熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
1 r# Y# Q  }, h# J( c好唔鍾意呢種感覺
/ _" D( }+ y8 S. y  ^$ Q, O0 s; I琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心. N  F0 \9 B$ i
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
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" u4 G! e: v+ {* y4 C: ?" S; T+ K& Z其實早幾次都有試過係咁* p7 J1 @4 _# p+ J6 ^/ K
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
7 ~- k1 W3 I, F8 {, @用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?2 q: M* D1 N$ c5 X. J* I3 J% t

. G0 s8 l$ h) G% c$ G* y[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,0 _1 q) _( p$ d) i7 I, D: _" M
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺) J0 u# g8 N$ d; `: l
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,4 b# K) ?! ]' \9 t4 j
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,  J2 J& ]" ]) d  L" K! D% W, _$ _6 S
日日有車站,
1 ^: ?% ~* i* x! g/ T; I- E0 [有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙7 l* O$ z, H( x; Q4 R4 E
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
: n7 I( s9 E* W0 O5 V$ \% C如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

: Q0 n. U; O4 I2 o2 d我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶./ A. R  G* k# a8 f
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..6 H, x1 M( O* a, m  c+ n$ g
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.4 w: u+ j1 [" Z: ?! l# w* j
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:: _" d. V% B' T; a& M0 d: \! ~
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
+ C! u7 \. S; p/ k$ N! f所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
3 l9 K  D3 c& V0 `日日有車站,
$ ^) \! o% |, ~" a7 y1 C有目標!

" s4 `9 Q; F' ~2 a. _; Gwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
) q1 [; h7 V" X2 g4 D! y* U9 Q1 k如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?  ^6 n. q& L  ]+ J# W5 }/ E
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
9 n  u; A. R6 S$ h, f琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心2 X8 i7 V4 S* ]! G9 D* C. p
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
( X! |7 J9 U5 G2 i4 U  Z覺得好空虛
+ q4 H. r0 e4 E% Q1 M1 M其實早幾次都有試過係咁
0 F- o+ w/ D9 \; H6 C5 d) ~卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
& X, Y4 i' @  x9 N  S9 X8 G用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?6 u$ X. ^' a+ m# F

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
, i) F: C  d  E& P唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
. b8 y8 E3 I7 h5 l1 s+ |有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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  i* p7 C' }, VPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:: K+ d( T6 L1 }0 }, X. d  t
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long6 {# [2 G/ S# C2 j1 }  y+ J
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
. y; X1 a# S6 [# j( l5 yc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.+ ?9 }6 q2 g- d, e* X4 s- n  O+ ]
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Just another thought on lonliness:8 ~9 P2 s6 D& Q& I; H  h2 G1 {/ e- s
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....6 A2 \+ s  A9 x; v8 [& v! f
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～: Q) `' y$ b+ ?' k1 y0 u3 g
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺$ T# n: N+ p% W- F
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
! u5 m0 l" ^( Q/ A或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
% R6 Y- s% v4 q3 |4 k空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
: A/ J$ }. C5 c很少會超過一天～8 o* m4 B- z5 t! v4 p
要期待更好的明天呀！