熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?8 y0 O& t# M9 E1 u9 E
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
, p& `; G  ]* c  C: B琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
' n7 p! O- f( ~9 ~. s* H/ Y個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
4 I7 d3 J5 F$ f6 u覺得好空虛7 u- f+ ?2 I4 z
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
4 |& Q# z  b+ u7 M卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己& G: m+ o( j4 r3 |  u) k8 i) u
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
: {1 U3 n: B* ~6 X, w但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
3 O% u3 I% @: r* @熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
5 f5 A, W* _! y, F所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
" A  Z2 e3 y, n3 T8 ?日日有車站,) v; S8 f) p$ O  l+ X' x6 K
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
6 Y- E5 B- h- \1 w  X: h- ?9 Q3 o你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
3 L) }- k) K: J+ t1 O" t% v1 m如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

5 B0 W* c$ _6 W2 e5 J* B8 C9 v我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.  J! d5 k2 H) A! v" F3 i- y. J
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞.., F* G; A# F7 D: J
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
4 T+ m! A1 K& C0 M) a7 n總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
7 Q1 F$ u% ^: B. k/ V6 [9 D3 N其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,7 X9 b, s7 q  L' Z; }4 S; G
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,. R" \5 m& L, y! l
日日有車站,
: t6 D! L& b  O- o9 }有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:/ s, n: R9 l6 q% |  ]$ V( ?2 {
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
8 l( z' r: P* Y好唔鍾意呢種感覺) w* t1 N# g$ e) V/ C1 Q/ m
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
4 Y. l& t! O/ b個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
7 q' x1 ]- U1 E1 K覺得好空虛  T+ N+ p: H% R' v+ B
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
' s; e. ?  f# P$ @5 f0 c+ ~2 X卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己% [5 |+ Q$ d. ?1 {6 p6 @
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
# F- j. ?7 T% o) M唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.9 ?& S2 G0 H1 ~. R+ E
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.$ ?& v5 F) Q; I! C; N- `1 [. [

2 c) r/ i3 W2 Y9 b1 C* vPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
5 h* l5 D/ m5 t& J8 |) d. X7 E6 aa) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long$ s: I6 Y7 h, u* b& ]
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
" K* q1 e+ [/ m+ g5 M: Sc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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5 E7 r6 d2 _( ~! D! U" M* I6 oJust another thought on lonliness:3 ^4 \: f. ?% b3 R, N4 T
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
8 x" V! d( q. U1 |; GBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
3 C" K  W1 ~& ^+ Z我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
& C9 _4 P* e0 v7 @就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
, W# p& M% s( C3 n- X* [或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
0 v0 g& [! Z8 r4 {  R空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
: k2 f/ {( p4 W* i$ u9 G& G很少會超過一天～
4 l$ e5 b& \! F8 K- O  U" r1 V' J# Z要期待更好的明天呀！