熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?+ b/ B5 M2 A* o6 i
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
- u% D' j3 T/ X: ~) l& M9 ?, a琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心; |7 u9 o  r: i
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
; M! x9 x& D& B, }覺得好空虛; Q( H' m5 U6 b5 B2 R) U) S' N3 a
其實早幾次都有試過係咁# h( n/ ~# q6 x+ `# o/ m; n
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己& |) Z( ]$ n9 j$ u3 L
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
5 w% _' L( l1 a但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺" k3 G3 I1 m5 g, `6 w% u# s
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
# Z4 m; j: l5 X所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,7 F$ l( I) _5 j! R6 T. v; S1 u
日日有車站,
6 f/ k; s  n) ?, N' q有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
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markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:: |  ^8 ~) K/ |! ]
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.1 E1 q8 r6 }/ e3 o
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
( z+ v0 [( M3 B7 ?+ @8 u, X' H$ }% T玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.+ L' ^* l4 S5 O! m+ _9 z
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
- c3 l; B( z4 e6 [2 Y7 W% @其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
; T* b, C# J9 Z所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,* a8 L) U6 i, a6 G
日日有車站,
" a% T( W3 i, K% Q" q有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:0 ]$ x4 N5 m) C  r1 f
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?( @" n" m( X. _: B$ H4 ~
好唔鍾意呢種感覺8 A. D' f4 `+ R: N! u7 g4 v
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心6 T- X" h" Q5 ]6 s3 U
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
0 U: [- u5 w1 G" D覺得好空虛% S- g4 W4 ^, ~* t! \
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
8 S" E7 l6 t% m3 x卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己/ [1 |" V' a5 z0 v% N" v
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?/ `1 H3 o5 L, _- F: T* B7 _+ |+ ?

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- X+ Z0 C: @  G+ s8 A# L這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.- s7 ^2 K# G2 i' X$ R( q, `, h$ I! D
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
, ^3 P3 k1 N: @& R' L0 {; M# o" s- l  c有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
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c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:1 j- V% o3 ^$ E% d  Z5 m
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
/ h2 m& n4 q8 x2 W/ @  XBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～2 v' x, n# E& g
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺) o: a' D3 ^& i/ Y9 z
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影& A" A" Q/ {. ]3 ~( M0 i
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～& H9 c! d  n0 h. {4 z
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
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5 H7 L# J% j9 v. g) V7 ~" M要期待更好的明天呀！