熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?8 m( k$ A; U1 b3 j7 o7 P4 m9 A
好唔鍾意呢種感覺6 M) S; x/ h" v5 ~
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
7 `: Y% n( r6 z個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣" S* }: A# c% _5 d$ L6 t. z
覺得好空虛
, Y) U! B. U$ Z' ?5 q1 i其實早幾次都有試過係咁4 X# n; H! \0 w2 D
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己4 ~3 I9 R) W! l- Y
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?; p9 i2 J& y" @' e( D8 ?; U! |

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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,5 ?4 T" W5 Q% T/ O+ ^$ k* T6 L
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺& _9 K9 B+ F7 P. t, [. b0 `2 Q! n
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,: q# ]: p4 C& ?# k
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,2 V  L) y" h* H; E3 [
日日有車站,
$ \& {" z! p( o* n7 z* n有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙8 P; c$ ^2 ~5 |4 _7 e2 ~
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:9 m6 P/ w% ]5 x1 y/ K" J
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

3 N) x0 c+ O+ q, X我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.; {4 p1 I4 q7 u) c7 v: K# z
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..% z# q0 ?9 `2 x- g* w( @6 v- V
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.' m! v. l* B1 v4 U( e7 B
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:3 U* a: o% p, Q; O4 C$ ]
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,7 t' T- l* ~% `" ]: O% B
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
+ j; N( e$ h9 f2 k' y日日有車站,
+ p3 c# ]2 x$ J# @有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:' e: u3 C! K; {4 u
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
' M7 \  @; Y9 S! Q" ?0 f" A& w9 E% K好唔鍾意呢種感覺6 E; A( c) @4 S. L" U( b3 \1 G
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心- V6 D) H- v: r# S# u5 _) u# I
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣- C3 M2 `5 ^) u7 P% Q  Y1 W
覺得好空虛0 U+ N8 t! T& d3 M' ~5 I
其實早幾次都有試過係咁6 n$ o7 i! ~; f& Y
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己' a' f, m* @5 J4 K- w' e3 x. F
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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( P& n* J( n8 D' Z  I3 B) g這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
- m; A3 ?- Q5 Y+ g  |唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
3 m+ T# P, ]) X9 A$ d有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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1 ^7 @) F( J7 f+ gPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
) @9 D; u7 q6 \) y* ga) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long1 p0 |/ m8 v6 [0 j% c$ r
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.  y: C, v2 S! d3 x
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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) w7 s% w: y! R/ \/ @Just another thought on lonliness:- k) i3 E0 @% a
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
2 I8 x- c0 j: u2 N$ N# U$ f/ fBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～6 B6 D+ r1 k# Z4 ?& U+ b: h
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺1 ?: B$ b' z! e3 x' z% J8 P& R
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
! O* ?* D! @/ B, e. Z或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～- a  C) ]2 Q0 T+ w2 s, \4 w/ ~% m( i
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉7 y' z' O' r' d
很少會超過一天～" y3 j- Y, z( q- D7 s0 [( o7 t/ X
要期待更好的明天呀！