熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
' }, F; Y. M+ H4 o8 |! N好唔鍾意呢種感覺5 U/ H) H# X" {6 ?* {; g
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
# T0 w3 ~+ n; `8 S/ e$ z個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
/ ~2 K; B$ n2 H: l5 C覺得好空虛
/ t  u  c: H# E. {其實早幾次都有試過係咁
3 E$ ?  W9 S, l: p6 H卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
) W: V9 v: Y2 M2 u2 X% A0 X3 C' i用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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9 q! R( |' P: i+ [[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
" K' e# p( g% ]' L( }1 z0 `但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
, Z% z% W4 f" e* c5 S2 g4 H; E熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,4 G+ L2 [+ G: _6 i4 h
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
9 l( {; X; [% D2 s$ G% _日日有車站," F0 q" B; _  U  P* r+ I0 x
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
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markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
' k) q8 v& t% i( r: z) R如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.: ]) v! @/ C- I2 U
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
8 L: v. H2 {5 Y: {3 X4 R& d' o3 ?玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
6 S7 w  w8 }9 Y0 D  G5 Y總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:0 q/ j% s9 {6 p$ q6 I
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
$ s( G5 c2 {1 d6 \! o8 G所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,8 E7 C) x/ v8 i. H& Z8 y
日日有車站,( y& @3 R0 M; r3 w, v! O
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
, e3 O+ O& H# a0 i: ^" U' ~如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
3 l/ e7 e: i& q9 |. ?: N$ l好唔鍾意呢種感覺
1 s) s0 R, M8 C5 M/ k琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心# g8 }3 E4 r/ a7 x
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣" A& ]) d% I  y5 k; Z, t" ~$ l
覺得好空虛
! u; D& K7 u2 c9 ~) j% T其實早幾次都有試過係咁
3 m8 b( _7 m: r) M* R6 i& A' E. U  i卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己1 b9 p* V# @( H2 i9 l5 z
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?% V. I) n- T0 q" u8 w) J

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: R% Q/ s/ d) Z; A這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
! }; t' D: t/ \. y3 d  i/ X唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
/ S6 U& s  c$ \有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.3 c6 L( ~: P9 _+ k) w
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
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b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
, i% i+ o" m: `6 uc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.* y7 O9 m" p6 H: |- T( m- V

# U9 }; l" {" J$ D* Y4 i* BJust another thought on lonliness:
: o8 k  K5 V. |$ @; F# ULonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time...../ `  P8 d6 O3 K+ a( S% e! n% X, }/ ?. p
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
2 i0 l1 c/ X# G$ ~3 R我會有一種十分空虛的感覺" `% b# ?2 _. y4 {
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
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空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
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要期待更好的明天呀！