熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
. f1 |/ F! W& k1 N5 I/ l5 H好唔鍾意呢種感覺% }& ~$ x. L% }4 X( t
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心7 p9 {, ?' }$ K' e+ [. C' j9 ]
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
. O* n( b; A, V6 B6 f- ~覺得好空虛
* L( P9 h4 U" P( `3 p- Q其實早幾次都有試過係咁
! b1 v  `! ~2 n3 b" r+ C卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
3 l5 m  c  t0 A6 Z( H/ i3 D用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?0 f/ C) G+ ^9 f+ G

$ p2 a, m7 X- \; R. F' r7 n[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,7 q7 d+ _2 ]5 W; n! W: @: q7 A) }
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
  U- O4 B$ Q1 W& I2 D- l' g; z' V熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,7 J8 D1 P6 I' @) |" p  H( U1 A
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,' o5 k7 w4 p, o, {/ e& U
日日有車站,1 t5 X( N/ ^% ]- s" p7 x
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
4 U' X, }! ]. M; L! N$ w% F$ T你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
* n) `7 x% G+ ~& B/ X' }; x如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

; F# l; n' m3 X2 G5 _  c我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
; S' c1 u: }% a; u4 ~& z1 K感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..6 {. Z8 P+ V! q( k  @8 {6 Y/ z: ?
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.2 b3 N' h. B8 z5 {# J# H6 y
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
6 S5 p, C( C+ H- R' ?- R3 V5 A其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,8 e6 F2 f& D6 E; {) H+ V
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,: ?. N1 J9 T. N- v- D
日日有車站,  X/ a% D( n' S% m* u& I
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:/ {) ?, \6 h- N. ~; }& f# c
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
) x: W) R/ t% h好唔鍾意呢種感覺
- N1 r7 d4 o  W) ^: r( s3 c琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
( v8 ]* @5 f! U4 V- ^個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
- z* s' U4 h/ i覺得好空虛
+ |! C5 k( b5 ^( E0 K7 O其實早幾次都有試過係咁! \8 ~3 V) t: A" [) P
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己! p! x$ p5 E9 o) b+ k$ W2 a
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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6 q& |' ~# P2 }這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
" F+ ]  j' }& l; j1 B- w4 e唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
1 c5 E) o& A2 R) {有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
9 Z' u8 p  b5 Qa) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long: a. c! d4 s, ^4 X; l5 e6 G2 F" p
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.) V' F& c1 [3 L0 w# r
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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- w' Y; J; o& {# b/ n) p/ c$ bJust another thought on lonliness:  p) Q" _% _4 [1 i. |
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
1 L  U# ^& r2 s4 C, mBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～1 t, d: \+ Y4 z% A
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺* N& P5 F0 h' T9 c
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
# H7 Y1 Q7 H3 r6 o) H& I7 C或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
7 b7 M1 x& M' A0 h( r) t1 p空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉1 T, Q: _# k2 H/ l7 A
很少會超過一天～1 \9 C# F) S  S- r3 n0 w
要期待更好的明天呀！