熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
( |, x0 z" K* p$ A! I好唔鍾意呢種感覺
: b2 e  t9 w% G6 v; P7 k5 J琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
3 j$ n+ W: X- p% x9 u; u7 q; U$ Y+ J個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
# M/ p, F+ b% O; |, F5 ~覺得好空虛
' G, S: V8 i; Q) D) v0 Y: i其實早幾次都有試過係咁
3 j; R" y3 y1 r卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己6 c# F+ e5 T* _- |
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?) h. I' m6 }. E& T

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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
( `2 J7 l! Q* _9 U% ?: X) x  m' w但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺, T  @, q9 N" m, w0 X: k7 I
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
$ Z5 f7 M: d7 V* K所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
, j% _  k* ]5 q日日有車站,# @: O. v  K* I0 g* B0 Y9 @
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙, x# i9 I$ O( ]( T, t2 v* M* H
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:6 v0 n$ H" d; ~* v5 \
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
# w1 f5 O2 Q" }感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..8 |2 y: K: x7 g0 L* R" d% p
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
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本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
7 R5 P+ p- Z- O/ ~% n' Y3 u4 M其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
0 a, y* t) Z  n$ L! n- y1 U所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
% ^1 s6 a' e" x4 J4 I4 ~, n" f日日有車站,6 Q* y4 E* B( A+ [7 @& w
有目標!

! `2 Y' ]4 Q# Xwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
2 J, ^/ i% [. [2 [' B! s如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
; s0 [" U) v$ [1 a5 v1 y好唔鍾意呢種感覺
* K7 n. G9 g8 f, A: ~1 E1 z琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心# n, c& J- l2 h* a1 R# u
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣& k, K6 S% a* d% _: O7 u
覺得好空虛
( V* r. X3 b' S" O/ r- ]其實早幾次都有試過係咁
2 m1 k2 n, V. ]5 e( N7 R  B+ C% s卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
. {+ \6 z+ b% z: d% u0 Z用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?6 \. ]! w6 R: n4 \$ h2 X) v/ [

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.1 A. y6 C1 j+ ?+ F& Y# v" \/ Q
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
( b6 _% V, M" q' Z( m有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.3 P! W. ]6 e' i3 L& F# z$ s
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:7 g" K% O- x* Y' H7 P3 X* b8 a+ {
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long. Y& Z3 V7 Y* g9 ~1 L
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
  e" T2 l/ {6 n. Y4 X% J+ ac) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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& b2 f+ u4 R2 kJust another thought on lonliness:
( T- w- b: |" d' G6 I4 NLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time...... i$ I) h9 t0 S- V# M6 ]
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
8 Z# Y$ z. t0 H我會有一種十分空虛的感覺* P) H8 A. r% N" Y( D
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
0 ]5 I* `$ @( e4 C" E4 l( t或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～7 d3 k& U; n' d" ?8 K
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉7 p6 T  ^7 W  U$ Q6 E) r! ]
很少會超過一天～
- F/ S0 M1 Q: p+ q) k要期待更好的明天呀！