熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?  |) v% e- C. ^3 T6 ]/ @8 m
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
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個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣7 r: P: u5 c" `; C) R7 F3 [
覺得好空虛
( M7 X) f8 K0 u3 ^  x! x其實早幾次都有試過係咁, G8 f+ Z* I' C$ h" p
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
' u4 J7 M6 a" m- Q# ]8 b* ^用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?5 p. O; Y( j+ O9 J, C+ Z
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
3 c" V8 Z) i+ _; M2 ~, c  o但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺5 m* [1 U, \6 y
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,9 `0 t8 u' F6 K: q
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
2 h  x% d( t( L) W' b3 b- P日日有車站,* s4 Q0 w# {3 w1 Q
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙& V3 p- W; y' J( u! s0 Z
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:4 \6 g+ z( o% ?; F" \: X- k
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.5 Q' ~' E* T% n  W% E
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
3 ~- F) N3 b8 N- i玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.5 O5 ~9 j" [3 \' X
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:4 \: R- V3 z) D6 C
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,- |5 o1 z9 Q- c% D6 ^# w
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,' n9 ?6 |2 N+ z* L2 s* _5 K
日日有車站,
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" {# p' K' ~5 n) M' ewhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
5 T2 |3 q7 k, g# P2 b- Q6 I  k如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
+ y: r& L" B* X; |! {% C7 q8 o好唔鍾意呢種感覺7 M* u+ U9 k) m4 I5 B  U
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心; F9 `" G7 v: N4 k' f8 D8 G8 F7 D
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
$ X' O4 W0 c" G0 V& \" R. |覺得好空虛4 q# r( D* h* v: g# M+ c& `- F
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
7 ^) s( o7 ?1 n" j6 O. c% W卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己5 n: g. x- i% i7 T. G% _
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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  H* Z9 X8 E" C* [這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.- H: _5 `, ?$ Q0 }
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.# h! G: |# b" O$ ]
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.5 A' ]" z3 Q( S  g. m7 P$ S1 \
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:: X- J% t8 c2 A$ k' K
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long, H' f# t& s" {
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
4 v8 a- ]' ^4 [1 O/ |c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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# s; k) ^2 `' Q( _" |Just another thought on lonliness:$ a9 A- H1 h$ \. t
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....2 q& S) a3 M! e; W
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～1 ]/ {9 i' n6 D: m
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺. X# I9 X% w- C( I  a
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影* [: ^5 K0 o" ]7 Z* f
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～, U( e8 O  ~4 N( }1 G6 r% z3 p8 J
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉! B  Q6 Z8 f) j! f) H8 W
很少會超過一天～
& M$ @  k! A3 }: N& }$ }8 j( n要期待更好的明天呀！