熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
; Q2 t* [: A$ A- q1 q$ {好唔鍾意呢種感覺
8 ]" ~% T2 J$ s* h- K  y琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心4 ^! |3 z# u3 N& O
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
+ z' T4 L6 |, r9 v$ J6 O( m覺得好空虛
: L6 x$ B6 Y( ]7 U7 r' n其實早幾次都有試過係咁4 _3 k2 l( H# C' [3 t7 l
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己2 i5 c" @4 ], l
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,4 |/ @2 ~9 i- |8 E  ~; n) l3 h8 ~
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
1 g+ A: {. {1 q% d: `熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
) @( N; U% {" X8 |所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,7 a$ v5 N4 ?( Q* p9 |$ T7 b
日日有車站,
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taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
) c! p7 w; f7 B3 f你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:  J& G) [( ~( P2 q
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

4 U5 P+ b4 Q3 K  r, ]我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.* c. I- p) t8 p5 `( Q
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞.." y$ K& Z+ T) O4 e" M
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.: V9 r: P! m/ s- v3 }# M9 N
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:' W* _9 |+ O: m" Q% p$ Q4 {% Q( w
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,9 }/ \- D" c! t1 x
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
  R3 k6 N. k0 x5 f! ^# P& H日日有車站,
) o" G/ I1 N* ^2 M% v有目標!

/ ^4 X, S/ P& X: R6 Hwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:% V+ l  F' b0 U' V. F. g( ]
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?' T# N2 _& f( ?& D3 c1 _  Q0 ]
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
; i1 P6 ^5 a. _9 B0 N琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
! o5 b8 G# V7 v$ q% m: o7 W5 [個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣0 f5 B  }. W) s+ d
覺得好空虛9 P: t) B8 D+ r: v
其實早幾次都有試過係咁3 m1 L' Q4 h, [' ~8 N! h
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己+ I1 t/ g# j  D% g6 v
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?0 A3 _0 p+ l6 p% J2 ]; V2 _

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦., \# t4 E6 P( p2 d. _" y( `+ X
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
: I1 Q3 ]9 Z0 @+ K' t+ ]! _有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
4 N2 b7 S! H1 x3 _) R" p( Q  ~a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long( y/ i; u- {; Z3 W& J. \  P. e5 X5 M; h
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.6 z' B& W- r& ]/ L  v  L7 a, s! ^
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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: r; u% ?+ h  X. P6 o  Z! OJust another thought on lonliness:+ |9 v. H, h  ]% ^! h; T
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....0 F9 }! m7 b' a2 E
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～/ A% T1 _) _) d+ q
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺) v( ]! C5 p/ ^' U! w9 i' R
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影7 G% ~, e: h* d# v' g
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
: `$ }% v6 R) Z9 D空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
* `% f8 W; p. g% Z7 [& d4 C$ \很少會超過一天～3 K+ L$ j7 _8 R
要期待更好的明天呀！