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2 }  H2 z! c# j# _假如仍不知悔改就要佢負上法律責任! x  q/ ^) F' G6 K2 p/ v* x) g
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jason williams

in fact, under this situation, we really would not be so intellective sometimes, that means we will solve it in a little bit "9" way3 }& c" t! F0 ~- Y1 Z
consider in the following (not in order):! @9 ]; d, ]$ F" V* u7 T2 h

) k5 k" l* q; ]+ N- ?7 |1st, how close the relationship we are?
) Q- S3 `( }8 `+ J2nd, how serious he/she has done?
% k! y& Z( `$ |9 ?% Z3rd, would it affect other seriouly after i help/not help him?! I/ K( @& K# H  w
4th, even worst problem he/she has made, why he/she did it? any good excuse?4 J) |$ T9 \- {: ?* Z9 ~; i7 ]

  e% ^8 I+ a% f! L7 d8 K7 b4 `! Qfor me:& K8 O) L8 r$ C$ k: M# w7 d
i may ask my "good heart" first, that means i may 大義滅親 if they have done a serious problem, just like murder because this is gd way for they to self-questioning and searching, also this is a 交代 to the victim.
/ _6 @- v- C& l! z. pbut if they have a very good excuse, just like self protection, then i may advice them to surrender, because their crime can be understood under Law (just like HK this kind of place with gd law situation)$ H+ i$ m+ a& D1 Q
but for some situations just like murder in China, smuggle of drugs in thai land, than they must die, then i may help them to cop, but sure they should have a very good excus for me to help !!!. }5 y4 g+ B' Z+ S
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but whatever, i think we should put our 良心 first b4 doing anything and need to 將心比己!!!

wer

小事會,大事不會.留案底或坐監對父子前途影響甚大,所以不告.小事就沒所謂,當買個教訓

aiqidejiao

父為子隱，子為父隱

老鬼X

觀點/角度 好難答

jennifer

不能比成我了，就事论事吧，因果关系，所谓大义灭亲，这个大义是指大局，大事，大众的利益来看。所以舍弃亲情，来用法律或善恶惩罚来对待亲人，第一个例子呢，我认做得对，这算是大义救亲吧，小偷小摸终会铸成大错，在大错之前，绳之亲子，算是救他，助他而已，谈不上灭，可能是父亲一片苦心。$ y# g( y  M1 D# R
第二个呢，是小义灭亲吧，这个小义是指怕连累自己，拖累家人，而举报，如仅仅为了减少对社会危险，那么方式不局限于报警这个极端手法。
3 g6 P$ z" R* l: D, S3 d; {人们总把大义与民簇与群体相联，一已私利算不上大义，这是个人观点，求分啊，分太少。

ricojohny

無論要滅邊個  Y' y# I8 j3 J- u( \
只要有數我都會滅