熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?' p2 f$ I( Q5 G% ]9 q3 z9 q/ C0 d
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
( R" S9 @7 W1 g$ O4 L8 A琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心! I) o' d" w) G9 g: g+ \) F
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
5 b! ^1 ~- ~2 }覺得好空虛
6 R0 e) |, ^- D3 H4 o, t8 r1 {" l其實早幾次都有試過係咁
: i2 M: q- |8 M# ]. l$ K卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己$ g. y5 J4 L- W0 F) a% f) `
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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6 I0 y* n& q- w& n+ \[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
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熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
$ s: L% O" z% O" u2 p9 T所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
3 Z1 v  w4 F) [6 l" Y6 h; w日日有車站,
  N) i" V6 a/ D: m! E8 I# [6 H有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙# V+ y" y* I8 P) m0 f2 c
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:" f. a/ S$ x3 f2 c7 y
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.1 Y* C% Z! E0 {, m, H: Z
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..3 I8 R' y; E; }0 z. V
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.% L0 n1 ~8 j  m+ {/ Y
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
  X  k' D# v- [其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,9 K% u6 D; _! m# D4 ?4 B, G/ Y/ r7 Q
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,. \3 E; F3 ?! ^9 Q$ P" U# q! v
日日有車站,  H0 L  U, _5 W; {! u) R
有目標!

! g3 v1 w$ l1 \7 i1 S& @what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:; Z) X+ r% M9 v- l7 Z; U
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?4 _* r  w' h5 Y3 v
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
( e5 H( E- v" b% _3 _, h& u( H8 O' l琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
. _, [, a4 k" n8 P) b1 \個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣3 Y; j( U4 X' @. O9 M0 b; R/ r2 d
覺得好空虛& M$ @1 w4 w# U1 n) c/ {% M9 w' I
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
  c3 c2 n+ F" Q1 Z/ L# Y! W+ U6 C6 {卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己. C2 e9 i$ e" k  i% M; ~
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
9 \1 D4 Q8 F5 Z# x* d唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.3 q3 P$ B; s6 P# H0 ?1 U1 d* L
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.% d# `, d1 R5 D! S
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
% N5 E. O1 s) l/ `6 Fa) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
+ }! z( }3 S9 y$ c$ F( A7 rb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
/ h+ B8 l; r0 j' K0 f: Bc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:0 Z& g, s2 |" ?" ^, C6 F+ g: I- z* c
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....8 e' v1 y" m$ s$ c$ |4 g, g  G0 j+ w
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
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就好似睇完一套好睇的電影+ x. b! m9 G0 E7 `- ~
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～+ g, j5 h! X' m0 |: R
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉+ v' H: n  |0 U7 B5 ]) b3 L7 J
很少會超過一天～
% m6 h9 K- i5 @, X9 H- F( s) }, g要期待更好的明天呀！