熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
& b7 T, K6 F& Q好唔鍾意呢種感覺' R& \2 a- s. b, m/ u4 k- j; F
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心4 P; G" j! ~$ d7 |
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
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& F7 S6 q% q, s* }其實早幾次都有試過係咁$ v! ~* G, u4 p, R
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
4 W( F7 G" u6 e用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
8 T$ J+ H- R( x. F/ R5 o但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
/ u' S& B0 h) A9 {) y& ]& O* I+ ^熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻," U* W: r1 P, H0 P, }
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
8 \' h" H& |- w4 l. D; Y# |日日有車站,
: q; e( V# B* R9 l# ~  A6 u有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
3 y: L9 ~/ v/ ^" O3 k, o4 h你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
( I6 [' ]3 V& h7 O如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
1 `' o/ O: G( p/ o感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
, ?7 ~. H! u( d& ~玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
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本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
* i5 p5 d5 h0 _其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
4 W# G) F2 ~' {; m+ m) U' `+ N所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
7 R7 S0 q6 G; C+ R; j/ u. ?/ F日日有車站,7 @2 K! w; p' r
有目標!

3 P. ?; @/ D& c5 M  c: _( ?* pwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:/ ~, b9 H9 V7 |
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
" K! e3 z0 @# F' q好唔鍾意呢種感覺! z( b4 ?) r+ \0 ?  T+ b9 H
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心5 V% e+ @( G8 S5 W$ m; `
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
, p1 g+ t9 Q) f; o覺得好空虛% q- U) o5 ~5 E5 k' O5 p5 A2 g
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
% z6 k# `+ j+ Z) u; U卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己* u2 N3 k) k$ a2 {6 R( R
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.( E, R/ p% m2 e( d" L
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
' D, {; N* C- J. `# s" j% R有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:9 h# ?. i8 ]2 z: o$ U8 W# Q! e
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long& P* W" _2 z. A2 e
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
( F' G, g7 a( vc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.# p5 t8 Z3 t! |9 S0 V
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Just another thought on lonliness:
# U) d5 z1 Y4 `4 _- I, ]Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
, y; y7 X' F/ E, H- k8 fBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～& V3 e( q6 m4 M9 M8 A8 R
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺$ e: f5 B# Q, @9 M3 O
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
5 V6 W" d$ q' L( q4 W7 `或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～/ l5 q& I( z  w! u0 t2 m# K  j
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
+ R, s1 n7 F! w6 R很少會超過一天～
" U8 w" U: l) P3 s要期待更好的明天呀！