熱鬧過後..剩下真的只有寂寞嗎?[積極回應者+]

halu

如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?# h' [) ?/ j; j- Q& q) r3 g  v5 d
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
( b5 Q5 `! u- E& m- E0 ?- z琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心
: l# n, [7 O  l+ D3 e* {個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
0 I% [% b( O0 Q覺得好空虛, x+ S# I4 f3 W$ ~& Y. d
其實早幾次都有試過係咁' B/ t! b/ j- G+ H4 @) D
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己
' y( D; R* Q4 [: G用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?6 d& a% R; H( ]2 x( h# c
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[ Last edited by 樂壇渣Fit人 on 2005-6-6 at 09:30 AM ]

funnygay

空虛既感覺我經常都有,本來係唔鐘意既,- f: e! f- r# X4 i
但係久而久之, 發覺自己愛上呢種感覺
8 \& z' `5 D" ~熱鬧過後既寂寞會令我feel到呢個世界寧靜既一面

Christy~呀華

其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,
4 w& w: j5 W) g6 C7 n# E所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
1 A: Y; ?: I6 t8 s: I: C日日有車站,/ d! `" }9 s0 u" _
有目標!

taipotse

令自己有咁忙得咁忙: M! u# `( ^' p; K: h$ |7 G! }
你覺得可唔可以忘記寂寞呀?

markmk

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:) g* c0 E: w8 Y+ r8 z. l  R! p
如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可...

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我都有試過好似你咁樣諗.但係你試想下.出去玩係求開心.每天返工放工既生活係好沉悶.
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) y5 `, F% P9 _玩當然要有付出.你倒轉黎諗下.你寂寞左兩星期後再出去玩.咁樣出去玩咪仲開心.$ D, e! X4 R) j  X8 L- A
總好過你日日出去玩,而覺得出去玩係悶啦.

本篤十六世

Originally posted by Christy~呀華 at 2005-6-6 01:31 AM:' ^% |5 _7 d9 b. T' G
其實任何熱鬧過後都會有寂的一刻,9 a) B. S6 h+ E' Y5 _
所以我條仔教我做人要似架火車,
( i8 n% D, U6 }2 z$ P. r9 t日日有車站,
' F! E0 B8 P: V: t有目標!

, q# ~* g+ R$ j: b5 w2 u4 @5 vwhat does he mean ar?no point

rest365days

Originally posted by halu at 2005-6-6 12:38 AM:
- W8 n  v) p2 }6 ~6 K如果係..除左等時間過..仲有咩辦法可以解決?- b. w2 o8 {1 k2 a2 }
好唔鍾意呢種感覺
- i4 [0 W) p! [( ?8 B/ d& O琴晚同一大班fd落bar飲..飲完都好開心6 s2 ^$ ?7 e3 _' ^" c5 P8 }% Z
個人醉醉地個感覺好好..到今朝起身清醒番果陣
9 @6 ^& d+ m9 C# i9 J  N3 I) T* `覺得好空虛0 ]4 D" h( J! j' Q7 X
其實早幾次都有試過係咁/ e/ p6 F7 b! k( O) C2 P
卒之唔開心左兩個禮拜..其實都唔可以話唔開心咁..只係唔想講野..好想收埋自己) \" L/ a# a# c# M+ |
用一晚ge開心換兩個禮拜ge寂寞..值得嗎?
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這種所謂”開心”其實好似捱夜時飲咖啡上電一樣, 好快會消失哂效力.  而你嘅身體有無真正強壯咗?  好明顕係越搞越殘啦.' Q, r$ A+ N+ p. R2 [4 I/ p$ R- _( G" n
唔係話一班fd一齊玩係唔好, 有時熱熱鬧鬧真係幾過癮.  但係呢種係一種短暫嘅剌激.  如果次次都係吹吓水, “hair”完一輪就散, 我敢講呢種關係唔會長久, 始終大家係交個心出嚟至得.  長遠嚟講, 你需要搞清楚自己嘅人生方向, 因為一日唔知自己想點, 心靈都好難得到滿足.
* ?  n: I( O" ]) a1 S有人會想開間鋪頭, 有人想環遊世界, 有人想做義工, 亦當然有人想搵好多錢..而你呢? 身邊有無人支持你, 同你拍住上?  好似另一位會員所講, 知道架火車去邊, 知道下一站停邊處, 就無自然無咁空虛啦.:cool:

Gretzky

Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own., N4 q& p0 l4 E7 S5 d, c, t
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
* ~/ g; L5 {3 ~5 q% wa) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long1 ]& T- N) P" b7 R! [. w9 a- N( k+ @* W
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.) m2 i( ~" z+ I- p7 W1 p" j
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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" L* D7 s4 t/ U8 @' pJust another thought on lonliness:( D' x1 p& |  G5 [, [
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad.

Jho808

Actually........u feel lonely is it becoz u just want  to keep up  the happy time.....2 ^! f) A/ r" N7 o
But i don;t think u should think of loney, becoz u have tons of friends....u are not alone....and your friends are not leaving u......FRIEND IS FOR EVER.....!!

遊戲

真的啦～. Z/ Q+ ?+ b" F/ R
我會有一種十分空虛的感覺; V! W! ]1 Q9 {/ K2 k( w
就好似睇完一套好睇的電影( \1 p. n- {- W8 f6 O
或是打爆一隻得好玩的ＲＰＧ咁囉～
( A- c$ i( M; H4 E. _- _空虛的感覺只會維持一陣囉
5 k2 X' H5 O  E0 i很少會超過一天～
+ P0 Y0 p. m, c( M6 J6 m. _要期待更好的明天呀！