大家樂1234

勸佢收手
) j$ D" O1 T0 {" m% g6 Y% r假如仍不知悔改就要佢負上法律責任8 k8 H  {6 }- ?& V$ G6 O' ~3 ]9 L
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jason williams

in fact, under this situation, we really would not be so intellective sometimes, that means we will solve it in a little bit "9" way! ^0 ~- f; [! q# T! x  U
consider in the following (not in order):
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) v$ E5 c! ?  _! D7 J  V' \1st, how close the relationship we are?
2 U4 R& j, M, O& m( S2nd, how serious he/she has done?5 _1 K' Q$ G1 O
3rd, would it affect other seriouly after i help/not help him?
% X5 g9 f8 }* f$ `/ d# S1 N  Q- n4th, even worst problem he/she has made, why he/she did it? any good excuse?
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% n7 X9 i5 R: X2 Nfor me:
0 g0 l4 P1 j6 v' l1 [i may ask my "good heart" first, that means i may 大義滅親 if they have done a serious problem, just like murder because this is gd way for they to self-questioning and searching, also this is a 交代 to the victim.2 L" J/ ^  H& r. f5 {  C% b0 R
but if they have a very good excuse, just like self protection, then i may advice them to surrender, because their crime can be understood under Law (just like HK this kind of place with gd law situation)
8 x" r4 \( {  `$ r- s8 P# ~9 Ubut for some situations just like murder in China, smuggle of drugs in thai land, than they must die, then i may help them to cop, but sure they should have a very good excus for me to help !!!7 U, R: X$ S) @: {! A

( I2 \: ^1 C/ Hbut whatever, i think we should put our 良心 first b4 doing anything and need to 將心比己!!!

wer

小事會,大事不會.留案底或坐監對父子前途影響甚大,所以不告.小事就沒所謂,當買個教訓

aiqidejiao

父為子隱，子為父隱

老鬼X

觀點/角度 好難答

jennifer

不能比成我了，就事论事吧，因果关系，所谓大义灭亲，这个大义是指大局，大事，大众的利益来看。所以舍弃亲情，来用法律或善恶惩罚来对待亲人，第一个例子呢，我认做得对，这算是大义救亲吧，小偷小摸终会铸成大错，在大错之前，绳之亲子，算是救他，助他而已，谈不上灭，可能是父亲一片苦心。
7 ^% Y6 W2 Q9 {! K; k* B7 e第二个呢，是小义灭亲吧，这个小义是指怕连累自己，拖累家人，而举报，如仅仅为了减少对社会危险，那么方式不局限于报警这个极端手法。3 J. L0 w. ^  ]# A! d9 t
人们总把大义与民簇与群体相联，一已私利算不上大义，这是个人观点，求分啊，分太少。

ricojohny

無論要滅邊個; @, x5 [8 B. L  ]- X4 H
只要有數我都會滅