熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
0 I- J1 Q" j* ^好唔鍾意呢種感覺
: v7 {; Q( v4 {2 q# F" X! K: n0 @$ }3 r琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
2 E- L; S7 p3 `6 _  A個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
0 ?3 G) `5 c. S$ R4 n& ^覺得好空虛8 O8 D6 U) V) q. h
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
+ P" @0 K) `; ^$ m! s7 n% z. b卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己1 _, _% p/ f" |% \1 P$ x
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
# j, ~; X# Y; }2 y% U# p但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺8 a/ \9 G; x! J/ h; ]# E
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,* K$ [+ B/ F9 _
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
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有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙' P! c  W. ]1 ]  y4 M1 \4 U
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:* l) w3 i0 U, O% R; h" W
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
/ k6 u$ r4 p& i, z! p( z3 k感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..8 P  r# ^$ E/ A0 v5 E
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.& t! E  |, Y8 y* U% p, b! b
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
: ?1 N+ c5 ]/ `) H# [其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
0 ?5 |) N" d, F+ N所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
; V, `: m; s1 I/ Q$ i5 u日日有車站,$ a+ q- ~+ J. Z) {( _
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:/ Z) a" B. P. G3 X( q: U2 s
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
# G3 R. _6 b+ E" u' W! H& V好唔鍾意呢種感覺
3 i0 a/ C& K3 c' l! i琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心( `" ]( y6 o/ x" \: ]  r+ \
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
; ~, z* D! J# B9 E( x4 ?覺得好空虛
  K' f' C* s( r- t2 o- R6 B. v3 h其實早幾次都有試過係咁' ^" T8 P' \: H# u
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
5 I, I6 T! M6 o3 h用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.( M! w) B: a" N1 c* X2 {6 M" n
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.2 Q, J" ^/ l; g6 v/ ]
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.; \* l# Z5 E. n4 i) e% u

9 ^7 w: B0 u2 `, v5 \1 oPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:  X* i1 h: ^& |) ?3 e
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
0 p5 J5 u6 A' L- `; gb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.; i; o9 c8 e2 _; ?  h& {
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:; G: w0 F5 T! t  }6 G" U. a
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....; K/ K' H, G/ _2 u& p+ t/ B
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～2 T3 y' I' Q; U- b' W7 f) W, V4 }
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
/ h7 ^  z' a7 x2 I5 E3 w' {* o; q就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
( j0 u6 i" i. j% z, X或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
) A% \, @! |4 U" |4 [) c; ^空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
; h$ c' k2 M3 i- T很少會超過一天～3 f' {3 ~/ D. t. E$ ]0 i, D5 V
要期待更好的明天呀！