娛樂滿紛 26FUN - Powered by Discuz! Board

標題: [愛情診療室] 教下我點做 [打印本頁]

作者: elvisfong2003 時間: 2005-9-25 02:58 PM 標題: 教下我點做

我係學校識左個女仔,佢好好人而且係基督徒,佢對人幾好,又帶我返去教會度,我一直都好鐘意佢,係一個機會之下,我寫左張紙仔比佢同佢講,但佢對我一d意思都無,自此之後,我地兩個就好疏遠,再無講過野,見到面都唔理對方,但其實係我唔知點面對佢,但我仍然係好鍾意佢,我點算好

作者: dc3547 時間: 2005-9-25 03:55 PM

Puppy Love.

作者: elvisfong2003 時間: 2005-9-25 04:12 PM

唉!!有時候我都會去佢屋企附近撞下佢,我都唔知自己係唔係好傻,明知人地唔會理我都要咁做

作者: cwleung1988 時間: 2005-9-25 06:38 PM

用你對佢既細心去打動佢 ^^"
佢依家對你冇feeling..慢慢黎...
佢一日未有男朋友...
你一日都可以為佢做好多事...

作者: elvisfong2003 時間: 2005-9-25 08:14 PM

Originally posted by cwleung1988 at 2005-9-25 06:38 PM:
用你對佢既細心去打動佢 ^^"
佢依家對你冇feeling..慢慢黎...
佢一日未有男朋友...
你一日都可以為佢做好多事...

我知道我自己有好多野都令佢好唔鐘意,而且好多地方都比唔上其他人,呢個係佢其中一個唔接受我既原因,我真係有努力咁改ga,

作者: cwleung1988 時間: 2005-9-25 08:50 PM

比心機啦...人係會慢慢變既

作者: elvisfong2003 時間: 2005-9-25 09:20 PM

好似呢排咁,我次次見到佢都口黑面黑對住我,又可能係我諗多左,佢會唔會因為呢件事而好僧我呢,我真係好驚,唔知點好

作者: homan~ 時間: 2005-9-26 12:25 AM

Originally posted by elvisfong2003 at 2005-9-25 09:20 PM:
好似呢排咁,我次次見到佢都口黑面黑對住我,又可能係我諗多左,佢會唔會因為呢件事而好僧我呢,我真係好驚,唔知點好

bro~

你唔好煩住人先~
同人講清楚未架 ?????

你果d 改變, 佢知唔知先 ???
如果知, 佢點知先 ?? 你講定佢睇到 ??

佢中意d 咩人 ???
佢要求係咩????

如果過唔到最低要求, 咁...................>o<

作者: Miz 時間: 2005-9-26 12:43 AM

Originally posted by elvisfong2003 at 2005-9-25 09:20 PM:
好似呢排咁,我次次見到佢都口黑面黑對住我,又可能係我諗多左,佢會唔會因為呢件事而好僧我呢,我真係好驚,唔知點好

其實表白衰左一定要變得疏遠架咩...(唔好意思..我未試過 =v=)
你試下問下佢係咪介意你like佢..
而家搞到fd都冇得做?!! 定係你唔敢再搵人咋

作者: elvisfong2003 時間: 2005-9-26 06:22 AM

Originally posted by homan~ at 2005-9-26 12:25 AM:

bro~

你唔好煩住人先~
同人講...

其實佢係唔想而家拍拖,我係試過打比佢,約佢同幾個朋友食野,但佢次次都推我,就算佢真係要拍拖,對象都會係好叻個d人,我一直都係度改善緊自己,佢應該見到ga

[ Last edited by elvisfong2003 on 2005-9-26 at 06:26 AM ]

作者: homan~ 時間: 2005-9-28 12:37 AM

Originally posted by elvisfong2003 at 2005-9-26 06:22 AM:

其實佢係唔想而家拍拖,我係試過打比...

bro

你都知人要求啦
依家你有冇 ???

或者, 有d 咩野條件可以吸引佢呀 ???
依家你又有冇 ???

如果冇, 加埋reject 埋, ........................>o<

作者: elvisfong2003 時間: 2005-9-28 08:32 AM

Originally posted by homan~ at 2005-9-28 12:37 AM:

bro

你都知人要求啦
依家你有冇 ???

或者, 有d 咩野條件可以吸引佢呀 ???
依家你又有冇 ???

如果冇, 加埋reject 埋, ........................>o<

總之我而家都好亂,唔知點算好,佢又好似成日都避開好咁,之後我就唔敢再去麻煩佢

作者: YUEN_LOUIS 時間: 2005-9-28 10:30 AM

Originally posted by elvisfong2003 at 2005-9-28 08:32 AM:

總之我而家都好亂,唔知點算好,佢又好似成日都避開好咁,之後我就唔敢再去麻煩佢

我覺得你就唔好特登搵佢~自然d~做番未同佢講時
佢就應該唔會憎你,除非佢覺得你跟佢返教會有目的,利用左主~
你可以自己去教會到,以表示出你唔係借宗教黎接近佢.
問多一個問題~兄弟你幾大?

