熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
6 U3 j+ x1 n. U9 {好唔鍾意呢種感覺
5 n4 ~. {$ P, Y2 }+ G5 V琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心( X* W+ S3 X6 B* M' c
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣' k5 z( E0 Z) h+ v: C# D% r; r
覺得好空虛" }+ y" @  V+ o( f. V8 [
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
& n, B" X3 Q: X2 J7 P  U' D卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己/ j  L) U6 [* H% E; Z9 L8 m
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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. [: f# `7 x4 ~" t! |9 q  X[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,- D+ L/ N' V* Z0 n
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺& n7 }- ~( [6 l$ T- P2 v+ S% f
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,: d6 E# k. m2 z0 o
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,7 K% `" s' z- }: Q
日日有車站,8 N  m2 M) [& r3 M  ^, m
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
3 z# R1 w% D. s9 L$ h# c6 X/ q你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
; X3 G* c  ~+ @% W/ K0 t2 l, A如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

! O/ j# M4 b. i, o+ x* \- v- n我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
8 f# m/ b% ]! G感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
2 z7 F3 \2 M! r- ?% ?! g玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
1 F3 J' `/ `$ b3 l" _, b# i總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
! i+ \9 F  g4 ^% Z/ a- C% R( A其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
7 Y* d: U9 L1 n6 h5 T9 L: u) s, g+ L' n所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,# l% A5 e, I$ ~6 S
日日有車站,
+ X6 t1 L/ A# l, @* m有目標!

( ?9 j# ]; h7 T) Awhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
: P8 [. I, |% K7 Z, @2 S6 M( c& T: C! B* L如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
* D# s* p& S  J0 U好唔鍾意呢種感覺& W- ^' r) T; k$ j9 S( A$ Y
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
8 f  V, O( D/ y5 c# p1 i& Z個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
1 }% Z% a5 h4 Q2 w/ W" c覺得好空虛
4 |' h5 |! o$ H其實早幾次都有試過係咁6 w! w- \6 F# E0 V* M
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己  A7 `6 a3 G. h9 Z4 ?4 A
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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' M; X1 D, H# n3 ~: k9 K2 d5 i% Y這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
" x6 K4 k3 E) a唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
5 N& {0 d9 X2 J有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own./ ]2 ?4 o8 m* i7 x' f% }

2 I" L; o# {8 L4 @5 M2 r) F* mPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:3 u* l2 g0 L5 `* B& [
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
) W9 Q- l" S7 h+ bb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.( [6 p' S# m1 s
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.1 L% e3 J: _8 O. i1 H. u

. H: w% u$ N! u2 S% ~' `( G7 Z8 s8 FJust another thought on lonliness:* s( q& n! i. J7 j7 l  R
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
  a, b$ z+ O( T+ [, u7 e1 vBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
0 c" ?, L7 D# N+ d& W# W% X9 L8 [我會有一種十分空虛的感覺+ [5 \* U0 L- `- `0 c
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
: f3 O1 c& ^8 _/ D, J或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
8 k: j: Y' v% y$ [2 {空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
& G5 H7 a4 `8 X- }0 }1 @, t" ~很少會超過一天～
6 i# w$ n- h! R$ C: k要期待更好的明天呀！