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發表於 2005-6-6 02:00 PM
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Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:) |3 S) \2 \0 j
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long
6 H9 g- N. d4 P/ E* E; X0 p7 ?b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.1 R5 i- s5 ^' b6 {
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.1 a+ \+ V+ H4 D7 n3 U$ |
; }$ t6 t7 U% q) G) ?Just another thought on lonliness:/ c3 r; _) y$ g g+ Y" z
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad. |
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