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4 N2 k- Y: i* M假如仍不知悔改就要佢負上法律責任1 p; b- b$ y( N+ z8 P3 q
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jason williams

in fact, under this situation, we really would not be so intellective sometimes, that means we will solve it in a little bit "9" way
  W7 [* C1 ]/ J$ tconsider in the following (not in order):, q5 o& r. Q2 _/ d" y

1 d- e1 `! g. h% i" B6 J1st, how close the relationship we are?: V; J5 ^+ t3 Q9 W# T, B+ {0 X
2nd, how serious he/she has done?" S. I9 d* a7 n! e: s
3rd, would it affect other seriouly after i help/not help him?
) O$ C, d0 k" D4th, even worst problem he/she has made, why he/she did it? any good excuse?/ g- L$ A, u2 m  V

7 L6 U6 b$ J; A  M4 r8 F' [9 e4 q' xfor me:! D' v( \3 Q3 \2 S
i may ask my "good heart" first, that means i may 大義滅親 if they have done a serious problem, just like murder because this is gd way for they to self-questioning and searching, also this is a 交代 to the victim.
+ g$ h$ r: K% I2 l( cbut if they have a very good excuse, just like self protection, then i may advice them to surrender, because their crime can be understood under Law (just like HK this kind of place with gd law situation)
2 q7 y( b2 ^/ T4 `. E2 zbut for some situations just like murder in China, smuggle of drugs in thai land, than they must die, then i may help them to cop, but sure they should have a very good excus for me to help !!!
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  J0 T$ @. H7 d. K9 l# c, lbut whatever, i think we should put our 良心 first b4 doing anything and need to 將心比己!!!

wer

小事會,大事不會.留案底或坐監對父子前途影響甚大,所以不告.小事就沒所謂,當買個教訓

aiqidejiao

父為子隱，子為父隱

老鬼X

觀點/角度 好難答

jennifer

不能比成我了，就事论事吧，因果关系，所谓大义灭亲，这个大义是指大局，大事，大众的利益来看。所以舍弃亲情，来用法律或善恶惩罚来对待亲人，第一个例子呢，我认做得对，这算是大义救亲吧，小偷小摸终会铸成大错，在大错之前，绳之亲子，算是救他，助他而已，谈不上灭，可能是父亲一片苦心。
" {) l% [5 N/ a" u) x. A1 e第二个呢，是小义灭亲吧，这个小义是指怕连累自己，拖累家人，而举报，如仅仅为了减少对社会危险，那么方式不局限于报警这个极端手法。" Q) c1 X9 N: m6 h9 j
人们总把大义与民簇与群体相联，一已私利算不上大义，这是个人观点，求分啊，分太少。

ricojohny

無論要滅邊個7 A1 J1 ?: m& W% P3 s
只要有數我都會滅