熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
& i7 M; Z( X# ]1 K8 l3 H* k好唔鍾意呢種感覺! r: G; Z' o0 m1 J! Y1 d
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心3 S5 ]% V1 C6 C
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
4 S7 }8 r( M2 K' V, {覺得好空虛
  z- U- U7 K8 K0 n8 S) U+ H: N其實早幾次都有試過係咁$ S. V5 @$ \$ M' w8 ^
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己& h" z. U+ p# Z6 B' ~8 I. `
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?* Z: Q% F6 K: q
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,: V" L5 p: X% x/ b
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺5 V* U  s) ~5 ]0 o! c( d
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
% |( O; H2 R! s8 Y- [  E所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,* d. P2 b; z# Y5 d3 \% b- ]/ @
日日有車站,  @& ~! ~# q6 c. b+ J- s0 k
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙2 a3 Y3 f0 E  G6 J" n8 R+ c  U/ J
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
3 E" V/ \3 G0 W/ M3 {如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

& t6 t7 ~) u8 G7 P我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.7 L- z1 \/ N8 i0 N. ?
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
7 `$ z& Q' Z1 W9 o" y6 W+ [# R6 d玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
6 R0 e" H) K5 J% ?( Q  |+ w總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:. Q9 k1 D4 C1 h( n5 Z$ U
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,( G9 h, n: N) P7 R5 D: d
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
1 \7 R/ s! }( j0 T* `日日有車站,
, t: }9 U& H5 i1 Q: W有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
- ]  U9 c1 Y" ], ~. d1 c- q( o; j如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?4 y# F  z  V7 a# O1 T
好唔鍾意呢種感覺" E& `8 ]! m; C8 |& D
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心( }  U) F2 E, c  I/ f- n$ I
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣3 h& B$ {+ A4 U3 p
覺得好空虛
* S! M4 S8 t% i其實早幾次都有試過係咁
/ A- t( L2 L2 R0 X, H4 G卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
% `& W! @4 q9 Z& |; v# u; X8 g. s8 r用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
! y0 s4 e  q. y: o0 X$ i7 D唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
1 Q  }) F) ?9 j$ c! i$ z有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:, B+ e2 m+ e2 w% G: O0 d
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long* y8 E# ^$ ]' ~( a4 i9 T0 }" e
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
8 H1 r+ \( [; k7 K; oc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.7 a* p' X8 v- _8 q1 X
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Just another thought on lonliness:
4 l# f+ {# e4 S6 e' d  gLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
- w& J  D# j/ ~/ kBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～/ v& V7 \8 ?. c) Y$ Z
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
' T& |6 n& ~; t: p就好似睇完一套好睇的電影* \! g) H* e$ [' F/ Z( O
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
: h5 X& v8 @, X9 a- B空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉: {2 l9 M1 T3 K2 p% N& }
很少會超過一天～2 X# E2 r' ]  K2 U# `
要期待更好的明天呀！