[5/19兩性加分題] 大男人

truelove

有無得改無咁大男人 ? 或者要經歷多一點, 才有改變呢 ?
經一事長一智, 呢方面你有無想分享下呢 ? 不論感情
事業 家庭 想聽多大人講下~~~

[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-5-20 at 11:48 AM ]

jason williams

大男人 or 大女人 also belong to a personal character
is developing from childhood, really difficult to change
except having a great event happen on him/her or their mind suddenly opened.......
but the probability is low, so if u really can't stand a guy with this kind of character,
i think u should better dun choose those guys or leave them
dun think u can change the character of a guy so easily
so sometimes i would not so agree that some guys always want to change their lovers to his/ her ideal type because u should know what yr lover's style is b4 u are dating with him/her
just my view

[ Last edited by jason williams on 2005-5-15 at 03:03 AM ]

truelove

咁要改變自己去遷就一段感情, 會有結果嘛 ?

jason williams

Originally posted by truelove at 2005-5-15 03:23 AM:
咁要改變自己去遷就一段感情, 會有結果嘛 ?

if u think it is worth to change yrself to "遷就" him/her, then is ok
because none of the couple would be entirely  "甲", if no ideal case, then 遷就 each other is a must case, just see how much u need to 遷就, would it be over yr torerate level

but, if u already have a thinking that u can't stand about him/her
why need to be so hard that to change yrself to an entirely different person
if so, really happy ma? u have lost yr self personality
from my view, if this happen, u should think clearly about, u are still loving him/her or just want to keep the relationship, if just want to keep the relationship, but u are unhappy, i dun think the result will be gd, so in this way, i think dun waste so much time lor

so, 一係唔好計o甘多付出既問題, 要計的話就要自私d, 至少自己要開心先啦

vivienna

如果你係大男人﹐就要找個小女人喇

老鬼X

Originally posted by vivienna at 19xx-6-30 04:12:
如果你係大男人﹐就要找個小女人喇

同意呀!:cool:

trista_cheong

jason williams + 15 for good responses

jublio

我覺得大男人係佢嘅本性(正如jason williams所講！)，邊有得改！

我有個朋友係超大男人，脾氣又大…佢地初初一齊個陣，男嘅好遷就個女仔，不過久而久之，個男仔覺得辛苦，大男人性格又走返晒出黎。結果咪又係分手！

不過佢地兩個係相愛對方，分完又再一齊返，離離合合好多次…唉~有時做朋友睇住佢地咁都覺得佢地辛苦，成日要就黎就去…

其實兩個人一齊最緊要舒服，可以做返自己係最好！你為佢改唔到幾多野…呢一刻你改到但係日子耐咗始終都會打回原形。

Rika

大男人無得變嫁喎, 我唔知第個, 我就變唔到
我就算好鐘意我女友都好啦, 我都係咁大男人, 係變都變少少嫁姐
無得變晒, 變得晒我就唔洗差唔多日日都同我女友鬧交啦
佢又成日話我e樣唔岩o個樣唔好, 成日唔就佢
佢又無諗下我感受, 有時我就下佢, 佢都要就返我先得嫁
o個一步要大家一齊行先得, 我同佢叫做有d進步嫁喇
由一星期鬧五日, 冷戰兩日, 變到一星期鬧兩日, 算係咁啦
如果話要由大男人一變變到唔大男人, 我諗要經歷下d大事, 生離死別咁上下
如果唔係應該一路都改唔到

Rika

Originally posted by jublio at 2005-5-20 11:32 PM:
其實兩個人一齊最緊要舒服，可以做返自己係最好！

我完全同意, 支持到極點, 直頭就係重點, 解釋晒全部
要女友面前都要帶住面具做人, 慘過死, 不如算
要一起就做返自己, 要就一齊就, 要散都無計