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發表於 2005-6-6 02:00 PM
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Solitude is part of life....we long for company....but secretly we crave for that rare moment of quiteness on our own.
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People feel 'empty' or 'depressed' after a great outing because:
R( s( j6 N# B* P5 b7 ua) they know this 'feeling' of contentment can not last long4 O7 o! _0 I, z& l
b) they hate to be alone, so they loiter with people...but it's in large group they 'discover' they want to be alone.
6 n: l$ a' W) b( k: Hc) the contrast is too great between togetherness and lonliess.
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% M9 ?1 r7 S' GJust another thought on lonliness:5 H# ~$ b# `9 O" _; J7 }
Lonliness is not the feeling at your first day of school/work/new life in another country. It's normal to be alone in those circumstances. Loliness is the realization that you're indeed alone after spending years w/ your friends, co-workers, peers, and family members. That's sad. |
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