熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
0 F  H+ o" q5 s( y3 d0 p- T9 [好唔鍾意呢種感覺, P8 O- ^1 o2 D+ ^' x+ t
琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心+ I- x  W1 Z( K  U& M4 a
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣: m/ ?+ r# Q$ o6 M, N
覺得好空虛
, J6 L7 w2 _% x2 P6 \其實早幾次都有試過係咁
. ^& d- U2 @2 T8 D' D卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己$ @  l3 B9 N5 r8 a. e/ R
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?$ g9 F1 ]7 [' n/ p/ D, o9 r1 B
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funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,
7 b- M3 C, m! c5 K3 X/ v8 G但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
+ ]. d/ C( a2 L, I熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,& ~4 x' L, }# I6 u
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
- A1 |, G1 M' h. b# ]# l日日有車站,! a- q/ x2 t6 W0 ?# K* c
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙
+ A: Y+ }0 K' J! E" e你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
5 Y; x7 G0 \' j/ v如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

. ], P$ e% r, A  E- v6 U/ P我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.7 B" `3 u) V' T$ W3 b
感到空虛寂寞?傻啦...而係未玩夠.and.朋友離別既感覺姐..出去玩一晚..換黎兩星期寂寞..' n/ t' H9 K( ~
玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.
# l- g; m$ w- c) v& O5 |5 Z總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:+ r! I" ]% ]5 ^5 s
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
" Z2 `2 h$ U) c1 ^, H  _9 f; Y$ R所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,' t6 E2 F5 i, Y! `0 K
日日有車站," _- L3 n5 U2 H& E' g* w- ~
有目標!

/ ~$ p7 i- T# h9 U" S3 vwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
7 N; T% a) E5 v" n% m# t1 C如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?
. E1 c; L+ o, {7 K7 t5 D0 d' ?2 U: M好唔鍾意呢種感覺
$ _, K5 }: a! P7 w" Z) J2 m琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
5 ]+ I1 A. `: A2 }* C1 o* q" R8 g個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
7 b6 P8 p- T( Y* d覺得好空虛2 M) O/ ?3 _! C. R' L3 u8 D; Y+ h; z
其實早幾次都有試過係咁+ _1 m- s! K% R; N' d# R
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己/ p# ?3 W, p( N1 d2 {$ `+ u" V& T( F
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.0 m0 E4 ?& |9 y$ A
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
/ Z; m* y& s/ }+ J有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
7 ?  H6 r- g* q! Ha) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long5 M; ^7 O" ?0 ]- D9 z" b' D5 L
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.; Z, x' B2 [* O! ~4 Y
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.& y/ a( G& [3 q/ H1 l. z6 B
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Just another thought on lonliness:
' o+ g: y# g1 c. a1 R6 \Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....6 f- Z: S* N% f- Z* B( c" p
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～2 i" ^" N+ B7 Q, i2 p
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺/ \" X% I& c( V5 a, Q& F) x# Y3 k
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影
* [' ^2 N$ }, ?或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
1 d( n2 p$ u* h( e2 K空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉2 C# i9 t! M7 b2 ^0 O7 |
很少會超過一天～* g* Q  A5 W0 S$ i1 W. p# @
要期待更好的明天呀！