熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
5 Q" |( s" E$ {; h. x8 {好唔鍾意呢種感覺3 P3 x" F# X# A' X# K/ O: ~6 ?9 g* z
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
. |: X6 I' _1 u9 K2 d. f個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣* O9 P! O" R/ L1 ?. K* f
覺得好空虛+ ?4 r, W+ A' K; [
其實早幾次都有試過係咁8 b$ D9 F% u8 ~( ^
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己5 }! `, f6 L  [, Q) D1 r
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?5 P. U, p8 p( o4 q
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,! }! u4 j2 z$ W0 r- q9 E5 W6 H. U
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺) s* V7 I  ^# Z0 a$ ]
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
% `4 O6 O. N8 o% t' S所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
  ^; w+ h' Y. x9 ^- c- ^5 O日日有車站,
: n7 y1 i6 F- J& e6 ^有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙7 Y' W/ w% p. U% a' h
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
( h! Y- G* f  h6 J7 I如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

: y2 O, z5 Q" Y6 E- O5 o4 ~我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
& Y! n! ^) S4 N7 t3 C: M感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
0 t8 i# H: ]1 ?7 i# C( L3 K3 e0 o# s玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.4 O# ~8 K2 I$ z, m- |1 j  k/ A
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:$ v, o3 i& W! J. O/ K5 W3 D, v
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
8 a6 f5 `. n) i1 N3 i' d" w所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
# u; h: [3 Q* t8 |' L+ T" m日日有車站,$ V- ^! f' G, y8 \
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:: ~1 u7 \. h: U0 H
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?6 b: q% j* _- N8 j
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
9 X, e+ [8 S/ s8 `8 X6 F- L琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心/ z/ f7 A4 z9 p3 X) p% w3 @4 e3 H
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣& Y9 B+ O! r+ P% g$ s5 E  D3 z2 ~5 m
覺得好空虛
/ L! m( z( ]2 c/ Q: i0 i. _其實早幾次都有試過係咁1 P& j; s* x0 I. p- G" D
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
2 Q5 v( }- L  a# V6 P7 X用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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0 t7 \( C( q% o  i# Y9 e2 A這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
6 X2 f% c$ v# M: j唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
: b. `, h4 S, R, @( k有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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# d" _  v, _9 n; b* E2 ePeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:5 r' `, J' s, \3 c9 ]; c! _& L
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long$ P5 C+ f! G0 U( D
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone., z4 o$ s9 ]) i; c
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.8 d& J7 Q! v: b* N+ V9 P) E+ a! e

1 {8 l- v, c3 u+ A1 T9 XJust another thought on lonliness:- r" a" A5 C7 M& r# D( g; T
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....  d8 N+ p- h0 w! z! N. Q- T
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～- N5 ~! f6 C/ V1 D: m
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
  l4 \* V5 M* S! C' {5 S7 l# t就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
7 f2 B' O  ~& G( i* I( v4 f" I或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
7 }- L+ y1 d. f8 [* \: S+ C% h空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
6 i2 k# d# \( ]) X6 V很少會超過一天～
; K) y- V; r2 s5 z要期待更好的明天呀！