作者: elvisfong2003 時間: 2005-9-28 01:52 PM

Originally posted by YUEN_LOUIS at 2005-9-28 10:30 AM:

我覺得你就唔好特登搵佢~自然d~做番...

我已經20歲,你講既問題係我最擔心,我最怕係佢以為我想追佢至返教會,所以我每次係教會度都有d唔自然既感覺,當然啦,我覺得我係教會既生活係適合我同開心我至肯返啦,但係唔知佢會點睇我law

作者: YUEN_LOUIS 時間: 2005-9-28 10:22 PM

Originally posted by elvisfong2003 at 2005-9-28 01:52 PM:

我已經20歲,你講既問題係我最擔心...

你放鬆d,大方d~好似冇果件事咁,將關係正常化d先~
咁大個人,應該唔會因為小小事而憎你~可能尷尬啫

作者: homan~ 時間: 2005-9-28 10:47 PM

Originally posted by elvisfong2003 at 2005-9-28 01:52 PM:

我已經20歲,你講既問題係我最擔心...

佢避開你.............你又想追人, right????

bro,
不如諗下你中意佢d 咩先啦
決定好先出撃,

小心後悔..........ok ????

如果唔firm,
小心d 追追下冇左果 friend 呀 ~~~

作者: aiqidejiao 時間: 2005-9-29 12:56 AM

小弟面對緊既情況同你幾似
個女仔又係同我講話唔想拍拖住
自己又知道自己輸di咩
有di野係佢唔鍾意既
我都努力咁改緊
但係我既做法係
唔理佢一段時間
到過左一排
將真係唔同左既自己係佢面前出現

所謂有諸內形諸外
唔同左既話唔係講自然都feel到
而家係咁搵個女仔只會令人覺你煩
做到cheap晒
女仔係唔會like咁「痴纏」既男仔架
我之前就係衰呢樣

當然我唔知咁做得唔得
不過都係分享下
希望你同我最後都可以打動到心目中既女神啦~~~

作者: elvisfong2003 時間: 2005-9-29 09:55 AM

最慘係佢好似當唔識我咁,我真係好驚佢以後都唔理我

作者: YUEN_LOUIS 時間: 2005-9-29 03:07 PM

Originally posted by elvisfong2003 at 2005-9-29 09:55 AM:
最慘係佢好似當唔識我咁,我真係好驚佢以後都唔理我

唔話你蠢都對唔住自己!
佢唔睬你,你就算啦?
唔好死纏啫~唔係唔好叫佢嘛~
男仔主動d啦~
有適量咁接觸嘛

作者: elvisfong2003 時間: 2005-9-29 08:31 PM

Originally posted by YUEN_LOUIS at 2005-9-29 03:07 PM:

唔話你蠢都對唔住自己!
佢唔睬你,你就算啦?
唔好死纏啫~唔係唔好叫佢嘛~
男仔主動d啦~
有適量咁接觸嘛

我有ga,我通常有野至會搵佢,無咩事都唔想煩佢

作者: YUEN_LOUIS 時間: 2005-9-29 10:18 PM

Originally posted by elvisfong2003 at 2005-9-29 08:31 PM:

我有ga,我通常有野至會搵佢,無咩事都唔想煩佢

你有野至搵佢...就死得啦~
佢有野你幫手至係嘛~
或者食飯見到嗲2句都得啫

作者: elvisfong2003 時間: 2005-9-29 10:31 PM

Originally posted by YUEN_LOUIS at 2005-9-29 10:18 PM:

你有野至搵佢...就死得啦~
佢有野你幫手至係嘛~
或者食飯見到嗲2句都得啫

哦!!姐係放鬆d好似以前咁,當無野發生

作者: YUEN_LOUIS 時間: 2005-9-29 10:46 PM

Originally posted by elvisfong2003 at 2005-9-29 10:31 PM:

哦!!姐係放鬆d好似以前咁,當無野發生

無錯~!

作者: elvisfong2003 時間: 2005-9-29 10:47 PM

我會試下放鬆d,星期六我會見到佢,我都會同佢講下野

作者: YUEN_LOUIS 時間: 2005-9-29 11:20 PM

Originally posted by elvisfong2003 at 2005-9-29 10:47 PM:
我會試下放鬆d,星期六我會見到佢,我都會同佢講下野

唔好窮追猛打

作者: elvisfong2003 時間: 2005-9-29 11:28 PM

得啦,講幾句步就好

作者: tom321 時間: 2005-9-29 11:45 PM

之前出過post
又係表白衰左
同你一樣變得非常疏遠
幾乎無講個野咁濟
而家我一樣都唔知點做.....

