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jason williams

in fact, under this situation, we really would not be so intellective sometimes, that means we will solve it in a little bit "9" way
1 r: ]6 |) `' d2 X% fconsider in the following (not in order):
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. k+ e* w' o* ~3 y/ a1st, how close the relationship we are?: l) e' _, P' R5 L
2nd, how serious he/she has done?3 }2 }" I4 s* {5 o2 U% Y* w3 \
3rd, would it affect other seriouly after i help/not help him?
# u' o5 Z7 C# Y4th, even worst problem he/she has made, why he/she did it? any good excuse?
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; g2 f' V3 F* `( s9 }. Kfor me:) e, {  e$ x7 X$ Y& x2 @
i may ask my "good heart" first, that means i may 大義滅親 if they have done a serious problem, just like murder because this is gd way for they to self-questioning and searching, also this is a 交代 to the victim.
1 b. G, a1 ]9 ?( s! ?+ C. y. x3 N' s  O! Sbut if they have a very good excuse, just like self protection, then i may advice them to surrender, because their crime can be understood under Law (just like HK this kind of place with gd law situation)3 D6 W, L* ?; F0 U* Q- m
but for some situations just like murder in China, smuggle of drugs in thai land, than they must die, then i may help them to cop, but sure they should have a very good excus for me to help !!!, J1 z3 d, T6 o

8 Z/ b7 y5 T0 A  |$ j5 Q) {but whatever, i think we should put our 良心 first b4 doing anything and need to 將心比己!!!

wer

小事會,大事不會.留案底或坐監對父子前途影響甚大,所以不告.小事就沒所謂,當買個教訓

aiqidejiao

父為子隱，子為父隱

老鬼X

觀點/角度 好難答

jennifer

不能比成我了，就事论事吧，因果关系，所谓大义灭亲，这个大义是指大局，大事，大众的利益来看。所以舍弃亲情，来用法律或善恶惩罚来对待亲人，第一个例子呢，我认做得对，这算是大义救亲吧，小偷小摸终会铸成大错，在大错之前，绳之亲子，算是救他，助他而已，谈不上灭，可能是父亲一片苦心。
+ E( l; u3 X8 S第二个呢，是小义灭亲吧，这个小义是指怕连累自己，拖累家人，而举报，如仅仅为了减少对社会危险，那么方式不局限于报警这个极端手法。
/ _2 I. p9 S; y# s0 Y! P人们总把大义与民簇与群体相联，一已私利算不上大义，这是个人观点，求分啊，分太少。

ricojohny

無論要滅邊個
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