熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?) [% _. Q& r& b/ M5 j
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
1 q# A" [. @# K琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
& |. L; u$ b( M" n! {. r/ V個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
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5 U' p, _0 A( |其實早幾次都有試過係咁! a6 _% R4 {; D6 ^5 h/ u
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
5 A$ e8 @' H- R: ?用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,3 Y* V( B' p, A$ {' V) W
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
( |5 b: W7 m% @/ ?2 R8 i8 }' ^熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,$ v, `5 F3 f: ?
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
+ C  a2 y7 D& u& L8 V9 g# K日日有車站,
0 g" F/ O% R$ `有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙4 e7 q+ [7 `4 s
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
" C/ \& F/ _" v5 x" d如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.2 Z5 w' e0 P3 Y/ U: E
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
+ Z" `8 X- v' A2 ?) j2 A玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.! ?" N1 u0 ]0 l/ i) u
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
: R# c$ \$ g6 W/ v其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
# T% M$ G/ W, ]" k! ?所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,' J; Y9 {( g& ~  J  Q
日日有車站,
2 l; X/ ]0 r5 ]% ^4 q5 W/ h有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
; H/ l+ |8 P+ e' H9 L7 N如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
: B! g0 m, [1 H9 X  W! Z好唔鍾意呢種感覺
8 N, i3 x# N; P7 g% R* ~. e琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
' }1 z( G3 M* V7 H( q/ n0 I個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣5 ]5 q; \" o& @0 C1 q& Z$ p0 ]3 Z
覺得好空虛
3 c& L. H3 n4 `) e7 {. R! S" b3 \% y其實早幾次都有試過係咁- @) h5 b0 a) S& n
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
  d' U6 S( Y* J; \用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
4 R; j0 Q* r; a# y唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.# e: G' C5 s' {* r! O
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
* g8 j* L  @" V9 a' z/ \$ sb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.! F& R$ t$ @7 m% H
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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) W3 x4 M" _- G* Q% d3 s  p# AJust another thought on lonliness:! G6 c9 c8 {9 M, D, Z* |1 A5 S
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....( m, }+ P5 l1 \+ O1 ]4 i5 w
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～* Q! ~) n6 d3 z
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
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或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～( G0 X" k5 F0 M* i% Z1 v
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉# w2 x) J: w* U% K* A9 b& N
很少會超過一天～) H- A, L6 S' H; _! ~; b0 u6 N
要期待更好的明天呀！