熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?0 U: W* j: m. z
好唔鍾意呢種感覺' J! J5 ]" H- u& j+ c9 J) f' ^2 V; A  t
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
4 \$ p' _% n4 ~個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
9 `3 `; ]; k- \0 b# X% [0 M% W覺得好空虛
8 a/ M5 O. e! B2 s" @! r其實早幾次都有試過係咁( A2 y# {) m$ {' s
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
7 T6 g: X% c/ B5 j4 D) d( l用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?9 f$ ?. r$ |7 m

; `0 o$ P/ [* g; a! O$ S2 p: O0 _[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
) j9 g# L# S: E. g! \但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
6 U- E# `& }8 T1 d* Y0 T熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,2 |/ `3 [3 [5 }$ A2 M3 y* `
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,, w0 Y4 b. l- ~1 v) u
日日有車站,
5 T4 T$ z! W6 U6 B3 B1 e# f有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
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markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:8 @7 c6 s$ R% l* S8 p
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

; S/ l: B9 C5 h! P/ E我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.) I- h. f3 q# f3 l" u
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..4 I  R/ s/ E! m7 R
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.: y2 K4 b7 X, Q: z
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
. F  J1 d4 l# _! `其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
6 F9 ?2 ~  I, u6 Z所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
2 o! z* c5 \: m: Q日日有車站,- K. e/ O6 P/ `: p6 Q; D$ o1 k. h
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
1 L: y5 j3 D8 Q" b3 `% i如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?, ~3 E) G( }( [; P
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
" _& h2 v! U& e; j3 y' z' ]4 A琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心' B5 @! m& i/ `) e8 T! U* G
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
3 e- Z9 q, H5 h9 {1 K7 e- E覺得好空虛
! h; `# j2 |( i) C# b: Z其實早幾次都有試過係咁6 @6 k+ `4 ^3 [. i* E7 A' a% ^4 O8 n1 a2 a
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
, E4 o4 e+ {: Q& i用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
& I$ L6 p% ?: h" d- y; g2 C

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.4 B6 E9 O! g9 C5 v1 |* D
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.3 }, w5 a: T1 Q' X" O/ z0 g
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.* W- h/ G& E5 q! l/ w5 w' B

8 F# k9 n1 l' T: w' }( E" o* }% E5 _People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
# E% u+ i# f6 a: _1 Fa) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
7 \: r+ V$ _' S1 u4 sb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
1 F% K: @# k3 j* C# q7 ^! @c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.& U0 p* C9 F) w/ {% N

) [) \: ?5 e' o, w! R0 {Just another thought on lonliness:% Z) L5 z+ n8 B$ u
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
5 G( l. B, U7 Z5 s4 @4 K6 S5 W0 z$ w7 WBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～. e# N1 r  k% a* u) f
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺0 o# b( w8 J6 E* c3 D3 g
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影$ x7 u# F+ O) {! \9 S! u, n, ?$ M
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
7 }2 \- `* W0 T# Z1 ^7 ~空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
# @7 m9 v# T3 Z6 C2 }4 E5 _$ `很少會超過一天～
) x- ^) i! U. `2 _4 |要期待更好的明天呀！