熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?1 M6 Q; S) j1 ]4 d6 w  ]
好唔鍾意呢種感覺6 }% r5 ^# U9 Y  U' z% H) B4 w
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
' P/ E% D- u9 ]9 R3 u6 T3 \% M0 w個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣! ?7 R9 X  y( F5 a6 P) @
覺得好空虛
* Q/ l; ]7 X, B/ f) a! T其實早幾次都有試過係咁
/ w9 b1 M$ n, p3 `- n" u卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
: F! f, V2 k. c  g' f用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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5 n3 k& ]* E* e$ F. z/ V9 N. g[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,6 [4 d2 j9 I9 |* ]* @/ z1 I8 u
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺* x: D6 Y3 K  y
熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
+ y% j; f+ S. G所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
1 s. p. \; {* g3 j1 j日日有車站,
9 ?4 s* B, o2 G. f4 u有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
* N' q7 {" j$ i( }1 O& D. G你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
$ s8 C# \" @, T* r$ t如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

1 h. w& g7 {' W我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
* J! c7 P' l$ q$ F感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
* p5 U- ]  d1 R+ Q) p玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
5 R5 A9 M* H3 _) w4 l* ~* f% S( Y$ z總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
  Q+ K/ V, [( j) H1 R6 u其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
9 \4 k* v) T1 p9 q* l! ^% a$ @所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,0 X: M2 X9 g& G
日日有車站,
: y7 d9 s7 j6 m8 w6 r  i6 W9 h) y有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:4 V# e2 r+ N( D! C0 x7 O. D
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
6 W; F# k' q) ?' C) w* G8 H$ F好唔鍾意呢種感覺
& c0 w* D1 o3 r8 R4 h! i* _7 ~: p琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
) D! U8 }  s: k2 e個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣7 y! B3 o( ~. d, v% |
覺得好空虛
- O% }) d* X% K8 I8 u0 l' U其實早幾次都有試過係咁7 o# p+ ], m5 r9 V
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
% e$ U3 ^5 J& R! k+ [用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.$ w: S# Y* |2 ?( G* e( x
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
. M' S7 x3 ?  K. u8 l有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.( K) L) x- J' v5 M! o/ v

, T; c  W* D3 _2 `7 [( X( w0 cPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
9 d' P, k# d! f9 n5 L( b3 @a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long$ l9 k5 g2 |  E$ X: ]" k
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
1 K+ ^0 j8 q7 V/ J5 N9 uc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.2 J  H+ l6 A7 U! f; p

- Z# X! x5 o' n/ [/ Z; JJust another thought on lonliness:. O  b% B! j- M- L& j+ Z% t3 `; t8 c
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time...../ v' y* v- j9 J0 o1 ?) C
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
7 f6 }/ z1 h  m& j我會有一種十分空虛的感覺. r9 [2 e+ p6 Y9 p( z
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
$ a) J% F0 [* ~或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～5 D% Z" U1 u% b, Q, ^  h
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉& W- C9 _* Y3 V! T# y
很少會超過一天～$ F0 j( l$ ^% f$ c
要期待更好的明天呀！