作者: elvisfong2003 時間: 2005-9-30 09:24 AM

Originally posted by tom321 at 2005-9-29 11:45 PM:
之前出過post
又係表白衰左
同你一樣變得非常疏遠
幾乎無講個野咁濟
而家我一樣都唔知點做.....

原來有好多人好似我咁

作者: YUEN_LOUIS 時間: 2005-9-30 10:47 AM

16歲以下女性:覺得你傻下傻下~冇端端love佢,你一定有問題
16歲以上女性"尷尬

作者: elvisfong2003 時間: 2005-9-30 10:54 AM

我鐘意個女仔同我差唔多大

作者: YUEN_LOUIS 時間: 2005-9-30 12:10 PM

Originally posted by elvisfong2003 at 2005-9-30 10:54 AM:
我鐘意個女仔同我差唔多大

尷尬啫~同佢講下野,破左冰先

[ Last edited by YUEN_LOUIS on 2005-9-30 at 12:12 PM ]

作者: elvisfong2003 時間: 2005-9-30 01:51 PM

我試下同佢講幾句

作者: elvisfong2003 時間: 2005-10-1 09:26 PM

今日真係好唔開心,本來想開開心心咁同個女仔玩一日,點知個女仔避開我都唔止,重要係其他人面前講話我煩佢,原來佢一直都好介意上次個件事,基本上佢係好僧我,我真係好唔開心,好失落,原本我做咁多野只會令佢更加討厭,究竟我應該點好

作者: Fab_Vr6 時間: 2005-10-1 10:26 PM 標題: Try to become really good friends first

Hello,

I think you can try the following.

Try to become very good friends first, to a point where she is so comfortable talking to you and telling you what she thinks. But do it tacitely, do not rush or put pressure. If you guys can never become very close friends, chances are you guys will never be a good couple. Once you became very good friends, then slowly 'charm' her by doing some charming things, to make her attracted to you.

Try it, it may work! I've always use this approach

Gary

作者: elvisfong2003 時間: 2005-10-1 10:46 PM

都係算啦,講來講去都係我傻,係我自己情願,我唔應該咁做,搞到佢越來越討厭我,人地根本無鐘意我,就算我做得幾好都無用

作者: 5e16 時間: 2005-10-2 07:37 PM

bro,

我想你暫時只好打退堂鼓了

一個女仔對一個男仔ge壞印象, 並唔可以一朝一夕抺去的
現在你可以做的, 並唔係去同其他人澄清
唯有做好自己在教會內的角色, 盡好自己的責任
唔好刻意的去找那女仔 (i mean 冇乜必要都唔好搵佢 bcoz of 對你的印象)

呢d未必會令到果個女仔鐘意你, 但最少會有少少改觀
可能到時有第二個女仔欣賞你呢~

作者: elvisfong2003 時間: 2005-10-2 11:23 PM

都唔洗解釋啦,咁搞法係人都以為我想追佢至返教會啦,唉!!!!不過真係要做返好自己既本份,比人知道我其實唔係d咁既人,而家只好見步行步

作者: keip5 時間: 2005-10-3 04:51 AM

elvisfong2003兄:
如果你真係鐘意佢...
俾d時間佢去再接受你做番朋友先!
你宜家去揾佢...佢只會覺得你好煩!
俞來俞討厭你...甚至憎你!
如果你冷靜一排... 再去見佢... 俾d誠意令佢唔再討厭你... 做番朋友先!
一步一步咁令佢對你有好感...倒時你可能有意外收獲!

不過...
*最緊要你真係好鐘意佢...如果唔係去追其他女仔啦!*

你唔去努力爭取...你唔會珍惜!

作者: elvisfong2003 時間: 2005-10-3 04:02 PM

Originally posted by keip5 at 2005-10-3 04:51 AM:
elvisfong2003兄:
如果你真係鐘意佢....

好多謝你

作者: keip5 時間: 2005-10-4 10:16 PM

Originally posted by elvisfong2003 at 2005-10-3 03:02 AM:
好多謝你

唔駛!

唔知幫唔幫到你!

希望你得啦!

