熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?7 _& s, |$ V2 d6 R" a. ~4 t
好唔鍾意呢種感覺: W1 `9 {; c+ P& ~0 A% S
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
& U1 \: n0 ~6 ?1 z% @" s. D個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
) f; D7 j% `3 U& T覺得好空虛* S! D4 ~! x+ Q8 d2 B
其實早幾次都有試過係咁+ G, f6 O& u4 ]0 `
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己4 n* w( M3 D9 g- {- k3 X
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?3 O- C2 F, P, Z! F' q

0 H. L  D* [7 C& K( L+ `9 R[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,1 k4 L* n1 z1 V: g+ m3 k; q
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺) Z, M6 Y# z9 ]1 H$ o
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
1 D& a: C1 F8 `- d所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,) ]# f: |1 p5 E
日日有車站,! b% }+ {8 {+ U& V# {. b9 I( u# w
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
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markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
% h' m9 L, z5 [4 ]2 t如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

- G! N) F( }; q, _6 c, f我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.2 g6 r3 O1 `- o% l# I
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..1 f" q0 T+ d  d5 T' b* V& f
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.& R8 w" ~5 W- z7 d# G
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
6 Y/ F! Z+ u9 M$ {1 r其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,- S. P& }: v% I- ^9 Q1 Y0 t  `
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,) h" s3 J+ w: e% N. v( U; m2 A5 z7 J
日日有車站,% L) M) q2 w' z6 x" y$ x' C0 D
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:6 d+ k$ ]$ a8 Z1 a+ _& S
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
. \" B& |. A6 [- {好唔鍾意呢種感覺
- P% A/ e$ c+ L4 Q, M; b5 f琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
$ Z7 ^4 Q8 y- D: H: I5 K4 o4 _個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣6 O, r% Q- G+ F2 p/ S4 q; J
覺得好空虛' g1 p8 r9 c- c) F+ c/ D+ a6 k
其實早幾次都有試過係咁' \6 X. m3 d# O( h3 j4 W
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
7 P+ q" n/ B: h7 Z5 A/ a, U用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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' b' x& a3 [* G5 C' |9 K這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.
* Y& q# ?. J9 P) h唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.$ J9 ?! [( Z- Q4 M- I- x9 F' V* @
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.: T( n: t- Y" I+ T7 a. y
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:6 w1 g3 e' H5 X( v: `
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long3 a( W( b& \4 ~' x, a- g; A9 s7 @
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.( a7 G4 P9 n  B, @2 L7 ]$ ?. F
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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Just another thought on lonliness:/ ]1 R) `4 T! I4 b# \1 O% n
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
' F! R9 Y9 @# }- G! y. T2 Q0 I) V7 mBut i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～/ T' F# D' u, h
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺
6 a4 I# i& b' g) }1 e; j% R4 k0 j+ j就好似睇完一套好睇的電影& [/ e4 }7 n7 N
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
$ j; Z9 V' m+ W" c# |' s空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
5 g+ w2 p, d$ e, z/ F" n很少會超過一天～
. P2 q% C+ U' M* O/ s要期待更好的明天呀！