熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?# Q4 U  w' c1 ~. q
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
6 ?3 S: s# y" i( {+ T琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
5 O9 e. w/ C/ Y8 P+ p; M2 U個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
8 a) |( V7 R+ K/ `2 P9 C8 z覺得好空虛4 o) {' X& a, K* E- D% s
其實早幾次都有試過係咁8 D2 ?" E+ f: }; s6 g/ T0 r
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己- p5 e& X; t+ |
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?7 u/ M" }6 o5 B0 K/ \7 K# ~) K; ^

; n# a4 x' d2 `( ]' M0 P; O4 U0 W) G[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,& W+ h& [: s% Z7 J
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺- U% Y$ i% K5 w0 J) c
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,: h" A' B5 F0 c6 ?" B! ]
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,  b& t' o: }9 `4 B4 g* N; D7 i
日日有車站,
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taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙# T- S+ T! e: N3 L, @
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:+ J- z+ Q$ h4 t
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.& |6 J+ }! K% f0 z0 ?
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
( v/ o  j& a. Z1 n- ?9 J玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.; l! n5 M; Q; w% d2 {, q+ p
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
3 `. X( u( b) x) r其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,8 U: c7 T3 ^$ i
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,* X! a# Y! I5 E" V9 I  Y
日日有車站,$ v+ g, P4 l$ h1 Z+ u
有目標!

# i* V) M- J0 O9 mwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
0 V7 a; j3 o! V如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
/ z# N; k: q7 e3 @好唔鍾意呢種感覺' V% O9 L  R9 C# {) Y! S; H
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心3 x8 e4 L1 H/ D+ g& _
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
7 O' o& b4 d+ Z. C# T* B覺得好空虛4 a$ B# Q- j$ n  N0 t# Q
其實早幾次都有試過係咁  j; G1 R) G$ c6 F
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己6 n& j6 }  d- _
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.4 g5 b7 l; M& Q) E# j2 ^3 O
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.6 h/ ]" C- y) U; \1 k
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.# S8 |, a$ V7 _& t1 k

; ^. {$ v) x, j) H+ z3 N* rPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
# j5 P: T2 ]& c6 f" Na) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long: E  A) ~. K) _. D$ i  ~/ Z$ E
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.# v; B! Q, E( ^; x2 Q, w- y4 e
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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" t# E# E/ }1 L: B: aJust another thought on lonliness:% i8 f5 d4 m3 _* g( a+ X
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....- t4 V! P8 p- l2 `9 B) j
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～4 I5 W" Y0 Q7 q$ r2 C
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺  N4 ?$ W0 u' T: l6 o+ ]6 o7 i6 |
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
* u+ g. [( c2 e" }8 |4 J. }2 q或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～% k: \- y8 m1 V5 |8 ~
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
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5 s! E7 s7 `8 J+ D6 w& y要期待更好的明天呀！