
Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 05:39 AM:
突然而來既事,當然好難講幫吾幫得上忙,不過非一朝一夕既事,如果攞出黎傾下,或者慢慢會有轉機...........情況就好似電車男追女仔一樣(樂觀).........咁當然,我地最多最多都只係做下軍師,比下意見........而且解鈴還須繫鈴人,就算現實上都有好多問題,難以由第二個人出手代替自己解決問題........所以咩叫真實朋友,咩叫虛擬朋友都冇分別...只在於真實既朋友你可以摸到、見到、掌握到,而令你信心大D,安全感高D.........但幫吾幫得上忙又另一回事,好難講話一定得
Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 06:02 AM:
補多句:處理一般問題&非一般問題
用問題解決問題,並不是問題,因為問題已經解決,但多數有手尾,但D人多數一貫都係咁做.% y' A+ j/ O9 S; f/ b: J3 a
但用問題之外既問題去解決問題,結果問題會越变複雜,但卻會出現前所未有既轉機,雖然吉凶難喻,但總比墨守成規好.
故事:墨子長於守城,又因為墨家思想係兼愛﹑非攻,當佢聽到楚國想造雲梯攻打宋國時,就去楚國搵造雲梯既公輸般模擬戰咁較高下(公輸般攻,墨子守),結果公輸般諗極辦法都贏唔到墨子。最後想殺左墨子,點知墨子話,你殺左我,仲有千千萬萬墨家子弟。
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 10:31 AM:
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呢個係一個殘忍ge 事實﹐但我都會覺得換個角度黎講﹐o個d 有形有體ge frds 都未必touch 到ur heart ... 雖然話如果現實中未必真正幫到大家﹐但係我諗如果幫得手ge 都會儘量去幫lor… 呢d 係限制… 係一d 冇辦法ge 事!
不過如果唔係呢d限制﹐我地又點會係網上面玩得咁放呢? 因為冇形體有可能會令人與人之間完全冇利益衝突﹐所以先隔膜冇咁大… 呢個係我ge 睇法 … 所以都係珍惜大家就好……
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-18 12:19 PM:8 r4 }( b: a, A2 k* D$ t( @6 Z
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Quoted from Playbr2
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[ Last edited by Triangel on 2006-10-18 at 12:22 PM ]
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-18 12:16 PM:
我成日都有呢種感覺:# p6 F% ~6 g5 \; \
覺得大家日日...
Originally posted by 12d3 at 2006-10-18 12:42 PM:' S3 f) b' ?! n1 w) `' G
很在於每個人對朋友的定義.0 q" }2 c# f: R" u7 s% Q
面對網上的朋友, 往往能夠暢所欲言. 你不想給他們知道的, 他們便不會知道, 不用刻意提防.* @4 R' P! ?8 M, J: ~5 d3 `
你認為這是朋友嗎?
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 12:49 PM:( @6 h. Y' b) z: m
i guess it's quoted from trista_cheong?
Originally posted by gn00987333 at 2006-10-18 01:07 PM:- l' ?: H$ T( u$ f
最起碼我都當你地係真正既朋友
我要講既只有咁多
明就明,唔明就算
Originally posted by gn00987333 at 2006-10-18 01:07 PM:5 n3 D0 @: E6 o( v
最起碼我都當你地係真正既朋友
我要講既只有咁多

Originally posted by 左輪仔 at 2006-10-18 03:16 PM:
當然有啦,雖然而家我少左上黎,
不過...
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 15:23:
ef 係講心﹐唔係講金!- B4 F$ {9 c, X3 P; ~
你走o左幾耐個個都隨時歡迎你返黎la 左仔~~![]()
Originally posted by 左輪仔 at 2006-10-18 03:34 PM:
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聽到呢句說話,真係有d感動![]()
Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 03:49 PM:
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我係指真實生活上既朋友,有事揾人幫,你都會先揾佢地.因為你可以見到佢地,咁做起事上黎你會信心大D,因為你可以摸到佢地所以安全感高D,.........但其實,幫吾幫得上忙又另一回事.......而且,反問一句,你對生活上既朋友又有幾深了解,你能踏足他們的內心深處嗎??, d# n2 p/ ]$ d2 Y5 U8 u* x) i
至於,上網既朋友係虛擬性質的,因為在日常生活上我們未必真正影響到你/控制你........而表面上大家沒有身份地位區別,所以可暢所欲言,講一D平時未必同人講既野(秘密、私隱、赤裸裸的''性''),........但實質上你我双方都有不能越過的防火牆,就好似你既個人資料,身份利益等等............如果知得太詳細,玩得太投入,变左真實朋友,大家就會不其然地想控制/影響對方,咁暢所欲言的空間就會消失........因為虛擬朋友你不能摸透,所以會覺得他們在真正有事時幫不上忙.......但其實在心靈上,他們是唯一可以透達你內心痛處既知己........- {/ b C3 X7 \ ?& }, O) B# l
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Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 02:58 PM:# T5 [6 E, G2 }
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做咩gn囡突然串o左咁多呀?![]()
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 02:58 PM:
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做咩gn囡突然串o左咁多呀?![]()

