熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
& `! f9 C5 A5 O% S4 H" U好唔鍾意呢種感覺, Q6 x/ Y/ w2 A$ q) ?& d2 e* J
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
' L5 @6 H9 y7 V個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
# z% `. h; I/ [! Q  |1 P覺得好空虛
; J/ N3 z# z0 {/ R/ Q9 c$ M5 E其實早幾次都有試過係咁
# j$ i3 C4 @1 a, Z- A4 _卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
$ b4 t( \5 R( M! o用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?% f6 n8 ?* l# N
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
' }& |/ u& z0 U' p; x% f! ]+ T* {但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
* h7 D5 {1 R* \: @+ ^. D熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,( i  ~( J9 _! Q
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
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有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
8 r! \4 W6 S( d& r3 k; H& ~5 L+ u3 k你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
7 Q; j* C+ ^$ h! [如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.3 {6 W/ t& j& N' j3 n7 l. d
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..- y) ?; M) u8 w$ ]& t/ W
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.8 l! u" S8 U6 J  v6 s
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
# ]4 K0 x" Q( x& q  b2 h# q其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,9 \% F8 ~2 g+ z: L- G
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
8 O  m# O3 D( k, Z" l+ S日日有車站,
- ~8 X" M/ [5 f1 W- [( K有目標!

( k/ ~9 _- Z) U! I. J: P/ lwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:( w& Q# }; j6 J7 ^$ k; ?
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?3 \) l& r. F0 {7 E- W
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
; z$ C! W% e% K% _琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
7 |/ M, v) ~7 j3 c4 H! I個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
- [# c- v* L" L覺得好空虛# Q9 u" v2 ?1 }
其實早幾次都有試過係咁
; x: F- A6 }2 U# j) A7 H6 c卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己5 |% Q* P  P4 `' z  e2 B
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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' R* z3 S3 U, x7 U- P5 ^, G& T4 n7 L這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.2 }9 U7 z; }5 F- J4 F. K5 {
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
5 z2 U) U) i, U$ A, c) c/ l' ?有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.. Q: I& s/ @5 n4 e. K: D) q' q8 x
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:2 r% B) @$ S5 L0 Q. k1 a- y# n# X# o
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
6 d8 \5 M/ v7 ^* _  u1 ]0 ab) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.9 y6 ?/ O; Y6 B% v4 `* z
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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* Y. k& l, r3 y" fJust another thought on lonliness:
7 k* G' X- D( ELonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
$ r) h# C, b/ _' a2 pBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～) d% B4 V$ {! z& e3 d3 M; o# d
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺$ e9 u0 |4 w9 x* M$ A0 |
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
0 R7 d. v; d$ b2 W或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
& w2 I# i* M, i' _5 M1 f) F  h空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
, ]3 x" O7 U2 N1 a# C" }  f7 c很少會超過一天～
) ~4 K% b; }2 E6 |' t2 G要期待更好的明天呀！