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發表於 2005-4-27 02:01 PM
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in fact, under this situation, we really would not be so intellective sometimes, that means we will solve it in a little bit "9" way
* O' L- L" w$ Y- L$ z" Q5 rconsider in the following (not in order):
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1st, how close the relationship we are?1 {" Y$ D' v; ~& u! l+ D
2nd, how serious he/she has done?+ _( c2 x( s5 w, c) K* d" K
3rd, would it affect other seriouly after i help/not help him?/ F; @8 P8 t. S l
4th, even worst problem he/she has made, why he/she did it? any good excuse?1 A0 _/ [/ q: m! K
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for me:
) _9 W) O1 x& B. l6 E5 [i may ask my "good heart" first, that means i may 大義滅親 if they have done a serious problem, just like murder because this is gd way for they to self-questioning and searching, also this is a 交代 to the victim.
$ ^; o" h( N) X% U: T# H# J3 h4 Vbut if they have a very good excuse, just like self protection, then i may advice them to surrender, because their crime can be understood under Law (just like HK this kind of place with gd law situation)2 K; i' a- d$ J3 S
but for some situations just like murder in China, smuggle of drugs in thai land, than they must die, then i may help them to cop, but sure they should have a very good excus for me to help !!!5 l1 L# q# m8 M+ [! {
4 E& X; [! V. A% zbut whatever, i think we should put our 良心 first b4 doing anything and need to 將心比己!!! |
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