熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?; t& ^; s( k% Z! C# o
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
# e1 T7 n- a% I8 T3 t7 \琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心: X& e1 I4 B# s3 e$ w2 T: P0 b
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
0 j: H8 q7 Q6 O' V! J$ {- j* D0 R覺得好空虛. M0 |) y7 c" ~8 V- X2 o
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
7 `; R6 E* K9 ]# D卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
5 X. k' j5 c" j7 d3 I用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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$ Y: P$ F, }/ G2 I3 }) ~[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
( s9 @8 [# S9 g' e( \+ o' B$ P但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺# l# S8 d6 W- _# t
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
# W/ ]9 Y- K7 G, S7 a! Z/ s* b所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
  s. C! P4 _. V! h日日有車站,- F5 f) h3 k7 q8 Q3 I5 U
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
& B7 ~8 v7 ~! {% f! o* d, @: N, w你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
, Q" _% w; e7 t2 \2 c如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

+ l4 M* J5 P, Y$ w# r我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
/ x" F6 Z) t0 h% |感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..& j. p3 m6 o$ I7 G" e& C0 H
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.: j" v; U$ F$ D
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:/ H0 ~# j1 r7 }$ l. i% R
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
4 v/ m1 h7 h5 E: L$ {) v+ J所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
9 H/ F9 c7 ]* _1 q, x: |日日有車站,
+ v; V% q+ W  {  P& f有目標!

& l& W- T: j( mwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:; B) h+ X& h1 L. v# d% Q% u
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
$ m, d- ?9 g; j好唔鍾意呢種感覺# z, F& h- X# ~# R  k9 V) Z# \9 Q
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心7 Q! D) |- x+ ~* I. j
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣) W& S' P% H  f8 o+ \8 K0 d
覺得好空虛6 ^1 A$ L1 X7 z4 ~
其實早幾次都有試過係咁4 F3 P, _! u' ^8 a# D. l) ^3 D
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己4 E/ K" b$ |) A- o0 }! `
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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  M+ Q5 R3 a  F5 ~( o這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.# I, O7 M" X. _& l9 I) |0 y
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
" ~5 M# J  I7 g- r, g- W3 T有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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! i# L5 F) ^9 o# }+ UPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
/ ^0 b. w/ F6 o$ C/ da) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long9 h3 p& @% Q+ v( j" {6 _* R2 ?$ K
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.. v$ r/ K/ e8 f6 m* D
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:# E4 X6 I! s: O% i
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
2 X  m  V, |! I4 e. g. eBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～* o( E" a; ]- ^4 G# ~4 @
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
, o# O) [/ K8 ~3 b) Z3 O" L/ d就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
/ P! y7 x& B: ~: f; ?6 x或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～/ E% B, U& ]. v* E( L) @8 `- r
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
+ O7 T; B$ \0 T4 F) q很少會超過一天～0 z& r; v& s  T0 \$ N
要期待更好的明天呀！