Originally posted by benson00 at 2006-10-18 09:46 PM:* A% j3 ?; Z2 h& h; O: p
大家萍水相逢,岩傾咪講多句,唔會唸做唔做到朋友。
就算傾得好投契,都只係網上虛擬。
識朋友都係要係現實世界中,一齊相處過、覺得投緣、變friend,才是正路

Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-18 10:34 PM:0 H$ Q( S( h4 C; t5 u# M6 p
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呢d 只可能係一般網友在一般論壇的想法
但你知唔知 26FUN 比其它論壇優勝地方) K8 ?9 O. ^4 v6 S
因為26FUN內 d 網友 ' j1 b/ j! O- I
雙對黎講,% {4 {) x. w1 a
比較成熟,
交流比較深入. ^; w7 X1 ?% ^/ r
因此雙對關系都比較一般論壇d網友關系密切
,Tri姐姐


Originally posted by playbr2 at 2006-10-18 11:15 PM:
点關系密切先,Tri姐姐
我都未見過你盧山真面目
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Originally posted by gn00987333 at 2006-10-18 05:51 PM:, h, _7 _3 q$ U4 K; `+ h
因為我變左超正常所以我講野原全唔會理人感受

Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-19 01:05 AM:
唔好啦,! Z$ a" m' ]& `* U) H
以前有幾個網友
見過我盧山真面目之後6 T! w2 D1 Y$ b l( T
一個傻左,
一個都冇見過佢返過黎![]()
Originally posted by trista_cheong at 2006-10-18 15:23:* p& B! }; y# @, D9 m: ]* o7 c
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ef 係講心﹐唔係講金!! Z, v% `: e3 Q' E
你走o左幾耐個個都隨時歡迎你返黎la 左仔~~![]()
Originally posted by BOYDWAN at 2006-10-19 01:23 AM:6 c5 r6 i* N8 Q2 v' P' |8 g3 d! q" h2 ?
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trista 講出我心底話!" e8 m1 u/ X8 Q! F
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加分!個個都加分!+ r; m+ m4 u; u5 Y. r) I
唔理版主定會員都加分!% Z( S1 x4 R7 F [" t+ f+ j
相比一份緣份一份交情,呢d 分算得係乜?- Z+ X3 |0 D9 Z/ |
小小心意而已~![]()
Originally posted by pkbrian at 2006-10-18 07:58 PM:) P4 |5 P/ | a/ G7 h
講真啦3 L( v! |; }, u
我係網上面一向用心去識朋友^^, R( ^- C/ H* @
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雖然係ent fun 同大家唔係好熟
又少講野="=. _7 E- }' @+ o
但至少識每一個人都係一樣^^

Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-19 10:16 PM:
(小弟的愚見)
以心待人,以誠待人...
Originally posted by 自由神 at 2006-10-20 01:24 PM:: J+ E4 \3 g4 X# ]8 Y
講真句!友情?唔會有!6 R% a# C; H: A4 N" b
朋友往往係一個幫助你成功既工具!( ~$ q- I9 n3 \0 [
我俾人出賣過..........所以唔好怪我直接!
你對人好!你地未必對你好!
Originally posted by 自由神 at 2006-10-20 01:24 PM:
講真句!友情?唔會有!' W) G+ _8 e9 s: s" V
朋友往往係一個幫助你成功既工具!
我俾人出賣過..........所以唔好怪我直接!
你對人好!你地未必對你好!
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-20 11:57 PM:; q$ h. p. k) b
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以經濟學黎計算:2 d, g! c5 _6 o( v
保持一段寶貴...
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-21 12:23 AM:
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認識朋友的意義各有不同。* G+ l! g0 H& p& w+ n
如果真系要用。。。經濟學。。。來 作為 認識 朋友 的工具。。9 X- K( K0 u. F
可能就 要 從最初開始,看看對方是否值得投資了。
要不要再用 投資回報率 計算一下。。是否與自己的投資組合相配?
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-21 01:03 AM:( `! e1 x& q. L
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當然要,并且十分...
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-21 01:05 AM:
叻女!
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-21 01:08 AM:
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敢網上識朋友你又點睇?
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-21 01:11 AM:
駛唔駛 出黎 見面 先?, S4 k& M) X# h6 X
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唔駛 既 話。。。齋吹。。談天說地。。有乜所謂呢。。, j5 R; r$ z7 r1 p+ o w' z6 w
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Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-21 01:16 AM:
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今晚有時間入黎齋吹下% ?7 A" D$ x# D$ U
http://www.26fun.com/bbs/viewthread.php?tid=116775&fpage=1
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-19 05:19 AM:
多 d 入 [真‧頑童俱樂部] 玩下~. b: Y0 _$ t. K, r/ x' a" ^
不過我地有時玩得好 "dean" 家播~% k0 N5 D3 c/ C
http://www.26fun.com/bbs/viewthread.php?tid=116775&fpage=1
Originally posted by 自由神 at 2006-10-20 01:24 PM:6 |! Q/ ~6 r5 z! y2 b
講真句!友情?唔會有!
朋友往往係一個幫助你成功既工具!: D1 T$ u* j6 Y/ [7 T
我俾人出賣過..........所以唔好怪我直接!
你對人好!你地未必對你好!


Originally posted by teramishu at 2006-10-22 11:59 AM:
自由神[/size...
Originally posted by teramishu at 2006-10-22 11:48 AM:* _. k; u/ }. _& i& c3 v
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TriTri 有唔有发觉到...
Originally posted by teramishu at 2006-10-22 11:59 AM:
自由神[/size...
Originally posted by iMacc at 2006-10-23 08:54 PM:
我喺ef都唔算好耐~
發言唔算好多~
...
Originally posted by iMacc at 2006-10-23 08:54 PM:
我喺ef都唔算好耐~
發言唔算好多~
...
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-24 02:47 AM:. N* M9 Z; [! [7 F
好同意。。) u8 b6 U3 @# x* Q0 P( n! C
的而且確,有時候。。9 I- }. u. R* I, M2 N
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真系“該燴”。
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-24 03:37 AM:
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自己醒d未得 law


; ^. I1 l& z" F3 K. j- OOriginally posted by stanley_ckc at 2006-10-27 12:10 AM:) q/ J: c5 w; g$ ?% V C
不過很可惜之後因為一件事令當中有些朋友吵了,這兩年的友誼一夜告吹.......
Originally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-27 02:37 AM:
一段長時間建立友誼
一夜告吹
這未免太過可惜
(But the Sad Thing is: It Happen Quite Often To Everyone)
Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-27 02:39 AM:2 r5 a/ f2 A3 A% A% `( [% T
有時候, 友誼就是這樣。, o1 O+ c; m M/ W0 c# y
合久必分,分久必合。% m3 j+ ], f' l
有時候,唔見面,保持神秘感,7 u T% ]: B) F3 G' t: b
大家互相有一種,“彼此不要求” 的 保留心態。
未嘗不是一個維繫關係的方法。。
Originally posted by ckyckk at 2006-10-27 03:15 AM:
當然有啦,雖然而家我少左上黎,
不過...
( G/ w1 v# a3 VOriginally posted by Triangel at 2006-10-27 05:41 AM:( _, _% J& f O) y
vv1668vv:
你就比我Lucky啦,
合久必分 我就有一大籮
分久必合 就重未遇過
Originally posted by ckyckk at 2006-10-27 03:15:
當然有啦,雖然而家我少左上黎,1 j+ H, Z6 C/ D2 P/ H0 H
不過...
Originally posted by 左輪仔 at 2006-10-28 12:14 AM:
抄我![]()
Originally posted by ckyckk at 2006-10-28 12:40 AM:: b( g% \5 O @" U
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見係好野先"參考"咋. Q7 N; b! S0 S; C" c% }0 D$ N
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Originally posted by vv1668vv at 2006-10-27 02:39 AM:
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很認同
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