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jason williams

in fact, under this situation, we really would not be so intellective sometimes, that means we will solve it in a little bit "9" way! {& p0 N& X% J( A8 M/ s
consider in the following (not in order):
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1st, how close the relationship we are?
# Q2 h, q" V& ?2nd, how serious he/she has done?
/ k5 E5 X& a: N- J2 Y) X3rd, would it affect other seriouly after i help/not help him?
2 n3 f$ j- p1 T9 \4th, even worst problem he/she has made, why he/she did it? any good excuse?
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for me:
( X" ?: @5 V" l5 q1 ci may ask my "good heart" first, that means i may 大義滅親 if they have done a serious problem, just like murder because this is gd way for they to self-questioning and searching, also this is a 交代 to the victim.
* `  \* A9 t- E) z0 A6 n: X* nbut if they have a very good excuse, just like self protection, then i may advice them to surrender, because their crime can be understood under Law (just like HK this kind of place with gd law situation)8 x- l  f/ f, U: @- Y+ ~' d
but for some situations just like murder in China, smuggle of drugs in thai land, than they must die, then i may help them to cop, but sure they should have a very good excus for me to help !!!
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" |3 A% o  O) u( l! l# ]but whatever, i think we should put our 良心 first b4 doing anything and need to 將心比己!!!

wer

小事會,大事不會.留案底或坐監對父子前途影響甚大,所以不告.小事就沒所謂,當買個教訓

aiqidejiao

父為子隱，子為父隱

老鬼X

觀點/角度 好難答

jennifer

不能比成我了，就事论事吧，因果关系，所谓大义灭亲，这个大义是指大局，大事，大众的利益来看。所以舍弃亲情，来用法律或善恶惩罚来对待亲人，第一个例子呢，我认做得对，这算是大义救亲吧，小偷小摸终会铸成大错，在大错之前，绳之亲子，算是救他，助他而已，谈不上灭，可能是父亲一片苦心。4 c+ Z5 W  u$ T) ~' `
第二个呢，是小义灭亲吧，这个小义是指怕连累自己，拖累家人，而举报，如仅仅为了减少对社会危险，那么方式不局限于报警这个极端手法。
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ricojohny

無論要滅邊個5 u$ p: F% D8 ~. d  V, ~2 ]
只要有數我都會滅