熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?' x  Z1 R+ h2 A* D
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
1 x  }, ^1 k  c琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心0 V4 s; I4 s  s/ W# }, l7 Y  F
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
8 ]1 W& V8 f4 ^: R/ q) c覺得好空虛
5 X! K4 t' u+ X, i, X* q其實早幾次都有試過係咁& C( u- g" F1 R
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
) }; d/ \, I/ a& Z7 i用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,3 ^5 L8 M0 S$ h
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
: v$ O) z& g& G! O熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,) V' D: p4 S; ~: y6 n$ r9 E' n  Z
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
; t( Y! |) T6 a6 a9 D4 ?日日有車站,
8 Y1 ?  Z, |6 P5 I有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
5 Q  d. p0 I# s" ^3 x你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
, d2 D0 [1 U6 e0 J' T8 U如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
, B+ m6 r' w) H感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..1 `, \# ?! \' j
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
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本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
  M0 C0 x% k, B$ @. n+ g8 F其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
9 N6 U( S3 }+ |/ M! k4 I所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
# q% L7 H# @. F5 O8 M9 s& e日日有車站,; G2 u3 S/ p: ]$ f) K' ^
有目標!

# W# O( c# `( F1 dwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:+ @* ^% y3 @& A5 }7 R, G' k% v
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?) e# a$ V' R* ?
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
5 n8 K$ G, U, _& h' F琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心1 l4 a. B! f4 r8 C7 g+ v6 r/ N
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
5 s& C* }& E. O3 x; w4 C3 x9 }覺得好空虛6 g/ i8 }! D" r8 ?- W
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
6 K3 D/ z+ \( l- ]+ g( i卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己0 S% N$ |3 ^. E4 m: k" \* y
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?' h* f  {$ B# x2 f1 Z$ p5 l

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9 g) C" y8 }/ l' h7 Q) g這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
5 S& Y8 S  {6 }. W/ f% z4 m3 b唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
0 H3 L* q3 u6 N3 C有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long  a2 N1 C3 F( e4 i
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
- v3 ^, B  S. Q! R% C3 V/ L1 Yc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.# M# g: @, ?" ?' w; u' t
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Just another thought on lonliness:
% c( M3 K4 ^+ L+ K. g2 X2 d9 p  ELonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
1 l- Z2 m$ A8 vBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～4 p* J6 c3 f  t, c3 h6 e0 }% w
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺" i* A* r( y* j4 G. k4 N& t+ V. o8 }
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
6 `( r* L  C* R9 E3 ?/ t! f0 A或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～+ J. s% H1 j3 S! s
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
# G8 `( l: ?. g# }4 L' T/ d很少會超過一天～0 j# H2 b/ C/ u' K5 h# T1 z
要期待更好的明天呀！