熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?% {, b" }: a7 t( N/ B
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
% f) N( H% X7 `7 y) G6 ?  u# J* b琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心7 N7 I, [4 j8 O* w, N+ o
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
! A$ U$ a: w! P$ g* g# Q! G覺得好空虛3 f& N, E& f2 O7 @
其實早幾次都有試過係咁3 l' T- w# {2 E7 e
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己* V( ]( N; G# z" s; ^
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?2 A8 n! U( r: @# f9 k' s+ a$ H

1 e: r1 u# d; z! J1 q6 b: r* U[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,/ @8 ]9 z* {8 u0 ~6 w  g8 _
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺: X1 {. }( i) J0 y5 S  U
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,6 P3 H( U- u7 V/ l5 D+ t
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,( f3 y9 a  N* j1 w
日日有車站," F' J- }" L# @3 w1 Y
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
6 A1 |- s" ?1 f% ]2 M" M8 ]你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
; e8 G! n, w& G' I" O如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

! g6 ~' L. v. l. \7 {/ }4 f我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.4 r- w* I+ y- C. c% q
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
2 M# Y7 |7 I0 Z玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.5 s; l2 Y' E/ v- x
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
: a) k' ?5 u7 j" L其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,8 }. V# q& |* M" x
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,4 N9 U$ m* l- k4 w7 u4 h& P; q
日日有車站,
. ]$ q/ L" Y$ K8 N5 ?% W0 x; p/ m有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
1 W+ R- k( t( ?/ k0 N如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?) _: v0 p& i/ u$ P( N$ n
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
: ^- Q3 _! b0 d* B; L琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心5 E5 V4 w2 P) u3 c
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
7 _+ D7 j4 {# s) ?1 B覺得好空虛; I! x/ A+ s7 M. s) j3 ~
其實早幾次都有試過係咁; Q9 V! M( m/ z! _( v' U7 e# g
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
. I1 D/ c& \& I9 x" b4 V用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
8 T! B. v" h0 @/ T% W唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
' I1 z9 Z% r! F* Q+ _' \5 g' y有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.. c) `1 e' C; f7 f9 q! n: Q  z7 m

' o2 R: |) _( x2 qPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
- b- r) K7 T6 N3 S: R. Fa) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long( S9 k) w# O6 S8 r, S
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.* D4 M1 Z' s  P8 O6 f9 O% t; D# I
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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  G, [4 v- o0 n# Z  k# ~0 v/ QJust another thought on lonliness:
- E: y* B4 Z5 `  T. hLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
' c4 k3 C% n3 E7 V0 f9 wBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～* F+ P. g# y5 ?$ Z
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺/ o- j# i1 [9 d# N* q7 p2 m6 P
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
$ ^; Q0 B4 U$ m) |或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
7 x) h  e0 k- P9 q空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
" ]6 q1 Y, w! I- a; |很少會超過一天～
8 R% F3 Y. _5 n2 ~& z7 m要期待更好的明天呀！