熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?- h+ H; v  L/ |$ V
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
/ ~. _6 w* h) x% C# Y$ N琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
3 ^8 {$ c$ C  {5 |3 u個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
& g. c" C# `: t0 r覺得好空虛0 V  X4 Z* S* o4 `
其實早幾次都有試過係咁0 k# t& U$ [7 A- _4 m$ r! W2 J! L
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
% \9 u* o- _, n' S用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?2 y5 V* A3 N3 z3 w! \% O6 E5 n
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
7 ]/ d& N# }; k但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
7 a6 P8 e, Z2 U1 I  i+ C, Z熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,8 {' t. l* q2 X4 H
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,  A% T2 t0 K( J+ f2 b
日日有車站,
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taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙- {" |8 g2 b) L; ~+ G* W  l
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:" s2 C7 a# P8 |& {% [% ]4 ^2 J0 B
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

% U( {1 @5 [' x$ @4 h8 u" J) y" Z6 Y我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.8 Z0 p- M0 _# q7 }  h! V2 I/ b
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
) k% Q1 K: R' X玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
. H8 A# m% n" u總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
3 x6 k- T  V- a6 t其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,+ y( S( c" L4 A. o4 ?
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
  e1 i: D, X3 ]+ m- _) J) G4 r日日有車站,5 @! w0 s- J( l6 x: e7 d
有目標!

  M: Z' h& r7 E! ^/ F) T9 y; cwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:8 D5 ~! f1 O4 G8 Z, {- v( r8 P0 X
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
( [. @, m: w  \+ t2 D$ ^* n' ~好唔鍾意呢種感覺) w$ D- }8 \9 B: _5 U- Z9 x
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
* E' s! i4 _$ Q: H個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣' I3 A* Z! \/ h/ Y" o" l
覺得好空虛1 @) ~7 N+ W+ d' |
其實早幾次都有試過係咁) R) {: F; x" }+ L( F+ m
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己" o. Q& J) Y1 c; u' k
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?+ K4 X# z9 R9 ?1 T) H

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
! D# Y+ Z6 P1 a8 G" F- o唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.6 ~6 n* F: N; V9 G2 r' V4 y
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.) r, y  a) n; u

0 @) x+ g, U: B+ N! APeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
1 k0 u# `+ e! P1 B( e& V* Ha) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
& Q7 {# _. D6 R8 Bb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
+ G; G. T1 S5 h7 I4 [c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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) y$ K6 i7 i  n: U% UJust another thought on lonliness:
9 m0 `# O" x0 k  w: U$ z7 @" I+ TLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
  K& o" X. d. DBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～0 n0 X( o. n1 R3 ^, ~* m
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺, X: @( v% Y: H, |! ~( G1 X4 l- l$ \
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
- y) w+ |  m: b& z9 I/ y, k5 I# F或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
  T+ J  f, w1 @空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉3 U" l" y: P% j5 W7 U# k' C
很少會超過一天～6 S3 c% g- f; A5 M9 Q
要期待更好的明天呀！