熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
3 |+ j& W# D5 h好唔鍾意呢種感覺
4 `0 I% ?5 ?, e( W5 |: w, N8 h7 g$ \琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
; n) A# r; Z) T* i: h4 w個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣% k2 Y4 f& ?) l: i
覺得好空虛
; A8 r+ x4 x+ F- m/ w* f% g* M: s3 f其實早幾次都有試過係咁
, _+ x5 w0 F( E: c8 r7 ~  w. O卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己6 y( V, b- r2 U4 g# W! K
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?, [. c1 r- e2 G7 Q, w( v6 ~

2 i+ i) R, w/ r, E$ m[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
( m& W# J6 H+ g6 d1 o/ B* X. H* f但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
3 Z& C/ ?1 P% I# z2 h/ C) u熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,, D- ]. n: V$ Q' k6 N: m
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
( X3 v  ^1 s1 H  r+ P日日有車站,
$ u) S& `' }! W4 u5 h* c6 A有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
* U. b  f9 w0 I& g# R. L( l1 y你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:4 E4 [5 ]3 _5 f; K% N5 {# Y
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

+ m- H( M7 }' F7 r! n3 Q: [我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.+ q% L6 q2 I; J
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..; |( d7 D) ?6 w0 K
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
1 ?/ T# i2 \! ^總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:
2 l3 S0 H( y; ~+ E其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,! o9 R& B5 \+ K% t0 n
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
8 [0 r5 U! Y1 h- Z8 D3 {) A日日有車站,: ~- k7 w8 i( H
有目標!

+ l" N% E5 H! M6 N' Q8 L: i* kwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:; i) v; l# G4 V+ O+ M( @
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
& z& u; ?$ W7 A& K* G* u& A1 {好唔鍾意呢種感覺
* b# K2 z) ~! F9 A" Q琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
- V0 J3 X; S% `: K' l( d( K3 p) D3 o個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
7 q4 `1 W* g/ d: N0 c2 n5 r覺得好空虛
1 W9 u+ n$ g  T' [其實早幾次都有試過係咁$ A# y- E: F& M! K( C4 q, H
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
1 J+ n. G; v1 O" y, u用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
2 F& e3 `& x6 ^7 l6 H0 B) J

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8 _  x# j& ?+ |* w; R% U& B這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.9 W3 G/ T' h9 F- x
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足., K  v6 A* ]3 y
有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own., G5 f- Z) [7 Y2 b, _

' d2 g" J- y* D0 }7 fPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:/ t; }2 j/ `, Q* Y
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long  X+ n+ }# K$ s( [$ v* L/ h( N
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.: {% g/ e' N( j( A% K9 A2 f0 r
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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$ G7 H- @* P/ \, o# f) Y& `$ HJust another thought on lonliness:
8 J" p  I/ m: r4 W7 T1 D! P0 WLonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....& Z2 {& m" n3 l1 E) R
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～
- a6 Z# ?9 K& N# y/ R我會有一種十分空虛的感覺& R3 _% i1 \; Z: l" z$ `" V: v" P
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影9 i: A* a/ @; T. S$ w3 b
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
7 F& T1 ?. E. ^5 S7 y: ~空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
$ l) T* k* m, w2 S3 j6 ?很少會超過一天～. g1 R# i5 {5 m7 Y2 D( z1 u& l1 E
要期待更好的明天呀！