熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?' w. q. w, v/ i3 U5 C3 M
好唔鍾意呢種感覺) d9 J9 O  H* S) u+ l
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
5 {4 }4 R5 r  @& X個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣* d# a, X7 g0 }* ~, N  J
覺得好空虛
" _+ A, X+ `' \- g% o& M$ r其實早幾次都有試過係咁
7 x, e8 v- X- ?卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
  F8 a% a- Z, b$ M4 R- B# _$ P用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?0 {7 {# @! J6 x2 ]) e2 T5 k: x7 J
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既," \: O0 C3 {5 X' G
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺9 |. ~6 d9 b" d1 ^8 t& ^9 u4 O9 j
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,. N, k8 }* q) ~$ E! s* N, Y3 }
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,- @/ g, y0 L6 }5 W4 `
日日有車站,
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taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
3 W8 J7 Q- C0 i4 d你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:0 ^* v' ^8 |& l; `" }0 \
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
* C" _0 n5 \9 }! N* I4 Y* b0 |感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
* L: _; \- F9 y8 i玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
& I" b  B9 M" U3 o, w總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:  l- D0 K2 @# b/ x& `
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,$ h- H1 Y6 ~7 A0 r, T% [" \
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
" L7 `+ y% ?9 `- h日日有車站,+ x* P/ u4 I9 C* Y
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
. s, y- R& G/ z如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
( A* ~: M* r# p: ]) P7 ~好唔鍾意呢種感覺; H8 Z1 r* [+ p/ i1 `
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
6 D% z. I7 d( G* [個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣2 K$ X8 e& z5 k7 E
覺得好空虛# |+ W+ Y$ D7 t: o6 C! ]) @8 z6 q
其實早幾次都有試過係咁/ A. Z/ k; I. X" @7 b8 O" R
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
% p) ^$ ~# ]3 m0 }$ Y; {用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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; L$ l9 K# t! t+ `+ t, ]7 P這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.' D, T. |, W$ M) M; ]
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足./ w: U6 x$ G# C4 G2 x' C4 M/ a
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.9 j5 v' o1 e6 w7 |. H1 C2 ]

4 _) r9 S- f+ G& p# p- U2 y- L+ LPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
( j9 d  t# `0 x! z$ R7 B: na) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long- s# _6 B: i8 V, ^# X
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
) [5 a$ x% j8 F* b8 T; l) h. Hc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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1 x6 C9 \/ h. k: `# F' BJust another thought on lonliness:; i6 G9 F4 m% r+ P. Y; F
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
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遊戲

真的啦～
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就好似睇完一套好睇的電影1 @/ V0 j, H' u/ v, V/ q1 H; Y/ E
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
) N+ \2 D# |/ }空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
0 P' V6 e) k( q2 H( w  {很少會超過一天～
5 h% w) x+ W/ L' Y# J4 B8 B要期待更好的明天呀！