熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?# g7 y! T$ ?* P' u! i/ g. j8 F
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
3 p" r% F  D5 B% v* Q* x" c% Y琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心( }& y3 I# O4 n0 l+ W/ h1 J% k* C
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
0 Q' ^) I. k9 I覺得好空虛
( i6 R, s6 e- `& Y! n其實早幾次都有試過係咁
, U1 y$ W5 o# A8 F  @卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
- E* K3 Q0 s: x. w2 q: K% c. D用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,+ ?4 C  Q5 N8 P: W! ]( Z3 _
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
0 j+ C3 Q+ j3 ~8 r( c( s熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,2 {6 ]9 W9 M" q, Q
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
% S9 j1 j6 N3 R' g% s# C5 u日日有車站,! P* E# J; B" n' x1 A
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
- j% U- Z& K1 y你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
; I3 \9 J) v" d7 D. }3 ^7 x# k  }如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
  G; @( ?! r4 i感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
0 f  I9 w* _, A2 S玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
( X0 m1 v& X( y, q  H總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
* ^6 ?7 S1 e$ M% Z) w$ [+ P4 B其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
, A; e* u5 j& E0 y- L1 ]4 F; }所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
1 v8 y' F1 j# ^3 s8 d; ]日日有車站,$ H  ?5 r6 q) e6 ?5 L5 g* Q% y
有目標!

' ]% \+ r8 s* mwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:# C5 ~/ L' e: U* B: Y) l) N
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
- Q- g1 }8 e% Q好唔鍾意呢種感覺8 h6 V* C; _1 I2 f. Y3 V& W
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
% P& X% ]" f7 C: l, v個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
: n& u1 h' M8 M覺得好空虛" v* a' a# i4 n! @' m+ A
其實早幾次都有試過係咁: l% }& t/ ~) w8 ~7 F# r4 m
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
8 S4 z4 z% x2 i% Z$ U) `# q" n* g用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?! q- ]. u- A" W" L# X: G

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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
% G7 t" s, K7 h/ u唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
& `; `  |3 E' k有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own., n  l+ G2 ^8 u( X
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
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b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
9 }, X; j, d2 ~, ?c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.3 c9 b- s( j* P" D9 s: f! @2 t

' f/ |: c+ T/ o) D: M% aJust another thought on lonliness:( x9 ~; b. _: U% {- U, U4 k
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
' u' t# m/ J2 l/ c5 @9 d4 ?6 g% y  sBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
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就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
% t* ^" b% q8 X; f或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～3 _- S4 X& B: C; p' n; ~
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
3 W2 I) u. X) _很少會超過一天～
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