熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
0 i+ B' q8 D! y2 g1 d1 t3 i. ^好唔鍾意呢種感覺+ t3 L* [3 @/ u! d. H
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
6 ?" N1 F+ C$ M0 \/ ~2 U3 o0 L0 U個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
6 Q" u( c: t% [6 ~" U1 u覺得好空虛' e8 U1 B0 ?" `2 h" o0 j; R
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
: y! w' `; J" {7 s4 z1 P5 h  ^7 r卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
* `/ u8 A1 p  F3 m用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?: j# e( O; k8 R# W- x! p

2 D& A6 u- d6 h4 p8 H# v[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,: F3 D  w% U/ P: ^# _! q8 j  c
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
8 a$ N  r1 t, Z6 S* [熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
+ w& |; M) E7 a( ]5 J所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,4 g6 U3 l3 \6 y$ R
日日有車站,
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taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙  l" t$ ~5 `6 ]& t* C5 \- a- d
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
9 S# g$ [% T0 G/ z0 W8 ^如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
9 t5 j: C, ~/ F3 [2 S  G感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
) e# M* O; G8 A0 ~玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
6 P! j# ^6 [2 N8 M0 \0 V總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
( I' x- ?. P% g其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
, O) D% d- ^$ r& p7 i; ^0 i所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,5 c% Z; I5 r5 \2 H* G4 Q" Z& e
日日有車站," D& }) [; h, C. P8 o& m
有目標!

- |! K" X9 t- a! C7 Twhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
  I: B' P) `9 V& B& \如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
. b- y, b8 I, e/ ~0 D4 }好唔鍾意呢種感覺0 k0 E* |* @  m& B
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心0 j- d: R! Y' T6 Y& Y, X
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣0 z( c+ o+ t4 U# W) d+ |7 v
覺得好空虛' {, z9 g' J! V0 F, ^5 C/ g* w9 @8 u
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
1 Y8 C6 j7 ^: c, j; n, l6 A0 X( |卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
  h% e3 |6 ~; Q  [$ Z用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?" N" @8 i$ i# c: L) R* p" K

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
1 X+ Z( e( B6 S% \唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
3 [( q" g/ M- I+ N有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.# C+ F' Y3 r# c, k& i8 Y
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
  n& C/ H" f6 ^6 y+ b* ]a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
2 S# e; v3 c2 M4 Z$ l  y: Zb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
+ a; @$ `4 R& [! F( Bc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.6 v. @) o9 h* M' g  L4 i

- Y; W" ~3 E9 F( LJust another thought on lonliness:: N+ L! i+ t1 P4 Z& x
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....1 ?4 d8 _9 p2 t" v% D
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～. j! ~/ Y& S0 l( i3 q8 H- T
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
/ R5 B9 s$ e, B9 _/ d就好似睇完一套好睇的電影6 s; L" W) h9 B- U2 `
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～9 j4 n+ p9 ^; X  U2 T$ E, S
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
7 H. k0 _+ }/ `& l很少會超過一天～
4 i/ @. u% d. B# H: Y, l要期待更好的明天呀！