熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?( T$ A+ e4 h) }
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
1 C9 E3 p3 [  `" ~8 q4 k琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
3 {/ ~& m/ m0 F9 y4 h" h8 w個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
; r( r: Z' c3 }& r+ F; J+ w4 J覺得好空虛
3 D( u2 l# \3 v; k8 Y" i其實早幾次都有試過係咁; T. t) _6 @/ d. J1 |3 w8 }
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
3 `# z$ K* }: b; e2 r4 b- W% E* U用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,5 r5 u: f* Y* Q% G5 I
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺% a, ^) q6 q% A. F  o$ k/ ^/ d/ G
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,) a# Z" h4 F8 {
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,3 b& v0 i6 {! w- L
日日有車站,
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taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙! |! G4 [8 I* Q% d0 W. x! T
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:( ]+ k. w& \  Q, S* X9 J) V
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

' s: t4 j6 S( v( L我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.( @# q9 _3 R( o
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
7 k' `4 s1 F( u5 U+ E玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.9 @# u7 \/ X* i6 Q8 m
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:5 A+ d0 ~4 w% q
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,; r( e3 ]& q$ t1 L- k
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
8 t7 u% i0 T+ n4 ~日日有車站,; e" X, J5 ]- a6 x1 A2 v
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:* [  r/ L0 M* T4 ?& v
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
& P$ f! k0 g* q+ Q" Q4 a: N好唔鍾意呢種感覺$ x4 b) i6 u  ~, _/ k
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心  S8 f2 `: h; U) \
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
. N' N7 O6 |8 m2 B! `) g覺得好空虛/ z" m- k& E& o5 I0 N! ~
其實早幾次都有試過係咁+ K, P7 Z0 d! u  G3 n  Q, W  t- {* @
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
- e  @7 ]' E2 _* o8 e  {/ I用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?" ?) g5 S3 F  R

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
) O; U9 o) X5 N7 j8 b唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
3 [3 E$ |  K- q+ M3 w% @! M有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
+ p7 h) Y' @# l' S$ Qb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
1 x9 B. f8 a  u2 T+ u( H5 v# e5 ~0 Zc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:
* l, w! U" P- uLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
3 m. B" K4 U, tBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
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就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
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空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉0 K' q6 a7 f/ W" U
很少會超過一天～
' I3 V' [7 Z1 e' ?4 o( y要期待更好的明天呀！