熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
- a/ W+ W# a  r6 Z. x3 l好唔鍾意呢種感覺8 H+ }( }8 p6 @
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
3 b+ L' R+ k  _個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
3 p3 u. ?) |1 [1 O' }' u覺得好空虛
$ s' [- v7 X7 H! |5 Q; Z. h其實早幾次都有試過係咁# w  B9 T6 A" Y
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
5 T- d% n) P4 Y; t* ?/ V4 T2 Q用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?1 k  i( o3 }+ u: s. ]+ k/ O. H/ M" Y
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
( U& H4 s$ W& F但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
3 P& j0 e6 A) H) @" i, V* m! Z熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
# {6 `3 W8 S! l6 z0 J3 Z6 E所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,5 x, Y9 b" {* J. d$ a+ K! l( m
日日有車站,
/ \/ c( h0 J7 t! B0 p; t有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
, h0 N% o- @8 a3 p/ ]* K你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:; O$ Y6 C: \! V3 {
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
- G4 d& b' a4 \  N5 B感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..
- A- w0 W0 j7 Z1 ]7 ?$ Y玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
: U) H: ?& V2 L% v總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
5 A; E. f5 _& B9 a+ z) X6 \1 m其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
) a# s6 h( D! r+ N1 n所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
3 V8 |7 N1 i* M$ k! [) x日日有車站,% i5 Y+ [7 H5 k, Q
有目標!

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what does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:' J; X3 ]" z$ e. I
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?6 V; x* `! x6 R4 x
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
8 w, ]; e- V: \0 f: T. B( P- g" p* I& `琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
) `! V9 P5 }# H$ w個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
+ V. q9 X- L6 P0 I+ x) D覺得好空虛- q' H3 t6 j! B# b
其實早幾次都有試過係咁0 p) }7 \+ F; G3 S* B9 z" |
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
1 B/ V6 z" |. C用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.4 j7 N( S. h  r/ ~2 J
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.9 v* M/ m. J. T4 n; X' ~
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.1 c0 O2 {; g" ^# y" u8 k' r# \) E

2 M. @/ V* y' q6 T8 [* M7 ePeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
4 n. t2 A% ?9 Z2 E1 [1 fa) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long+ B' E& `1 G) `7 L9 h
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
2 ]5 q0 _8 C, l; Z: L* @) l6 ^' Fc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.; A0 ?9 y' l* w5 M9 Y  [! x1 X
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Just another thought on lonliness:
) e  X. |7 l" u; y0 dLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....
2 O/ Z/ v( M! f, `# G6 |% I6 x4 q: ]But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～6 g- D' S/ F2 w. i1 o
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺9 L2 w  [2 ~& c; i- j& B4 J5 u7 ?
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影8 a' E  w/ T, G1 j. R" @
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～& J6 o* P! c, [) \& y" T; \/ M
空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
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要期待更好的明天呀！