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發表於 2005-6-6 02:00 PM
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Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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! r m D7 W' r0 R* pPeople feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:; M& ^6 W+ v* M) d3 J
a) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long+ F! o2 f$ j1 Y! s1 |
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.% e3 _7 D# s. E# G# q$ H3 M7 R
c) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.5 z, R& K" H' T0 h+ I8 m- t
5 w, K- @/ Z1 w* BJust another thought on lonliness:
! V$ H1 c3 J2 G5 i- a, r+ y/ H( x* ?Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad. |
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