空虛0 f. |' O, w6 ^7 W, X7 W) z
其實早幾次都有試過係咁* i% {: x) Q) V- B9 W% u
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
2 x- _" ^" J' P, u( d8 b用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
( |0 A5 u7 }5 E# E$ n但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺' X$ p# l: R, n. e( @0 A
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
% X5 c& C0 n. i3 \3 ?0 g所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,8 b$ O& f$ w+ w# R$ E* G6 v0 i+ e
日日有車站," h' o( M) q: Q8 E6 x0 Y. l
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
) j( f, I) M0 @" t2 c你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:- ?$ S; l3 U+ H; C/ T5 X
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.. r3 O3 O& c& Q8 B) O, u
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
. s8 u( \1 T/ i! c8 j9 V- `0 M; R) {玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.2 ^* U* L6 Q4 q  y* ~2 S/ j8 w( N
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
' V# V/ W- x$ J% K1 ~% f其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
! ]( K: ]% S- z* I( M所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,9 V4 I" R$ g( r0 t. R0 z- r8 O$ G
日日有車站,. O* u* J- P3 F6 o
有目標!

; R  l; Z, L' _$ w9 X  a" nwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
6 N* ~* D% f* P7 T3 v* w如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?  e( V/ M1 f2 l2 W6 V2 U& K
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
. ?5 ], f4 y' _$ x琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心5 u0 m) N8 ?5 x: M( M8 N
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣, z6 r0 f( x1 o
覺得好空虛
) n- S8 R8 C6 B: D" [: N+ m其實早幾次都有試過係咁
; u3 T# c9 j- ?& k卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
& v% D! [* Q6 g, ^6 }; w5 f$ B! d' \用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?+ C0 \8 U1 c7 H1 b( C

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/ ^4 a3 o5 S2 d* E這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
* x7 d2 Z6 W" X唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.4 V& G/ O  v6 [4 x4 V9 L2 m; g
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.1 o0 s& Q  Z; L2 ^2 ~
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
. k: i: i2 F! L+ E5 M6 d& oa) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
8 G. Y) r% M4 Y8 b" ?: Z- ob) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
# k0 x5 ]0 v# ^1 D$ O- t( fc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:
/ b$ G4 S( }4 WLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
" c* [3 p$ }8 ~/ eBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
/ S8 l# d4 ~& Q9 F; u- o) f( {* Q我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
7 G4 }% R! R, D" R- H5 K: e就好似睇完一套好睇的電影# ?; M, V8 k* \+ i( X2 O7 u: F
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
/ Y! F0 a% n9 h# |空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉/ p1 e8 k9 S0 C
很少會超過一天～
: I. n0 t+ L; }2 X* D1 @2 z要期待更好的明天呀！