作者: BOYDWAN 時間: 2005-10-4 10:20 PM

very simple，keep in touch先啦，就算未做到情侶，做好朋友都好好feel咖~~緣份要嚟就自然會嚟，唔駛急！

作者: elvisfong2003 時間: 2005-10-4 11:33 PM

其實呢幾日心情都唔係好好,好彩可以係度講晒d唔問心野出來

作者: gundamman678 時間: 2005-10-5 12:42 AM

忘記佢

好明顯佢對你無意思

作者: elvisfong2003 時間: 2005-10-5 08:24 AM

Originally posted by gundamman678 at 2005-10-5 12:42 AM:
忘記佢

好明顯佢對你無意思

可能早d死心會好d,不過死家搞成咁至放手已經太遲

作者: elvisfong2003 時間: 2005-10-5 11:14 AM

Originally posted by BOYDWAN at 2005-10-4 10:20 PM:
very simple，keep in touch先啦，就算未做到情侶，做好朋友都好好feel咖~~緣份要嚟就自然會嚟，唔駛急！

而家見親佢就口黑面黑,唔方唔好feel

作者: keip5 時間: 2005-10-5 12:07 PM

你有冇嘢做咗可以令你地關係好D???

作者: Rika 時間: 2005-10-5 01:40 PM

Originally posted by elvisfong2003 at 2005-10-1 09:26 PM:
今日真係好唔開心,本來想開開心心咁同...

你自己應該有左結論啦

作者: Rika 時間: 2005-10-5 01:44 PM

Originally posted by elvisfong2003 at 2005-10-5 11:14 AM:

而家見親佢就口黑面黑,唔方唔好feel

個頭開得唔好，係難搞D架喇，都無辦法
如果你仲想日後有機會，唯一可以做就係 keep in touch，扮住普通朋友先啦

作者: elvisfong2003 時間: 2005-10-5 01:58 PM

Originally posted by Rika at 2005-10-5 01:44 PM:

個頭開得唔好，係難搞D架喇，都無辦法
如果你仲想日後有機會，唯一可以做就係 keep in touch，扮住普通朋友先啦

唯有係咁啦

作者: elvisfong2003 時間: 2005-10-9 10:04 PM

今日係個女仔其中一個好朋友口中知道其實個女仔本身都好尷尬,所以至會成日避開我,又可能我真係諗得太多.

作者: abcc 時間: 2005-10-11 11:46 AM

佢有冇icq先
你可以係icq同佢講ma
話我都唔想你好尷尬做番朋友之類個d 之後係icq同佢傾傾....
同埋緊記唔好令佢覺得你煩住佢呀!!!!!要俾佢冷靜一排

作者: elvisfong2003 時間: 2005-10-11 07:17 PM

佢好少開icq個d,我打比大家冷靜一排,等件事淡左至在同佢講

作者: tom321 時間: 2005-10-21 08:21 PM

你既情況同我極為相似
我既諗法都暫時同你一樣
我需要一個機會同佢能夠自然d接觸番

作者: CHECSS 時間: 2005-10-21 08:32 PM

i think she is loving you too !!!!!!!!!!wishes you good luck !!!!!!!!!!!!!

作者: greatzelda 時間: 2005-10-23 12:36 AM

Originally posted by elvisfong2003 at 2005-9-25 02:58 PM:
我係學校識左個女仔,佢好好人而且係基...

人地帶你返教會係想你信教,你竟然利用機會接近佢,人地當然會避你啦,死心吧,我都係過來人

作者: kingdom 時間: 2005-10-23 12:44 PM

唉～～～
你ｇｅ處境同我一樣呀～！！
我都唔知點算，好尷尬呀見到佢．．．．
我依家冇咩期望，只係想同佢做番好朋友ｊａ！！
我同個女仔傾過．．．
佢都話要時間，冇可能一下了子就做番以前咁ｆｄ．．．．
唔好勉強呀，等時間過啦．．．
時間會沖淡一切架～！！
希望個女仔好快就同你ｆｄ番啦～～～
希望我都係啦．．．＞＜

作者: elvisfong2003 時間: 2005-11-6 11:18 AM

呢排都幾好咁啦,自己都諗通左少少,發覺而家呢段時間似乎都係做好自己先,我好比心機做好自己d野,不論係讀書定教會既工作,身邊d人都覺得我進步左,好開心

作者: kobe14725 時間: 2005-11-6 09:56 PM

先將時間用於其他地方.她有可能會注意到你改變
但我勸你都是找另一個好些.因為一個女仔對你有壞印象.好難改變她想法

作者: elvisfong2003 時間: 2005-11-7 03:37 AM

Originally posted by greatzelda at 2005-10-23 12:36 AM:

人地帶你返教會係想你信教,你竟然利用機會接近佢,人地當然會避你啦,死心吧,我都係過來人

我都想聽下你d經歷wo

作者: elvisfong2003 時間: 2005-11-7 03:38 AM

Originally posted by kobe14725 at 2005-11-6 09:56 PM:
先將時間用於其他地方.她有可能會注意到你改變
但我勸你都是找另一個好些.因為一個女仔對你有壞印象.好難改變她想法

希望佢對我態度會改變啦

歡迎光臨娛樂滿紛 26FUN (http://www.26fun.com/bbs/)