熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?& d, O" A" G% j
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
  t# A* c" n8 f& ?琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
' M" |; q- J  `個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
! c8 C6 ?( k0 w5 u) i1 B覺得好空虛8 X; Y$ I3 _) d' c/ y/ M( t4 A& C
其實早幾次都有試過係咁! g  S+ W! f0 f1 C& H2 L
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己" I3 ]2 b2 U4 Y' T  g+ a8 g8 l
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
+ \' r3 p- ]& |, W; e4 ]2 \但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
! \4 G$ }$ I. R熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,& G8 {9 @9 b( g- T) e$ u1 m5 o: ~
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
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有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
3 E  S6 I( l8 d2 X你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
6 q1 o8 M, W9 H& F' o2 V如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.9 b# Y) o! x9 r! d
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
0 u- u$ b/ N1 `" H" |9 G玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.1 M6 B$ s. @9 A* e0 A/ R' I
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
" S$ Y8 q0 g: b) v其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
  f4 S5 q3 U1 R# s. p' {4 }所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,7 T. R# a2 p7 x0 a! v3 [( @, C- t
日日有車站,
2 U0 |9 \9 Q2 `7 G2 R有目標!

, [3 U- X; H9 ~% b9 l! G" ~' B$ J9 pwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
6 W8 a6 n" G. Z& p& Q! D如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
* b* @) e& t5 n& i: k好唔鍾意呢種感覺
/ `9 ^, s' u% }- F琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
  o6 C! h( y' ]個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
  S+ _5 A" Q2 t" _% c6 I5 L覺得好空虛
5 r7 j: Q7 t; m7 i. c  ]其實早幾次都有試過係咁
) C3 @/ K! p/ U8 N4 v卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己* C1 D3 ?4 q5 t/ [) X) F
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?) }4 c3 H; u1 M, m

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
8 o0 W2 G( Z  K* ~, \* Y% Z唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.  C" N' ^5 `* @) `7 j
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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( ?& R! Q, N8 n+ S7 s0 C- PPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:+ J- S5 S0 o; `( P0 v
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long: |7 G; q9 V2 G* e) Z1 v
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
8 T0 a# a. [8 u, m) y0 O& nc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.. [* ]! @5 j  M% |2 S- y, V
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Just another thought on lonliness:
; [0 v2 [; p1 g* Q! nLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....6 O$ e+ d6 Z4 [5 Z0 x
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～$ L- R! y# |& e& x- E& Z
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺. ]; T- u) _' i7 N, Q
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
3 s6 V% z) ^4 |" g% \6 B6 K或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～2 e1 N- y1 y) P9 K. _* `
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉9 c5 e; @% p- ~8 {( ~1 c8 h
很少會超過一天～
8 ]5 I+ L7 d3 U" e3 j要期待更好的明天呀！