熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
' c! d/ l7 u8 k好唔鍾意呢種感覺
' l  T& ?. a. u2 ]琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
) v1 E/ b. o, V. ]個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
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" t/ Y, q2 i9 ~& ]  l其實早幾次都有試過係咁8 O+ v6 P7 U  M9 A# G
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己# {# A8 }( d0 E2 Z
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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2 B9 }2 l- F, o, p  C- l[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,# v6 ^( v- N' |! x7 F5 l
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺8 [' _) E& X9 a
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,! G( f* `9 @9 p( ?* `
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,' O. O# U) i  `3 a$ p$ l% h
日日有車站,' R5 B6 r% D7 I% \3 i' j
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙# p6 k% t- h6 D, t
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:6 P- |$ v0 T9 F* X; |4 o* s4 S3 k
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

0 v: Y/ N9 I) z" v我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.% b9 [; S( w& `
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..! w7 A$ ^; v4 i1 a& I
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
0 z: k& [$ e  U: Z" c總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:+ q" i4 A% r, l7 W( k
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,+ n  L6 ~  v" x
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,0 C) z) R8 v  j" {
日日有車站,, C. w4 ?5 k, h: Z) s
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
  R. P7 g; p& Z3 r如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
0 c! T) o7 D, f; n! a0 Y( R2 s好唔鍾意呢種感覺
# |# a/ V! ~# {' [$ G0 B2 S琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心/ N4 e! N1 [, C) }' O
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
8 v2 Q6 l5 z% R& q* w  g覺得好空虛
! n4 F1 y- N$ D5 E, w/ k其實早幾次都有試過係咁
% H5 |, `6 h7 ]3 S% n卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
+ I0 d+ M4 P* a- l用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
0 s1 D# V6 x- N+ D( `唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
. B4 p  S4 g/ o- d有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.% H0 o# ?* z3 A$ T( b" d; x
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:  f1 A( X$ O3 Y+ l) C. X/ n
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
$ |! ~( y, b* e$ q6 L: e( bb) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.- y; H9 y; \3 ?" s
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.3 w- P" c& e+ X+ p

2 x8 ]) s; ^. Q1 B  \Just another thought on lonliness:8 v! T" [' r# x
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
8 ?9 I6 d0 m: `+ |) L# _# ~1 ABut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～3 i+ [: e+ T3 ?, {0 l2 ?
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
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# M. Q( v9 n: R8 x或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～( @& |8 Q& g1 B6 k+ S7 g: F
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
) @# v: d' G% d很少會超過一天～, d( `  U$ [3 G( y8 _; p
要期待更好的明天呀！