熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?% t1 M, C6 C7 O
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
" K. s# K9 p! Q1 q) u琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
& I( a, r# W. S4 G# u' k; i% S個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣$ _$ ~& {& n8 v- C. }# g# @1 n
覺得好空虛# ?  m+ t- i6 g* n* {0 v' \
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
' j$ N0 ~3 x: @6 V% q0 s卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
6 G0 W4 C5 c* z, r6 K2 {用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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; e) J5 e2 j' @: f[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,. C( a" F) [- g( O* W& |; O' I
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺# [  T( q' i! Y. p& a5 I
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,' S! _+ V$ s8 r+ B9 i" o7 ]
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
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taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
4 H+ Z& c  P' ~你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:( ?+ F2 i5 Z. d6 h& `
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

8 T# L* m  d5 b5 z- w, W我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.4 f5 J) [, R; m  {. S- w  P3 I
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..$ H5 M! z1 e1 M: t, U9 m3 C0 N
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.7 K% [! r) P; S: L6 Y
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:. l4 [+ C/ J1 j+ _3 U) u
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
- B# V2 e8 Y8 x所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
3 I3 H" T3 G' K) @4 Y日日有車站,
  ?  e3 b+ A3 S1 @' l  {, X有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
; D0 L' ~& u+ r4 ^8 I: W如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
! `( C& O1 t+ ^3 [5 F) s好唔鍾意呢種感覺: Z8 Z" |1 I& E6 o- D* K
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
. x6 h+ j) }2 B個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣$ x" H3 S& a: C
覺得好空虛
- l0 D+ _; N/ o' g7 ~其實早幾次都有試過係咁
  S# t2 ]) H& O* c$ h  U" v卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
* H" `9 p5 ^; |8 D2 a用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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8 c* z* H+ [/ |) T) |這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.( `. E$ A% N4 f! _  R  t( {( V
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
$ e) ?: q( ^* h" x' t有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.# q* _* M! p% ~0 U2 a, A. o

" W. g) C+ s# ^People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
0 C+ ^  \' i* ~a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
2 p) b$ h* p: i+ Y% ?b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.$ |( Y. Y( l- a+ K. V  B$ s+ w
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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" r5 _) G/ ?+ A! V# L2 R% J9 AJust another thought on lonliness:
; q5 d+ ]2 n5 I! j' r( ^# A1 ~- ]Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....- W* V  b  F: P5 e7 @
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～5 Q) E7 ]( D  Y  [  [; m
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
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或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
6 x; _. G  A- t# e空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
+ A0 T, f/ d- e# D很少會超過一天～
6 ?/ X" [; @- u/ [8 P$ h要期待更好的明天呀！